Do you think that exlovers can be friends or friends can be future lovers?
By marianna45
@marianna45 (1399)
Romania
August 12, 2009 12:52am CST
In my opinion, lovers can t be friends after a love relation, just because they will remember all the time about story, and they can t stop to feel something, love i mean.
But good friends, step by step, when they know each other better, and know what they like can be inlove; is possible.
What do you think about this?
5 responses
@Babijai24 (37)
• United States
24 Aug 09
me n my ex r great friends so yes...n me n my current gf have been friends for 4years n now we boo lovyn :)
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
12 Aug 09
i reckon it would be possible, like not all relationship break up on a bad note and you sometimes have to get along as friends for the kids sake. that's better than not having any contact when dropping the kids off. my bro in law is friends with his ex- wife and they get along fine.
friends to lovers that's a good question, a good point would have to be that you both already know what each other are like and don't have to go over it all again. but at the same time if it doesn't work out you could lose a very good friendship.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
12 Aug 09
i reckon it would be possible, like not all relationship break up on a bad note and you sometimes have to get along as friends for the kids sake. that's better than not having any contact when dropping the kids off. my bro in law is friends with his ex- wife and they get along fine.
friends to lovers that's a good question, a good point would have to be that you both already know what each other are like and don't have to go over it all again.
@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
12 Aug 09
Yes, that's one of the "wonders" of having friends. Friends could be a challenge (especially when they gossip or backstab you), they could also make you happy. Ex-lovers or not, they're still humans, they've not committed a crime, so they can have platonic relationships. On the contrary, ordinary friends, if they get along well, could end up as lovers or life partners.
That's life.
@ashley1171 (109)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I think that ex lover's can be friends, but it won't come easy and it won't come naturally. They will always be wanting more, and I know that from experience. They will always be wanting that spark back, that relationship, that love. It's very hard to be friends after a relationship, but if the person means enough to you, it can be done.
I also think that it would be very hard for friends to be future lovers, unless they have the connection from the beginning, and they develop that relationship from the beginning. But if they start out as friends, they will really only see each other as friends instead of a romantic interest.
