Out going Call OR SMS, Which you prefer?
By Iriene88
@Iriene88 (5343)
Malaysia
August 15, 2009 9:31am CST
I believe almost all of us have a handphone.
We sometimes SMS our families and friends, at times we prefer
to call directly. I believe it depends on the urgency of the
matter. If it is just a greeting or sharing of information, we
might just sms so that the other party can read anytime when they
are free. If we need a two-way conversation and immediate response,
we will call them directly.
By the way, do you attend to your sms immediately? It is advisable
not to read sms while your are driving, some country has enforce the
law to prohibit car drivers to use handphone while driving.
Do share your views and experience here.
All the best and happy myLotting!
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20 responses
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 09
Dear brienn,
Totally agree with you, sms is cheaper and less hassle.
Especially those who can text very fast. Many line provider
giving free 100 sms per month to encourage user to text. This
is really a good promotion, no wonder my friends like to text me
to inform me everything from who she is with, what she is eating
and where is she now...just to update all her friends - like
'twitter only'
Makind direct call is important too when we need an instant response
from the other party, expecially we can hear our love ones' voice..
if can see them 'face to face' even better...but one thing about
handphone camera...we look weird and seems like on 'slow motion',
do you notice that
All the best and do keep in touch!
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 09
Dear Kev,
To me, texting is taxing, cos I am not that good with short forms..normally
it will take longer time for me to type sms, as I preferred to type
in proper grammar so as to make sure that the other party understand the
contents. Another good method will be set the common reply using templates
but I do not use this features too!
Thanks and do keep in touch :)
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
18 Aug 09
I normally prefer sms instead of calling mainly because sms is free for me. Outgoing calls cost money. Besides, some people do not have free incoming calls. So for the benefit of both myself and my friends, I prefer to sms unless unavoidable. I call only when I need immediate response :)
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 09
Dear whyaskq,
You are very practical and considerate too.
I agree with your opinions that sms is free
(base on some promotions, or if have to pay,
it is much cheaper compared to calls)
You are very considerate and thoughful, thinking for a better
way in communications between you and your friends, keep it up!
Thanks for sharing, happy myLotting!
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
16 Aug 09
I prefer to SMS much more. As I have to pay for it no matter I make a call or receive a call. And receiving SMS won't cost anything. Besides, SMS is not disturbing. Sometimes it is annoying to receive a call in an inconvenient time.
I love China
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
16 Aug 09
Hi Iriene,
SMS or call is individual choice but i am always pro call. This for the simple reason i know what ever message i wanted to convey has been conveyed to the man concerned and no I am not sure if i read SMS in time. Also no one can trust operators, sometime they take 24 hours to deliver a message and by the time you get the message the urgency is over and probably the SMS is useless by that time. SO i always prefer call over Short Messaging Service.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 09
Dear agrim94,
When there was a delayed in the message, it may cause unforseen
problems to both parties. As I mentioned earlier, it can cause
misunderstanding too. End up 'double work', have to call to check
whether the recipient receive the message or not. Double charges
too..1st on the sms, then on call - have to pay twice.
You are absolutely right, if something is urgent, it is wise to
call directly and have 2 ways communications.
All the best and do keep in touch :)
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
16 Aug 09
Hi Iriene,
SMS or call is individual choice but i am always pro call. This for the simple reason i know what ever message i wanted to convey has been conveyed to the man concerned and no I am not sure if i read SMS in time. Also no one can trust operators, sometime they take 24 hours to deliver a message and by the time you get the message the urgency is over and probably the SMS is useless by that time. SO i always prefer call over Short Messaging Service.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 09
Dear agrim94,
Thanks for reminding me on this, you are absolutely right!
Sometimes it do happens where the line operators (providers) system
have a glitch. It may delays the sms messages. I did received a sms
late by nearly 12 hours. My friend thought that I purposely did not
reply her sms, or avoiding her. So, she can't wait for my reply any
longer, so she called me directly and asked me why I did not response!
I met her later and showed her that I did not receive it at all.
The next day, a beep came in showing a delayed message....
That could damage my rapport ...lol
Yes, if any urgent matter need to discuss, the best is still direct phone
call....2 ways communications avoids misunderstanding too :)
Thanks for sharing and hope to hear your views on my other topics too!
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@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
17 Aug 09
I am one who prefer calling to sms. Calling is a two-way instant communication. SMS takes time to response. SMS is not immediate. However, if I cannot get the called party, then I'll SMS to him. In Singapore, there is a law that not allow you to even hold you phone while driving because there is an intention to use.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 09
Dear James,
It is true that calling is a two-way instant communication.
I believe most of your calls are for business purposes?
It is more appropriate to call rather than sms when dealing
with official matters. Sms is definitely a good alternative
to inform the other party in case the lines cannot get through.
Thanks for sharing and take care!
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
16 Aug 09
Iriene88,
Short text messages are indeed a useful application and I am sure the majority of cell phone owners will agree with me here.
As for me, you may call me a geek where I literally use every functions and applications of my Blackberry, so yes Short Text Messages is just one that I will use equally often in both my work and leisure.
One of the usefulness of this application is that you can be found unobtrusive or not intrusive or odd as in a call. Having a cellphone is indeed very easy and convenient to make a call, but we can never be sure that the other party is ever in the mood or luxury to attend to our calls. So, in this sense SMS would be deemed as thoughtful and sensitive tool for our communication. An very good example will be sending love messages whilst our love ones are at work and just do not know if they might be in another one of those impromptu meetings or plain busy.
Then, there is of course when we are at different time zones where we simply could not be calling each other on our daytime hours. So, a short message just goes a long way of staying in touch and letting the other party know that we are fine at the other end.
On the issue of attending to these messages, I would say most of the time I do read them almost immediately when they arrive. But, it will have to wait when I am preoccupied with work or driving on the road. It just have to be so, and it is good to observe this so that your friends or love ones will know that you are probably busy when the reply is being delayed.
Texting or reading text messages whilst driving is just very dangerous and should never be done at all cost. You are just endangering everyone including the people in your car and your very self. I will even have second thoughts making or picking up a call.
Yes, the calls and texts may be important but it can wait a while, at least till we reach our place of destination or stop for rest. Better late than never, right?
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
17 Aug 09
Iriene88,
Talking on the mobile whilst driving is already distracting enough to be considered dangerous and texting or even reading incoming messages is even more distracting.
So, I wouldn't want to bother if those messages comes in when I am at the wheel, life is just much more important than any messages. I mean it is not as if we will not have the time later, so, a little hesitation and patience is just the order of the day here.
I can understand your husband's recent loss, but then, let's hope that he will learn his lesson this time.
Take care.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 09
Dear skysuccess,
YES, life is more valuable...we should always think SAFETY FIRST!
My husband did learn his lesson, BUT not well enough.
He repeated his mistake again this year...
While he was driving home from his hometown with my son
in the car, the phone ring.....he should not pick it up
while driving unless he is on 'hands free' or speaker phone.
He should look for a safe place and park aside and return the call.
No, he did not do that, instead he picked up the phone and talk
which he needs to turn back to his hometown again to collect something
that he forgotten. The things is important but is not URGENT. Due to
lack of concentration becuase talking on the phone, as he makes a
illegal U-Turn, a van knocked him...but in this case he is WRONG.
My son got a shocked, thakd God nothing happen but my husband right
hand swollen due to the impact and his car..again - badly damaged!
Therefore I remin him nowadays, do not attend to any calls when you
are driving unless you ar on 'blue-tooth' of 'hands-free'. It is still bad,
because it affect the focus on driving.... technology do have its pro & cons!
Thanks and take care, Happy myLotting!
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
17 Aug 09
Dear skysuccess,
I am glad to hear from you, really appreciate it!
You have shared very valuable views here...they are very useful
to all cellphone users. The Do's & Don'ts are very practical too!
I completely agree with you that '[b]Texting or reading text messages
whilst driving is just very dangerous and should never be done at
all cost'[/b]
This had happened to my husband a few years back.
He was caught at a traffic jam near the industrial areas.
So..while he was following the front car (an Alpha Romeo) bumper to bumper,
his cellphone beep to signal an incoming text messages. So, he pick up the cellphone & start reading the sms while his car moving slowly.[b]BANG[/b
he knocked the front car, his bonet is totally written off...
(Alpha Romeo are made from strong sturdy metal - not dented at all)!
He was really frustrated about it, especially the incoming text was a
spam message!AN EXPENSIVE LESSON TO LEARN
Thanks and do keep in touch:)
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@spalladino (17891)
• United States
15 Aug 09
I'm not a big fan of texting and prefer voice to voice conversation so that's what I normally do. Sometimes friends or family will text me if I'm someplace where cell phone usage is prohibited...for instance, at the V.A. medical center where my husband is treated...if they need to relay information to me immediately.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 09
Dear spalladino,
Oh yes, you remind me about the places where cell phones
usage are prohibited especially in the medical centre. It
seems it will affect the medical equipments there. But sad
to say, some just ignore, they still using by smses - will
sms have effect too? Do you know anything about it whether
sending and receving sms will affect the medical equipments
functions?...If it does, that is serious too!
In Malaysia, we are prohibited to use cell phone in the banks!
Most of the banks will put up the signage that 'usage of phone
are not alllowed inside the bank!"
Thanks for sharing, do keep in touch!
Btw, how is your husband now? Get well soon!
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@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
15 Aug 09
I rarely have a voice call with anyone unless they don't have mobile or it's a business call. I prefer SMS simply because I don't enjoy speaking. I don't drive, and I typically answer my txt messages as soon as I realize that I have one.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 09
Dear zoey,
I agree with you, we normally do direct calls
for business purposes. We will sms to families
and friends. It is convenient, they can read it
when they are free.
It is good that you do not have to drive.
Therefore you have the privilege to attend
to the messages instantly, that's great! Keep it up!
As one of the myLotter said, we might forgot about the
incoming messages if we procastinate and check later.
May be it do need some answers from us as soon as possible.
Thanks for sharing and do keep in touch, take care :)
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 09
Dear meapas,
I am just like you. I normally make direct calls since
most of the time my calls are to my customers. Since
it is official calls, I do not sms - not so prefessional!
Moreover, I do not have their cell phone numbers...
But I do sms my friends on some information, or to alert
them of on the latest updates on SALE, promotions etc :)
Thanks and happy myLotting!
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@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
16 Aug 09
I believe everyone from young to old, will have the mobile phones nowadays, and in some household, it even replace the land lines as a way of communication. It its not in Malaysia, you need to have a land line in order to enjoy the wired network, there will be lesser people subscribing to the telephone service.
As I uses my mobile phone often, I mean very often. And I think I am a heavy SMS user than phone calls.. As the rate of SMS is cheaper compared to making calls provided it's necessary..I normally will make calls only when I needed to get things attended immediately.. however, strangely my friends around me will like to use the call function more, and I have to keep reminding them that they should SMS instead, since I won't be able to come to the phone all the time especially when I am caring for my baby..
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 09
Dear cwong77,
Hehehe, I will be another one who will call you directly instead
of sending a sms....but do not worry about it because I do not
even have your cellphone number
It is good that you informed your friends that at times you
can't attend their calls since you are busy caring for your baby.
Does the incoming calls wakes your baby up from a nap? Or do you
put on silent mode?
I totally agree with you that sending sms is cheaper compared to
direct calls. Moreover many line providers having the promotions
on free 50 - 100 smses to close family members and friends! This
type of promotions is PERFECT for you
Thanks and do keep in touch!
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@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
15 Aug 09
I'd reply my SMS messages immediately as soon as my handphone beeps unless my handphone is off (no battery) or if I'm busy. It's always good to reply immediately but if you procratinate, you might forget to reply - that's my principle. I send more SMS than making phone calls.
In my country, driving while using a handphone is a serious traffic offence.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 09
Dear Kev,
You got a very good point there, it is good to reply immediately
because sometimes we might forget totally about it! Keep it up
It did happened to me twice, I saw the incoming message, but I said
since it is not that urgent, I will attend to it later...but as I
finished the task at hand, I tend to do another thing.....end up
when I check the message, I have to rush to meet my friend. The
message said ~ Meet up at 11:30 am at ....
When I read it is already 11.10 am, I have to get a quick shower
and rush off..thank God the place in nearby, or else letting others
wait for me wouldn't be nice :)
Thanks for sharing and do keep in touch
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@miks_redhot (132)
• India
16 Aug 09
i prefer sms rather than out going call... sms are much cheaper as compared to and economic .. while and outgoing call can be expensive especially when u r talking to ur good friends and u dont want to disconnect the call.. and some of us are addicted to addicted and whenever they call someone... they talk at least 15 minutes... so in a economic way and the time saving way sms are cheaper...
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 09
Dear miks,
You are absolutely right, sending sms is much cheaper,
convenient and save time too. One classic example is
my eldest sister, once she is on the phone, she can
converse at least 20-30 minutes, it will be costly if
she did this on a cell phone. Normally she will call me
via her land line which she can call 'as much as she want'
from a land line to another land line..with a fixed payment
of RM66 per month. BUT I will remind her to shorten her
conversations if she calls me on her cell phone. Sometimes
she forgot about it. It may cost her a 'bomb'..
Thanks for sharing, glad to hear from you. Hopefully I can
hear your views on my other topics too, do keep in touch
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@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 09
Yes,now all is use handphone.Me is prefer to use SMS more than call.But if when go out time me is use call better.Call is for me use urgency of the matter.For me is person will immediately to attend my sms and reply soon one.If driving time or busy time me will no to attend my sms or call.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 09
Dear Celine,
You are absolutely right, sending sms is much cheaper,
convenient and save time too. It is true that calling
is a two-way instant communication. It is good for
communicating 'urgent and important' matter.
You are a very practical person. Keep it up!
Sometimes I also communicate with my friends via sms each other.
It is quite fun at times when we are having gathering and do
not want to spoilt the ambience, so we will quietly sms each
other under the table...lol
Thanks for sharing, glad to hear from you.
Do keep in touch :)
@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
30 Oct 09
Dear Moon, yes for the no urgent thing we using SMS more cheaper than also can get time wait the respond. If urgent and important thing than we no time to wait them respond SMS we so must call than more faster. If important and urgent we SMS until respond SMS or call we than dun know what happen will get ready. Thank u sharing and bring me come to share.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
2 Sep 09
I very seldom send sms, but I do get them. My daughter will send me pictures of her and my grandson, nd I like that idea as they are very far away from me so having a picture of her is really nice. I do text some, but for the most part, I call, or my family calls me. My kids when they were greowing never had cell phones and neither did their father or me. Of course they weren't in existence when they were teens, but when my daugher is was young like in her 20's I think, she got her first cell phone, which I didn't know why she thought she needed it, but she bought it whether I thought it was a good idea or not. She is in her 30's now, do dhr hsd cell phones for a long time. She only has a cell as she doesn't use a landline, and neither do I. So calling is very important to me. Have a good day, and happy mylotting.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 09
Dear rosekiss,
I am glad to hear from you. Truly appreciate it
It is so sweet of your daughter to send the mms picture of her
and your grandson. I also put my son's photo as my cellphone
screen / wall paper. Whenever I pick up the cell phone, then I
can see his face, that is brings me 'great feeling', right?
Yes, it is good that you normally make phone call to each other,
two-way communication is much better, can hear each other voice
and feelings...an immediate response too.
Thanks for sharing, hope to hear your views on my other topic
too! Happy myLotting
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
26 Aug 09
Handphone is an essential tool in human life nowadays. I myself will feel handicapped if don't have a handphone at my side. I like to sms my friends,just to check out how are they doing today and it makes us keep in touch all the time.
I will attend to my sms immediately if I am free that moments. Of course, If I am driving or busy with something else, I will only attend to the incoming SMS after I have finished up my stuffs.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
28 Aug 09
Dear shia,
Your user name is very unique! Remind me of the hero in Transformers!
~ Shia LaBeouf.
You are really good in handling your sms well. You know when
to answer and when not to. Good, keep it up
I would say most of the time I do read them almost immediately
when they arrive. But, it will have to wait when I am preoccupied
with work or driving on the road. It just have to be so, and it is
good to observe this so that my friends or love ones will know
that I am are probably busy when the reply is being delayed.
Thanks for sharing, really appreciate it, do keep in touch!
@yogambal_64 (1014)
• India
24 Aug 09
Yes although has prohibited the car drivers to avoid using cell phones while driving, nobody follows it much excepting in some places and at some peak hours or so, I mostly reply back immediately to any sms I receive from my family or friends. I only make a call if the matter is urgent and as sms are free for some package I use that generally.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Dear yogambal,
Totally agree with you, sms is cheaper and less hassle.
Especially those who can text very fast. Many line provider
giving free 100 sms per month to encourage user to text.
Texting / reading text messages or making / answering calls
whilst driving is just very dangerous and should never be done
at all cost. By doing this, it is endangering everyone including
the people in the car.
Thanks for sharing, hope to hear your views on my other topics too!
@gracefuldove (1668)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Hi,
I preferred to make direct phone call which is a
2-way communication, this can avoid any delayed in
response...therefore more reliable. However, I do a
follow-up via sms to confirm the details if needed ie.
venue, time and date of appointments etc. This way,
the recipient will have the accurate address and time ,
it is also good as a reference if they need to refer again!
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Hi,
I totally agree with your views. 2-way communication is much better!
We sms sometimes and when there is a need to talk, we just phone direct.
Texting may take some time and if we are not nimble with our fingers,
we will take quite a long while before we finished the message.
Phoning is easier and you can get a spontaneous answer to a question.
Also when we phone, we get the hear the other person's voice and this
makes it worthwhile.
Your application of sms to follow-up after a phone call on details
or information that need to be confirm via text is very good.
@mobilesender (30)
•
30 Sep 11
I do a lot of texting with my friends mostly through internet with http://textforfree.net/
@mobilesender (30)
•
30 Sep 11
I text a lot to my friends.Mostly online with http://textforfree.net/