Would you be okay if your boyfriend/husband went to a strip club?
By phoenix1344
@phoenix1344 (698)
United States
August 24, 2009 4:17pm CST
So my boyfriend just recently asked me if it were okay if he and his friend went to a strip club together. He has never been and he feels its one of those things he has to do one day. I guess I'm okay with it because I trust him and as long as he is up front with me when he goes but what do you think? I want to hear other opinions about how you would feel if your significant other went to a strip club?
3 responses
@Downwindz (2537)
• Netherlands
24 Aug 09
I would be perfectly fine with my boyfriend if he wanted to go to a strip club. I trust my boyfriend wouldnt do things which will go against our relationship, that he only would look and maybe get inspired.
Its perfectly fine to gather your appetizer out aslong he eats at home ;)
@phoenix1344 (698)
• United States
24 Aug 09
Thank you for response, it helps to hear what other women think of this. To be honest even though I'm okay with my boyfriend going I still feel alittle akward about it so hearing other opinions that side with mine help :)
@Downwindz (2537)
• Netherlands
24 Aug 09
I would certainly also feel akward im sure, but i believe it is a matter of trust, if you know he will be loyal to you none the less, i believe it might strengthen your relationship based on trust and loyalty.
Sometimes in a relationship you also need to be able to go out party with just your friends or do things which doesnt include each other, or you will end up getting enjoyed and feeling like the relationship is a jail.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
24 Aug 09
I dont think I would mind if my husband would want to go to a strip club, because he can look but can't touch. As long as my man comes home to me and is faithful to me thats fine. I trust my husband a great deal and I think it is one of those small battles that I won't pick.
@Downwindz (2537)
• Netherlands
24 Aug 09
I completly agree with you on this one, the part of they can look as much as they like but they wont touch, and by that sence not violate the bonds and rules in the relationship that binds you together as a couple.
@tonyllenium (6251)
• Italy
24 Aug 09
Ok so i am a boy and in reality this can sound strange...such as if he come to a club like that because ther is a celebration for the last single night before marriage mmhh it cna be possible..but if he come to a strip club with friends just for amusmemnt i think ..i don't know!!Surely if somebody here will ask to a girl a thing like that..i think the boy should prpare to stay single...eheh
@Downwindz (2537)
• Netherlands
24 Aug 09
Well i guess it depends on what agreements the man has with his woman, and what thier relationship is based on. I trust my boyfriend that he would go sleep with other womans and so forth, and only gather appetize for what happens between us ;)
