phoenix1344

@phoenix1344 (698)

United States • Age 35

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if you love someone let them go, if hey come back they were always yours...

Miss G @nhailojaye (207) • Philippines 28 Feb 13

I am sort of confused. what is the real meaning of this? Should i finally let go of him? what if he never came back? i am really confused... I guess I am just scared. I just don't want to be alone in my life. :/

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phoenix1344 It's funny, I used to think about this quote often when I was in an unhealthy relationship. I was stress over it, fear it. Because deep down.. I knew if I let him go, he probably wouldn't come back. And then, I used to think it was ME and that I was...

2 Mar 13

i think im pregnant...

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 19 Oct 12

Since November 8th of last year up until the 13th of of september I was on some form of birth control. But after a trip to the Er I was told that I couldn't take birth control and that it wasn't safe for me. Well up until I took...

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Do you treat your animals like children? Do you have human children?

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 1 Oct 12

This lady I work with was saying about this lady who had come in. She was carrying her dog, and picking out toys. To me I thought it was cute, I would do this with my cats. She was whining and complaining saying this is...

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phoenix1344 No offense but this lady you are talking about sounds absolutely cruel. If she doesnt want the animal, first off why on earth did she accept responsibility for them? and second, all they need to do is take the animals to a shelter. Some people are so...

6 Oct 12

Love builds and destroy

pogi253 @pogi253 (1596) • Philippines 1 Oct 12

That is what was said in one of the upcoming television soap here in our country. In my own opinion, love builds when it is being reciprocated for two individuals. It bring out the best in the person who is in love and being...

love

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phoenix1344 I definitely agree! Not only because your statement makes perfect sense, but also because I have lived both sides of that token and know from experience. In a previous relationship (a five year too long relationship at that!), I was mentally abused, put down...

3 Oct 12

What do you think about age difference in relationships?

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 3 Oct 12

I have to say, before meeting my fiance I wasn't quite sure how I felt about it. I always thought 'to each their own' for those that dated someone significantly older or younger, but I had personally always dated people within...

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I Don't Want To Fall In Love

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 3 Oct 12

I have recently been burned in the love department and I've just recently started talking to a couple guys. One I really like, the other I'm not really into. But the one that I like is honest, he isn't looking for a relationship,...

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phoenix1344 I know exactly how you feel! About a year and a half ago I came out of a horribly mentally abusive relationship and one where I was desperately in love. And it ended awfully. I was with him for 5 years and I hadnt been 'single' for longer then a couple weeks...

3 Oct 12

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What is one thing you learned from your lastrelationship?

ankit_620 @ankit_620 (496) • India 14 Jan 12

Mine is not to put in 100% effort when your partner is putting zero. Also, f**k cheaters!

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phoenix1344 I learned a lot from my last relationship but the thing I really took from it, is how I will never be naive again. I won't ever just accept to be treated less then I deserve.

14 Jan 12

Why do so many people view marriage as a 'death' sentence?

AidaLily @AidaLily (1450) • United States 14 Jan 12

Now I have been on quite a few forums and I always see people complaining about marriage or wanting to be single or possibly just missing out on life. Its not. There are a lot of things a person can still do while married...

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phoenix1344 I have to agree with you. I can't stand those that think marriage is a death sentence because clearly if that's how they feel they have chosen the wrong partner and likely was not ready to be married. I'm not married however I'm aware that marriage isn't...

14 Jan 12

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Controlling Parents??

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 9 Dec 11

Ok, so I need to vent and to get an outsiders input on this one. Currently my boyfriend is 31 and living with his parents who literally control pretty much everything in his life. Here's a back story... he didn't always live...

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drinking mouthwash, substitute for alcohol

se7enthbird @se7enthbird (8307) • Philippines 6 Dec 11

i was watching something on tv about intervention. it was in japanese language translated but from the characters i can tell that it is in english language originally. this lady since she can not but any beers or any thing that...

alcoholic

intervention

mouthwash

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phoenix1344 It can be... although I'm not sure how bad it is for someone to drink it in the long run since there is more than alcohol in it. My boyfriend is a recovering alcoholic and he wont use any alcoholic mouthwashes.

6 Dec 11

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confused about current boyfriend..

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 5 Dec 11

So I've been with my boyfriend now for 2 1/2 months. The way we met is super sweet, I work at Walmart and he was a customer one night and ended up giving me his number. Pretty much within a couple weeks we went on our first date,...

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phoenix1344 That's true.. it is early and its not like my first instinct is to end it. I just hate having my feelings all over the place. Overall the relationship itself is going smoothly which in all honesty is a first for me. I'm so used to bad relationships that good...

5 Dec 11

confused about current boyfriend..

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 5 Dec 11

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Isn't a Broken Heart a Good Thing????

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 4 Dec 11

So now our hearts are broken. They don't love us anymore. The one who fit so well and feels so right is no longer for us. We hurt so badly that we vow to never love again. We moan and groan to all of our family and friends...

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phoenix1344 This was very poetic the way it was written :) And I have to say that I agree with you wholeheartedly. Pain and heartache is the foundation for a better future sometimes. And in the end will always make you a stronger individual. About 8 1/2 months ago...

5 Dec 11

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How did you meet your significant other?

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 30 Nov 11

How I met my boyfriend is one of those stories I think will be told over and over again. So when I met him I had been single for about 6 months and I was finally content with being single. I had been on a few dating sites and...

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Why isn't it easy for a girl to just move on?

boyuancy @boyuancy (1708) • India 21 Nov 11

I was recently answering this discussion about the girl being in an abusive relationship and taking the torment for years on end. Also I saw a show on the same topic recently. Once a girl loves a guy, why isn't it easy for the...

abusive relationship

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phoenix1344 Because after being in an abusive relationship, physically or mentally, or both... she starts to believe the things she hears from him. Ultimately, she loses her self worth and self esteem and start to believe that there is something wrong with her. why else...

22 Nov 11

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