phoenix1344

@phoenix1344 (698)

United States • Age 35

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if you love someone let them go, if hey come back they were always yours...

Miss G @nhailojaye (207) • Philippines 28 Feb 13

I am sort of confused. what is the real meaning of this? Should i finally let go of him? what if he never came back? i am really confused... I guess I am just scared. I just don't want to be alone in my life. :/

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phoenix1344 It's funny, I used to think about this quote often when I was in an unhealthy relationship. I was stress over it, fear it. Because deep down.. I knew if I let him go, he probably wouldn't come back. And then, I used to think it was ME and that I was...

2 Mar 13

Do you treat your animals like children? Do you have human children?

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 1 Oct 12

This lady I work with was saying about this lady who had come in. She was carrying her dog, and picking out toys. To me I thought it was cute, I would do this with my cats. She was whining and complaining saying this is...

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phoenix1344 No offense but this lady you are talking about sounds absolutely cruel. If she doesnt want the animal, first off why on earth did she accept responsibility for them? and second, all they need to do is take the animals to a shelter. Some people are so...

6 Oct 12

Love builds and destroy

pogi253 @pogi253 (1596) • Philippines 1 Oct 12

That is what was said in one of the upcoming television soap here in our country. In my own opinion, love builds when it is being reciprocated for two individuals. It bring out the best in the person who is in love and being...

love

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phoenix1344 I definitely agree! Not only because your statement makes perfect sense, but also because I have lived both sides of that token and know from experience. In a previous relationship (a five year too long relationship at that!), I was mentally abused, put down...

3 Oct 12

I Don't Want To Fall In Love

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 3 Oct 12

I have recently been burned in the love department and I've just recently started talking to a couple guys. One I really like, the other I'm not really into. But the one that I like is honest, he isn't looking for a relationship,...

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phoenix1344 I know exactly how you feel! About a year and a half ago I came out of a horribly mentally abusive relationship and one where I was desperately in love. And it ended awfully. I was with him for 5 years and I hadnt been 'single' for longer then a couple weeks...

3 Oct 12

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What is one thing you learned from your lastrelationship?

ankit_620 @ankit_620 (496) • India 14 Jan 12

Mine is not to put in 100% effort when your partner is putting zero. Also, f**k cheaters!

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phoenix1344 I learned a lot from my last relationship but the thing I really took from it, is how I will never be naive again. I won't ever just accept to be treated less then I deserve.

14 Jan 12

Why do so many people view marriage as a 'death' sentence?

AidaLily @AidaLily (1450) • United States 14 Jan 12

Now I have been on quite a few forums and I always see people complaining about marriage or wanting to be single or possibly just missing out on life. Its not. There are a lot of things a person can still do while married...

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phoenix1344 I have to agree with you. I can't stand those that think marriage is a death sentence because clearly if that's how they feel they have chosen the wrong partner and likely was not ready to be married. I'm not married however I'm aware that marriage isn't...

14 Jan 12

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drinking mouthwash, substitute for alcohol

se7enthbird @se7enthbird (8307) • Philippines 6 Dec 11

i was watching something on tv about intervention. it was in japanese language translated but from the characters i can tell that it is in english language originally. this lady since she can not but any beers or any thing that...

alcoholic

intervention

mouthwash

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phoenix1344 It can be... although I'm not sure how bad it is for someone to drink it in the long run since there is more than alcohol in it. My boyfriend is a recovering alcoholic and he wont use any alcoholic mouthwashes.

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Isn't a Broken Heart a Good Thing????

bird123 @bird123 (10658) • United States 4 Dec 11

So now our hearts are broken. They don't love us anymore. The one who fit so well and feels so right is no longer for us. We hurt so badly that we vow to never love again. We moan and groan to all of our family and friends...

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phoenix1344 This was very poetic the way it was written :) And I have to say that I agree with you wholeheartedly. Pain and heartache is the foundation for a better future sometimes. And in the end will always make you a stronger individual. About 8 1/2 months ago...

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Why isn't it easy for a girl to just move on?

boyuancy @boyuancy (1708) • India 21 Nov 11

I was recently answering this discussion about the girl being in an abusive relationship and taking the torment for years on end. Also I saw a show on the same topic recently. Once a girl loves a guy, why isn't it easy for the...

abusive relationship

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phoenix1344 Because after being in an abusive relationship, physically or mentally, or both... she starts to believe the things she hears from him. Ultimately, she loses her self worth and self esteem and start to believe that there is something wrong with her. why else...

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What should I do if I come face to face with a black bear?

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 10 Feb 11

Just curious what the best thing to do if you come face to face with a black bear is. Just stand still? I've heard it's a bad idea to run...

a black bear

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phoenix1344 Typically black bears are not very aggressive and eat more plants, berries, and human food if they can get it in a trash can (or a car). They rarely view us humans as food and quite frankly are more afraid of us then we are of them. Should you encounter a...

11 Feb 11

tough,hot guys or cute,metrosexual guys??hurm....

amelly @amelly (1554) • Malaysia 11 Feb 11

in my last english class..we did talk about this topic..my lecturer is a guy..(he prefer TOUGH person..so expected)he did said about girls nowadys giggle and like to look at metrosexual guys..who...

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phoenix1344 The only thing metrosexual guys have going for them is the fact that they are stylish and overly clean. But if I had to choose it would be the masculine guy any day. The more masculine a man is the more dependable they are in my opinion. Id rather be with a...

11 Feb 11

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why......

friendship4lyfe @friendship4lyfe (520) • Saint Lucia 10 Feb 11

....do people get married?Would you marry a broke person or would you move on.What should i really consider when someone propose?Especially when they are making plans to have you move to the home town,city or country.Help me...

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phoenix1344 People get married because they are in love and want to make vows to one another. And it shouldn't matter if the person your marrying is broke or not unless you are only marrying them for their money. Your being very vague with your situation even though...

11 Feb 11

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I did not believe at first but it happened to me

zenki08 @zenki08 (700) • Philippines 10 Feb 11

I did not believe at love at first sight. And I would not categorize the current state that I'm in as one. But it seems that I did with my current flame. She is very attractive but as I got to know her she is a very wonderful...

in love

love

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phoenix1344 I had something similiar happen to me. My bf and I have been together for a little over 5 years now. And when I first saw him back when I was still in grade school.. it wasn't love at first sight per say but I had the biggest crush on him. Something about him...

11 Feb 11

Is It Wrong?

imfr33 @imfr33 (98) • Philippines 11 Feb 11

What do you guys think about "Age doesn't matter" in falling in love to someone younger or older than you, say like almost half your age?

loving age

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phoenix1344 I don't understand it but I mean to each his own I guess. The only time I would object to it is if one of the persons is underage. Otherwise do whatever makes you happy.

11 Feb 11

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Why do we blush?

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 14 Sep 10

I have noticed that women tend to blush when someone praises them.., especially if that someone is a special one.., I do too.., Not only when I hear praises.., but also when My friends used to tease me with the guy who used to...

blushing

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phoenix1344 Yes!! I blush all the time and I don't even know why! For instance, yesterday I couldn't reach something on the top shelf of a food isle. I was literally about to climb the shelf when this guy that works there was like 'Don't you climb that!' and he was just...

14 Sep 10

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Have you ever coloured your hair a total different colour to what it was?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 7 Aug 10

Years ago i had my hair bleeched,reason for the big change was a friend was training to be a hair dresser.Now that i am 39 and do not go out,i am going grey and hearing that alot of my friends have gone blonde from brown i am...

bleech

grey

hair change

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phoenix1344 Why don't you just dye it your natural color? My mom does that and no one can even tell she's going grey. But dying a different color is always fun and different. There's nothing wrong with wanting to cover up the grey.

7 Aug 10

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