why......
@friendship4lyfe (520)
Saint Lucia
3 responses
@phoenix1344 (698)
• United States
11 Feb 11
People get married because they are in love and want to make vows to one another. And it shouldn't matter if the person your marrying is broke or not unless you are only marrying them for their money.
Your being very vague with your situation even though your asking for help. My only advice would be that if your having this much doubt then you probably shouldn't be getting married.
@friendship4lyfe (520)
• Saint Lucia
11 Feb 11
I have never in all my almost 30yrs been with someone just for the money and dont think i will start now.Its a situation you have to understand i live on an island and so does he.He is asking me to move to his island where there is a lack of jobs and the economy is extremely bad.I dont want him to move here cause then we will be in trouble.I want to wait until things tip in our favour but he doesnt agree.I have a daughter to think of and what kind of mother would i be if i didnt ask for help.what would you do?Moving cost money that i cant afford and neither can he.I would also let you know that food,clothing and shelter is more expensive there than here but they have better salary than us.
@dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
10 Feb 11
People do marriage for make the relationship strong and for giving the name. When any couple marriage then there relation become more strong and that can't be break down so easily. When someone propose then you should consider how much he/she loves you.As love is very important for any relationship.
@friendship4lyfe (520)
• Saint Lucia
10 Feb 11
I agree but isnt it important to know that he can give you a home.Love is important so is shelter and food.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
11 Feb 11
In my country, a woman who are married, must follow the husband. So a woman should follow her husband wherever go. Deciding to get married, then you should think about common interests. It is not easy, but it should be, because the marriage brings together both of you.
