Peoples feelings.
By jugsjugs
@jugsjugs (12967)
August 24, 2009 8:13pm CST
Why is it that some people just do not care about hurting other peoples feelings? Is it they are heartless or do you think that they just do not think first before they sat things?
7 responses
@aprces (1082)
• China
25 Aug 09
I agree the latter on you topic.Must be this:They just don't think first before they sat things?Sometimes there exist this kind of person who is abnormal mentally.One of their feature is the deeper they hurt others,the happier they will get.What I mean is they are not a real bad guy,they just do something under their actions psychologically.In fact,they are not willing to do this,but they lose control by themselves
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@bigjim59 (32)
• United States
25 Aug 09
Some people you just can't change. If it's an ongoing issue, the faster you put that person in your past, the sooner you will heal and go on with your own happiness. First you have to be strong and think about your future and who has to live the life you are living.
@bigjim59 (32)
• United States
25 Aug 09
Yes. I can relate. I once had a problem with relationship choices. It caused me plenty of pain. Then I wised up. I became more aware of my own motives and learned to take more time thinking about realities. I also learned that human nature is not pretty sometimes and you just have to take a good long look at what your future would be like if you continue to be involved with a person that has no consideration for anyone but themselves. Especially one who likes to verbally or physically abuse people for any reason.
I didn't say it was easy. But it is the truth. It's easier to change your situation than it is to change a person. But that is depending on what the situation is.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
25 Aug 09
Earlier I used to think that some people are purely heartless and say things one cannot even comprehend, then I realised people who are suffering from their insecurities do so in order to prove themselves worth by downsizing others, so if a person is mean I feel it is their own problem.
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
25 Aug 09
I guess it all depends. Some people are just cruel. Maybe they were raised in an unloving or abusive home. I suppose some people are just too quick to speak sometimes.
I always try to be considerate, but I can't say that I am ALWAYS polite. If I am in a bad mood or someone pushes my buttons the wrong way, I can be rude sometimes as well.
@doormouse (4599)
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25 Aug 09
some people don't care,if someone asks me my opinion i will give them an honest answer,even if i know it will hurt their feelings,,that's the sort of person i am.all my friends know this so if they get upset by what i've said then they shouldn't have asked in the first place,,having said that i don't intentionaly hurt people
@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 09
Some people are just so used to speaking in a rude manner that they don't even have a clue that they've hurt your feelings. You can't blame this kind of people because it's just the way they were brought up and the environment in which they live that made them to be such. They are what we call the "heartless" ones. They're unable to "think" before they speak, and therefore less sensitive to the feelings of others.
If someone has hurt your feelings, just tell them straight in the face that you don't like it and you feel hurt.
@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
25 Aug 09
Well I'm one of the people that would prefer to just go ahead and put things out there whether the person on the recieving end wants to hear it or not. I don't believe in sugar coating things. I think it's terrible. I'm not going to stroke someone's ego to make them feel better about something stupid they've done or what not. You're not helping a person by lying to them. It's useless and creates more problems for yourself in the end.
