Women this one is just for you..Can you deal more than one husband?
@krupesh (2608)
India
August 24, 2009 11:21pm CST
I have seen most of the women complaining about their partners who dont have the same taste as they do.....like if you are interested to go for shopping , your partne might not be interested in it.Its same whether its going for movies or dinner or dance.
Now my question is why cant you deal with more than one husband so that you can take one for shopping who is very interested to shop just like you , the other to the movies , one more to the dance & so on ...so that you would be happy forever?
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18 responses
@maggiesunjuan (554)
• China
25 Aug 09
Haha, that'll be too tired, my friend. If you demand it, then would it fair that the husband want more than one wives? To me, one husband is already tired to bear, how could I stand more than one?
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
25 Aug 09
Oh! If we all became Draupadis, what would happen to the hapless Indian male who is used to hog all the limelight himself? As if one Mahabharata was not enough!!! LOL
But seriously, I don’t think polyandry is a very good idea mainly from the point of view of a woman’s health. And then its so difficult to keep one Indian husband pampered and fed and cared for…several husbands???!!! Give me a break
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@aditya_k85 (737)
• India
25 Aug 09
What do you mean by hog all the limelight himself? By the way it is so difficult to keep one Indian wife pampered and take care of because these Indian wifes are so demanding and their list of demands does not end easily. Indian wifes are always behind money and other material things. Their criteria for marriage is also that.
So I would definitely not keep more than one Indian wife. Give me a break too
@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
25 Aug 09
My philosofy is, if you cant handle one, then you should not have one. Getting involved with more than one man at the time is to me considering cheating. Now, You do fall for someone, and this someone may or may not have the same interests as you, and why should he/she why should we do everything toghether 24 seven. That would be a very boring life toghether with someone els. You should have different interests, since we all need our own time. So, if you like going to shop, and your husband like to watch fotball or something, is that not OK!
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@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
25 Aug 09
To love is to sacrifice and understand.
When you marry your husband what was your reason?
I am single and I wish to marry a man only when I am in love with him.
I can play basketball if he want me to.
He like to swim with me I can do.
But never do hold up or Carnap because I will be the one to sue you.
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@krupesh (2608)
• India
25 Aug 09
...but would you not be happy if someone(a male) is always there for you whenever you need him?
@Laurie1986 (384)
• United States
25 Aug 09
Well, I don't have that many interests that I would need three husbands to share all of them; I also don't need to share all of my interests with my husband. Remember, when you marry someone you have to love their faults as well as their attributes, so if you have three men in your life, it may be three times the attributes, but it's also three times the faults. I don't judge other people for what they do, but I personally want to devote myself to one person.
@krupesh (2608)
• India
25 Aug 09
.....but seriously would it not be a good idea to have more than one hsband?
@alona_cm20 (33)
• Philippines
25 Aug 09
that' a big NO for me, I dont think i would want more husband. For me, I will marry a guy not because he can go shopping with us, if we have same interest with regards to movies or if we both enjoy dining out but because we love each other despite our flaws.
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@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
25 Aug 09
I don't think this would work for me. Part of what makes our relationship work is that we do like to do different things as well as things together, so we get time together and some time apart.
@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
25 Aug 09
There are many things I love about my husband but there are things I don't like. I realize if I had more than one husband there would be somethings I liked about each one but also things I wouldn't. I think if I added up all the things I didn't like it would drive me crazy before I could enjoy the I did so no thanks.
@emma412 (1156)
• United States
25 Aug 09
Um... no way!! My husband drives me crazy, I could not imagine more of him. Just because my husband doesn't like to do everything I do doesn't mean I'm not happy with him. I find friends to fill the gaps that he does not like to do. I could not imagine multiple messy, annoying men in my life!
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@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
25 Aug 09
at that point you may have to find a bloke who's on the other side of the fence, just joking. my partner can be very good when he wants,long as he get something in return. a bloke who won't use what you love doing against you later on would be good to.
that's why you wait for the right bloke to come along, but even then we get the wrong ones. men don't like clothes shopping, but take them to a car shop and their in the car before you can finish the sentence.
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@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
25 Aug 09
ok even though i am a guy, this is funny.. well it could go the same for us guys too. me and wife are like night and day. but one thing we're back ward i love to shop lol.
have a good one :)
@aditya_k85 (737)
• India
25 Aug 09
On the contrary I would say that We males would definitely love to have more than one girlfriend in fact lots of girlfriends but not wife because having so many wifes would definitely be more costly with their various demands. We males would rather have many girlfriends instead of many wifes. That's a wise decision .
@krupesh (2608)
• India
25 Aug 09
Not a bad decision of yours but be careful about some of the girlfriends as they would pester you to marry them & become wife which you do not want them to be.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 09
Hi krupesh.I think it often find in every household.Important to know and understand about hobby or something about like and dislike our partner.Usually,My husband and I make priority.When I have to shopping because there is something important to buy,so we go to shopping.We consider about time or we are tired or no when we do some actifity.But I think,it could be spoken about arrange the time or spoke about wich one actifity that seldom to do it.Sometimes,I follow his actifity or sometimes I have to giving away when honestly,I don't want to do it.
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@hmfryklund (389)
• United States
25 Aug 09
I don't think this would ever work lol, and I wouldn't honestly feel comfortable doing it lol. I love being with just one person, even if we dont have a lot of interests to have in common. How could you keep all those men straight, with their names and interests? lol That would be insane. Like I said, I couldn't ever do that, I'll stick with my one hubby haha.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
25 Aug 09
ack NO!!
one is enough to deal with lol
it's like 24 hr cleaning because we also we have a cat
he is good in the kitchen or do repair work in the house
but cleaning after it is just never ending
plus he is somehow a hoarder, bringing small things home almost every time
then I have to sort them out somewhere else because they are filling up the house
if I ever had an affair it would be a cleaning robot !
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
25 Aug 09
The problems between my partner and I are not tha tkind, I know he doesn't like shopping and stuff but it is something that both of us can deal with, not a big deal. There are something that you cannot do anything to change, that's the issue... I don't think I could deal with more than one.. one is good enough for me..
@xichen7 (153)
• Philippines
25 Aug 09
Your discussion is so fashion that I only can say you are so open. I can't imagine multi-husband with one woman. Why a woman need several husbands? They can go shopping, watch movies or dance with their friend. I think you only need more friendsto solve your problems.
Happy mylot!
@polo_princess (803)
•
25 Aug 09
I dont think that would ever realistically work for me, since to get married you need to be in a monogomous relationship, so if you are going to be married to other people then it would defy the point of being married in the first place to me.
Sure we all complain about our husbands from time to time but the grass isnt always greener on the other side so you should just be grateful for what you have got and try to make the best of things with the person that you love
There is a saying that goes "love is not about finding the perfect person, its about loving the imperfect person perfectly"