alona_cm20

@alona_cm20 (33)

Philippines • Age 44

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am i falling out of love? or maybe i just knew her almost all of her.....

mrcupid21 @mrcupid21 (200) • Philippines 9 Aug 10

i dont know why i felt this way, like i dont want to be near her, i dont to hear her voice, i wanna have fun without her... but deep inside my heart, it always say that i still love her soo much! every time i remembered all the...

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alona_cm20 i guess you have to tell her what your feeling right now, you have to be open, you might need some space to analyze your feelings. You might be really too intimate. dont be too drastic with your moves think hundred times before you do something you might...

9 Aug 10

What is the Best ways to show your love?

b199010 @b199010 (11) • Pakistan 6 Nov 09

Whats your Opinion?

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alona_cm20 I guess the best way to show your love is to express it with words and action. You have to also show your concern and respect to them. So, if you love someone, you have to tell them right away for life is too short...

8 Nov 09

i love you, but not fall in love with?

buping @buping (952) • China 2 Nov 09

hi all, i caught a friends who was having dinner with a guy and flirting with whom not her husband. she came to me pleasing me not to tell her husband, actually i was very angry about her, for her husband and her both are my...

love

marriage

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alona_cm20 i guess, she doesnt really love her husband despite being married to him for a long time. perhaps, their marriage, is categorized under those they call "Marriage of Convenience". But with this, i think its better if the wife will tell his husband of her true...

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What do you do when you discover your partner cheating with your bestfriend

werdan88 @werdan88 (272) • Philippines 31 Oct 09

What do you do if you discover your bf/gf cheating on you and the persons he is cheating with is no other than your bestfriend. How would you react towards your bf? towards your bestfriend?

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alona_cm20 this would be really traumatic experience and very painful indeed. because of all people, why it would be your bestfriend to cheat you. Anyways, if this would happen to me, and if i really caught them in the act, i would still show up to them and let them know...

3 Nov 09

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How old were you when you got married?

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 15 Oct 09

was it a good age for you? or would waiting or marrying sooner made a difference? I got married @ 23. I think that was a decent age. I was done at with school and wanted to move into the next chapter in ones life like getting...

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alona_cm20 I think age doesnt really matters in deciding to get married. for me, it depends on your willingness to give up being single and accept and face the responsibility of being married. Based on my experience, i got married at the age of 22, and already have 3...

16 Oct 09

love is blind..!

Craicha @Craicha (801) 29 Sep 09

how did you understand about this saying LOVE IS BLIND? for me no matter what family background of your love one, how manytimes your love one hurts you but you still dont stop loving him..and lots ...all you want is dont stop...

love

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alona_cm20 I guess its true, Love is Blind because it accepts our flaws and imperfections as they say always, Nobody is perfect. But i dont think the blindness applies up to the extent of being cheated several times, being hurt several times with the same person. well,...

30 Sep 09

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What will you do if someone borrow your money but forget to pay back?

karenkarenkk @karenkarenkk (1121) • China 28 Sep 09

It's the second time that one of my colleague borrow my money but forget to pay back. It's not that big amount, but it's almost equal to what I make in a day. Well, mylotters, did you ever encounter the similar case like me? What...

borrow money

money

pay back

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alona_cm20 I have the same dilemma. Some neighbors and friends borrow money from me and promise to pay me back on a date convenient to them, but when it reached that date, they really ignore me and at times doesnt show up. then after a few days they will talk to me as if...

28 Sep 09

Do you get hurt when you are replaced with your boyfriend with an ugly duckling?

fler @feodda (579) • Philippines 28 Sep 09

I called still recall the pain that my ex gives to me. And what more painful to it, he replace me with an ugly duckling type of a girl. It really getting into my nerves. And what more worst with it, that girl try to ruin my...

love

relationship

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alona_cm20 Dont get affected with it anyway its not your lost but his. Just go on with your life and forget everything about your ex, he's not worth your time and love. Just look around maybe the right guy for you is just aound the corner waiting for your love and...

28 Sep 09

Would you still love the guy that betrayed you many times?

irene3184 @irene3184 (898) • Philippines 23 Sep 09

Its funny sometimes that we still give chances to the one we love when he kept on betraying you. Sometimes it doesn't matter anymore as long as he go back to you and ask pardon and forgiveness.. Did this things happen to you?

love

love betrayed

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alona_cm20 this situation doesnt happen to me yet but if in case it will happen, i will only forgive him at most twice after that if he still do the same thing, i will not forgive him. i will move on with my life without him. though it would be hard at first but i think...

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Would you hide your true feelings to your best friend?

lovelyn_medrano @lovelyn_medrano (3070) • Philippines 25 Sep 09

We all know that best friends are always there for us especially in times of trouble. They are on our side ready to listen, help and will never leave us hanging. No matter how far they are, they will surely find ways to show their...

love for bestfriend

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alona_cm20 for me, if i really love my bestfriend, though hard and risky, i'll still take my chances of telling him my feelings. But ofcourse, whatever happens, friendship will still remain. I guess, its better to tell him than to keep it to yourself, who knows he might...

27 Sep 09

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Cheating

lampar @lampar (7584) • United States 14 Sep 09

What would you do if you find out your partner, girl/boy friend is having an affair with someone behind your back; tell us how you are going to react in situation like this and what type of action you will take or...

relationship

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alona_cm20 As for me, i think i will just talk to him heart to heart. i will ask for an explanation why he has to do that to me and then ask him to choose between us. if he choose her, then that would be the end of our relationship. However if he choose me instead and...

14 Sep 09

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Who Would You Save?

patofgold23 @patofgold23 (5069) • Philippines 13 Sep 09

If you are in a sinking boat... with all of the people who are dear to you...(your mom, dad, son, daughter, husband, wife. brother, sister... bestfriends, boyfriend...) and circumstances only allow you to save "ONE"...

life

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alona_cm20 A very tough question indeed. BUt for me, i will save my daughter because she's still young, and need to explore the world and maybe she's heading for a good future. I fail to choose to save others because, my family knows how to swim as well as my husband...

14 Sep 09

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Can You really Forgive Your Spouse After She/He hurts You???

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 31 Aug 09

Long time ago my husband ever hurt me by telling some lies. At that time, we argued hard since for me telling lies had torn my trust for him. In return, he said sorry and asked my forgiveness. At that moment I forgave him, but...

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alona_cm20 My husband also do mistakes but when asks for forgiveness and i find him sincere, i do forgive him and forget everything about it. I guess you have to do the same to make your relationship work. You have to keep in mind that when you Forgive you have to...

1 Sep 09

Do you off the switch when you leave the room....

kkanaka @kkanaka (886) • Singapore 31 Aug 09

Hi friends, When you leave a room either at home or at office, do you switch off all the lights, fan or Airconditioners and then go to the next room, or you just leave it on without bothering.... At home, even when I go from...

save energy

switch off

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alona_cm20 NO. I dont usually turn-off our lights and aircons if i'll just go to the next room because i'll be back soonn. But i never fail to switch off all electrical appliances at home and in office before i leave for it might cause Fire and affect several innocent...

1 Sep 09

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Whisper a prayer for us please.

mamacathie @mamacathie (3928) • United States 31 Aug 09

My 81 year old mother-in-law is in the hospital with what they are thinking is congestive heart failure. They are still doing tests but she is not getting enough oxygen to the brain because she cannot breath deep enough; therefore...

congestive heart failure

dementia

heart problems

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alona_cm20 I symphatize with you. Yes we can pray for her, why not, but you have to also surrender her to the Lord. Dont get me wrong here, but weve been there, it's really painful to see our loved ones on the likes situation, but you have to accept the fact that we will...

1 Sep 09

Does your partner remember your wedding anniversary every year?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 31 Aug 09

Does your partner [husband] remember your wedding anniversary date every year?How do you react if he forgets? As far as I am concerned I would not allow him to forget it.I would keep making announcements earlier on.I would buy...

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alona_cm20 I never had a problem with that, he never fails to remember our anniversary. I dont think it's a good idea to keep on announcing it for him to remember because he might be too dependent on you. I guess its a mutual responsibility being a couple. It's like a...

31 Aug 09

Is it fair to pay less than minimum wage to illegal immigrants?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 24 Aug 09

We might heard so many complaints about illegal immigrants take their jobs away. From what I knew, most of those illegal immigrants work harder, and willing to do dirtier jobs than legal citizens. To justify the situation, and...

illegal immigrants

minimum wages

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alona_cm20 I dont think that's fair. Despite being an illegal immigrants, they still deserve to receive just wages from the employers because they hire them. But other employers really take this opportunity to pay them below minimum wage, they blackmailed them, and...

25 Aug 09

When you receive your change, do you still count them?

iskayz @iskayz (5420) • Philippines 24 Aug 09

Me, I normally don’t. I just put the change inside my pocket. One reason is because I am too dumb when it comes to math hehe. So I don’t know if the change I receive is right or lacking. I just trust my instinct that...

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alona_cm20 Actually before, i really never count. My change goes directly to my pocket. But now its different, every centavo counts. Now before leaving the counter i check, anyways its for my own good also.

25 Aug 09

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