Do you get hurt when you are replaced with your boyfriend with an ugly duckling?

I don't even think about doing that to my girl.. We just trust each other alot so we dont even worry about something like that to happen in our relationship.. I like my girl, so now I stay out of bars and clubs just to avoid those kind of situations by not starting anything drama.. Maybe you guys just had some communication problems from the beginning which led to this problem.. I don't know everything, but I think communication in a relationship is very important because especially now that were all grown up and you meet as adults you both have lived over 20 something years of different styles and ways, so its good to fill each other in and be honest and truthful from the start and communicate.. just my two scents..

sometimes you have to understand that the basis of love is not just the physical appearance of the person. your ex may find qualities of that girl that you lack or something. :D

Well fortunately or unfortunately i am not in contact with any of my ex bfs and have no idea who they have replaced me with. But if I create a hypothetical situation like that, I think initially I will feel a little sad that his choice is bad and I was his choice initially so maybe even I was bad but then on second thoughts I will feel good that I was too good for him and he couldnt get hold off another good looking girl like me :P Coming back to you, how does she manage to spoil your life? Nobody else other than you can spoil or make your life! So awake arise and get hold of your life! Dont let trivial things or people affect you :) Good luck!

Way before I got married I dated this really good looking guy for about 6 months, we kind of grew apart and just kind of stopped seeing each other. Several months later he came walking through the store where I worked right past the department where I worked holding hands with this really ugly girl. Obviously he wanted me to see him since he knew the store and department that I worked in. I wasn't jealous, but I was angry because the girl was so un-attractive. I was thinking why would he possibly think I would be jelous of that. I was more offended that he would go out with me and then go out with this ugly girl. It is kind of funny now that I am older and I think about, but at the time it really ticked me off, I didn't care that he was dating someone else, I was just upset that she was not pretty. He was good looking enough to go out with anyone he wanted.

feodda, lol. So sorry for laughing. At least now you know that your ex has such bad taste, thank goodness you are no longer with him. Looking at the positive side (for him at least), maybe he hook up with her not for her looks but for her heart. Sometimes, the most hideous looking person can be the sweetest person on earth. But you said the girl is trying to ruin your life. I dont know what she has done, but I suppose, it's better for you to move on and not ponder bout your ex.

If that guy hurt you that much forget about him. He is the type of guy that no girl wants. If she keeps ruining your life then she has noticed that you are a way better person than Her. Good Luck :-)

Yes, of course and that would be extreme humiliation. It would be very painful and degrading because I might think I am an ugly duckling also.lol!

i know this feeling when i saw my ex with another woman who is a super ugly ducking, and a low level person, i was so pissed of that i went striaght to him and show my face and said "it that all you can get???" i was planning to slap him too but i manage to control myself. After a few weeks later he actually contacted me and tried to explain himself that the girl was nothing to him but a pass time and so and so blah blah blah... i just told him just give a little shame to yourself cause he looks pathetic seeing him with that kind of girl. But in yopur case that is much more irritating that that ugly girl is trying to ruin your life. Well you stand up high girl and show them they are just insecured people who is so jealous of you and you won't let them ruin you as that ugly thing don't deserve your time and effort. never stoop down to her level, show here how classy woman really are.

i would get hurt if we are still having our relationship then cheated on me, no matter how pretty or ugly the girl is. but if we are not in a relationship already, meaning we already have in our separate ways, then it would not affect me anyways.

Dont get affected with it anyway its not your lost but his. Just go on with your life and forget everything about your ex, he's not worth your time and love. Just look around maybe the right guy for you is just aound the corner waiting for your love and attention. About the girl trying to ruin your life, well i guess, u just have to ignore her, dont stoop down to her level. Goodluck girl!

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, they say. You might think she is ugly, but he obviously does not. It is not worth stressing over, try to forget about him and her, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Good luck!

We they same story feodda, i've experience that before also to my ex.He replace me with an ugly duckling and the girl try to ruin my life and drag me down.I know its really hurts. But i didnt fight them , and i didnt give any revenge to the girl.Instead I give freedom to my ex beacuse maybe im not enough for him. After that im starting move on until some months ago i met my Mr. right man"my husband" and im happy with him now.