Would you hide your true feelings to your best friend?

It is true that our best friend is always at our side, no matter what will happen. This happen to me in my High School Days. We were classmate since Elementary Years and we're very close friend, to the point he became my best friend. I rely on him. During our Fourth Year High School, I feel something different between us. A love that is more than a Best Friend, but I never told him about my feelings because I was afraid to lose him totally in my life. But we have a common friend that knows both our feelings towards each other. He has a feeling towards me too. Knowing it, making us feeling awkward to each other. Classmates and Friends starting to tease us and trying to let our relationship to go in higher level. We both love each other. But we decided to let our relationship as best friend remains as a Best Friend. We never go to any higher level. We preserve the friendship we had, afraid that someday it will destroy. It is still a good thing for us. Until now, we're still best of friends.

No I am not hide my true feelings to my best friend..because...i have shared everything to my best friend..so why i kide my true feelings from him.. i think.. we don't hide our true feeling's from our best friend..

supposing that my best friend is a boy and i accidentally fell in love with him, i will tell him the truth because i know for sure that he'll understand because he is my best friend. i don't think that that the foundation of friendship can just be easily ruin just for a reason that i no sees him only as a friend but more than that. as long as both our intentions are good then i won't hesitate to have a romantic relationship with him if he feels the same way too. if he's in love with somebody else, i will respect that anyways i'm not expecting that after i confess everything he'll fall for me too. i just want him to be aware so that he won't misinterpret my feelings in the future and so that he won't avoid himself from falling for somebody else just because he does not want to hurt me. if you truly love a person, you'll always think about his/her happiness.

for me, if i really love my bestfriend, though hard and risky, i'll still take my chances of telling him my feelings. But ofcourse, whatever happens, friendship will still remain. I guess, its better to tell him than to keep it to yourself, who knows he might have the same feelings for you but he's just hesitant to tell you because he consider your friendship. However, if things didnt go well as you imagine it to be, you have to acecpt this. if he loves somebody else, accept it and life should go on. at first it will be hard to be the same again but later when you find the right guy for you, things will get better. Its hard to suppress feelings. be true to yourself always because its hard to keep it in yourself.

I would be scared to tell them that I fell for them. I'm not afriad to tell anybody that. Especially if you like your best friend. I wouldn't keep a secret like that from a best friend. I would tell them straight out. It would be a shocker them and to me. They would have to know eventually.

I have a friend,I liked him more than friend.But I did not speak to him start.And then he have a girl friend.I know he did not love his girl friend very much.Because he said his girl friend treat him nice,So he accept her.Some time later,I hint him I like him,he did not accept.But we just forget it,and we still are friend.We will cherish our friendship I think

lovelyn_medrano, I think this love is still hovering heavily around the notion of companionship. I mean, of course, love is companionship, but when that's the only thing you could see in your own relationship, somehow, you will probably experience a cap or stagnation in growth. Is love merely companionship, taking the last bus ride back home and still feeling spiritually empty at the end of it? I am sure everybody generally agrees with the element of compromising in a relationship, but what if compromising becomes a relatively short term measure to a potential, brewing bigger problem? And that would probably be the time when you would want to analyze the root of the problem and resolve them before it becomes a real headache in your relationship (as it probably has been an issue right now). I personally know of several people having the same sort of archetype personality like you; they somewhat believe that a partner is a panacea to every little thing in life. Goodness, how tiring would that sound like? The real underlying issue is but themselves. Oh, just in case you forget, this life of yours is not a box office hit, it is going to get very real and could really slap you on the face if you refuse to be conventionally logical. So, get real here!

I think that it would depend on several different factors. First, how long have the two been friends and what are their ages now. If it is a high-school friendship, I would be less likely to say anything, but if it were an adult friendship, I would probably speak up if, and only if he were single, he showed some sign that he may possibly feel the same, and I was fully prepared to accept the fact that I may be rejected. I think that in high-school, rejection is much harder to deal with and because of this, I would probably keep things to myself.

No, I would say it even I am shy than to hide it. It is good to try than regret later having not say the words which you like to express. If the feelings is mutual then it is good if the other person reciprocate and notice you. Then, if he does not care about my feeling I'll give up and let him go. letting go is the best way to make your love free, even it hurts it is better than forcing.

nope for me i dnt hide it especially his my bestfriend and just in case il say it that i got special feelings for him at least i can know what will he think and what he will answer for this ......i really say what i felt for him...coz i might regret someday if il nah say my true feelings towards him..... infact my BF is my bestfriend :)....i'm just being honest with my feelings...hope you will too