Would you still love the guy that betrayed you many times?

no... i feel bad for those women who still give so much chances for their boyfriends who betrays them for a lot of times. i don't see the point why they'll still wasting their precious time hoping that their boyfriends would change for the better... hmmp! they should use their brains... my gosh!

this situation doesnt happen to me yet but if in case it will happen, i will only forgive him at most twice after that if he still do the same thing, i will not forgive him. i will move on with my life without him. though it would be hard at first but i think i can survive living without him in my life. I guess its better to live alon than with a cheater who eill break your heart million times.

Irene Hi, What's Is 3184 Doing Next to Your Name .. Never Mind, Responding to Your Discussion Betrayal Is Really Terrible To The Person Who Is Betrayed .. There's No Pardon For the Betrayer .. But Some Girls Are Quite Sober And They Tolerate The First Betrayal And Give the person Another Chance Which I Feel Is Wrong .. Because The Commitment To The Relation Should Be Borne Equally By Both The Parties Concerned .. The Person Betraying Must Be Made To Repent Badly For The Betrayal .. How, Don't Ask Me .. I Really Don't Know .. I Am Trying To think Like A Woman, But Not Really Successful .. Thank You For Reading Through ..

I'm sorry but I don't have any tolerance for cheating and betrayal. I don't lie or cheat in a relationship and I won't tolerate it when it is done to me. I don't care what excuse they use...it doesn't fly with me. If we had a problem that drove him to another woman...sorry...the right thing would have been for him to talk to me about that problem. The right thing would be to end the relationship if that problem could not be solved. If he cheats and then asks forgiveness, I'll forgive but I won't continue the relationship. Sorry it is a deal breaker for me.

irene3184, If you like to appease your short term and sacrifice for your long term development - I am fine with it. Because ultimately when time reveals everything, you will realize that you are just dwelling in a black hole, wasting yourself away. No offense, but for someone who prefer to cheat repeatedly, I just feel that there is somebody else definitely much more worthy out there. Sometimes, you should either learn to pick up the broken fragments of yourself, or continue to shatter those pieces into smaller bits. Really, you don't have to convince me that your intuition says he still carry a torch for you because it's your mind. Whether you are deluding and rejecting the option to release yourself off this emotional bondage, is really with and within you. I hope for you and everyone who are being betrayed that you all will ask yourselves this question: Is '...Tough to move on...' a good excuse to remain where you are? Do as you will but don't forget to take care of yourselves here.

no, no longer!