love is blind..!
By Craicha
@Craicha (801)
September 29, 2009 12:01am CST
how did you understand about this saying LOVE IS BLIND?
for me no matter what family background of your love one, how manytimes your love one hurts you but you still dont stop loving him..and lots ...all you want is dont stop in loving him which other can see that ur relationship is not already healthy..but still go on...so your been blind of your love coz you dnt see anything of his faults and you dnt care you already hurts..:)
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@tariqsahiwal (223)
• United Arab Emirates
29 Sep 09
i agree with you love is blind. i love some one she hurts me many time and said me that i never again to talk with you. but i try try again to want to talk with her. 3 years ago she angered hard and disconnected with me for 1 year. but i never stop Love her and be Constant at last she replied to me after one year and that was big day for me. during her angered i never thought about another girl.
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@IMEzekieL (498)
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29 Sep 09
If you won't mind sharing, tell us, what's the reason behind her anger?
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@tariqsahiwal (223)
• United Arab Emirates
29 Sep 09
i purpose her and i said her to I Love You, then he anger with me and disconnected but now she is in my favor and accept my proposal from 20 January 2009 to still we are in contact.
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@hwoarangpoy (196)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
Love may be blind but not forever. You will find yourself in a breaking point. It is not healthy for anyone to frustrate themselves of people who takes advantage of our genuine feelings. Take the courage to be on your way you would not want to be abused right?
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@mesuaky (397)
• Singapore
29 Sep 09
True Love is dangerously blind, In cases people tends to make the wrong right for the peoson you love just to protect him or to received him back to your life, you will accept him for what ever he is, for what ever his done, and specially even if he was terrible and bad you will still continue to accept him as you love him blidly, You will find that you are convincing yourself that its all in his pass, or he didn't really mean those things to happen, or he will change, but its only you who believe in this thing, This is why there are some cases like battered wife and husband. And its not a healty thing in a relationship, sometime one must really wake up and come back to reality to save themselves from deeper pain and misery.
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@Archie0 (5652)
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29 Sep 09
This is just my own personal opinion, but think of it this way...
Yes, you cannot see love, because love grows within you, and when you find that one person you're meant to be with, that love blooms and becomes something special. Real love for another person isn't truly driven by physical characteristics. So, love is "blind" in a way, because it can bring two most unlikely people, together, and all it takes is time and patience. So, love is only seen with the HEART, not with the EYES.
And yes, love can in fact, "blind" you from other things, in other words, it can cause you to lose your attention and main focus of other things aside from love itself.
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
1 Oct 09
Hello
I think love is blind enough that you can't help who you fall in love with, but love is not so blind that you should put up with any an everything that is not right, no matter how blind you may think love is, its not suppose to hurt, if it starts to hurt then its not love my friend,
Thank you.
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@alona_cm20 (33)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
I guess its true, Love is Blind because it accepts our flaws and imperfections as they say always, Nobody is perfect. But i dont think the blindness applies up to the extent of being cheated several times, being hurt several times with the same person. well, that's different story, that's martyrdom. You also need to teach them a lesson by letting them go, so they can analyse their feelings for us. as they always say, You will know the importance of a person, if they are away from you, if you dont have them with you.
Its not a healthy relationship if you just keep blind for all the heartaches she/he cause you. Anyway, if you're really meant to be together, destiny will find its way to let your paths meet again.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 09
Love is blind, you'll only get your eyesight back when you get married. Which is very true for some. They see something good in others while others see the opposite. Once we have signed on the dotted lines, we wonder why we have ever married to that person?
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
I agree to you my friend. Love is blind and it's really true. Because it happened to me. I see nothing despite of being negative in him in many ways, all I see is the love that I always feel for him. I never stop to understand his whole-being.
@IMEzekieL (498)
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29 Sep 09
Love is an abstract noun. It doesn't have eyes to see so obviously, it can't be blind. It just depends on a person who is handling that love.
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@greenfeathers (1206)
• United States
30 Sep 09
True love is indeed blind because one loves the person first and the way one deals with the nuances thereafter flows from that love...Nowadays folks 'love' the nuances first (the walk, the talk and such)and find disappointment with the individual as the nuances drift and/or change. That just ain't love..
ENJOY!
@lixiaoyan (178)
• China
29 Sep 09
I usually feel that ,if the my life is without him ,and what does it like.I have never known that I would love him so deeply that time I got together with him .At everything's begining ,it is he firstly to fall in love with me ,of course I love him ,but just a little love .As time passing ,I found that ,I am getting love him deeper and deeper.If there was a week I had not seen him ,I would feel very nervous and want to see him crazily.I think ,I am loving him blindly.
He loves me deeply too.But ,he is not a bright man,he usually don't know what I am thinking ,what I am angry with ,why I feel unhappy.It makes me doubt that he is loving me.But,even I am angry with him,I still can't help to love ,can't help to want to stay together with him.
Love is blind,it is absoulutly right.
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
30 Sep 09
ya.. i am agree with you.. sometime a person leave everything in her/his life for his love ..so i think love is blind.. love make a person.. sometime.. helpless.. that she/he don't do anything.... a person who get their love is happy..and who don't get their love is totally sad..... i think...to get someone..whom love..is not love...to lost someone is also love.. you lost someone..for her happiness..is also love..
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@cutepink_13 (691)
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30 Sep 09
love is never blind its just we people is always in denial that nothing is wrong so we pretend to be blind. this maybe applicable " the things you don't know will not hurt you".
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@Milykeish (40)
• United States
29 Sep 09
Love is blind when is real True Love. Even if he did alot of mistakes you still love that person no matter what. Sometimes love can hurt you but you learn so much of it :-)
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@ashish1487 (137)
• India
29 Sep 09
really saying love is blind means it doesn't see that to whom you are in love what is it status and how is its family and all its background but as you says that love is blind so ignore your hurting mistakes that is not correct in my opinion because if you are hurt in love than your love with respect to that partner will reduce and you will slowly the amount of love to him will reduce and at that case love is not at peak and than it cannot be blind.
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@athomice (396)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
for me, love is not blind. love sees all things but because love sees all it is willing to be blind. give love purely never expect anything in return, once you expect something in return it's not love anymore. that's why there'a saying that true love hurts. that's what i understand about love.
peace! god bless!
@kapilvashisth (91)
• India
29 Sep 09
LOVE IS BLIND..the answer is in inside the question..when the faith of couple is so much on their partners they won't see the ill effects of their relationships..they doenot worry about their families,their careers,won't looking this is day or night .when the couple are mad about themselves,they donot sleep,just think about themselves..they come in their dreamss..that is when the LOVE IS BLIND..
thnxx
@Angelindisguise (378)
• India
29 Sep 09
Not In 2day's Society
People Say They love Sum1 But love Only Them Becoz Their Partner
Is Beautiful............... Today's Love is based On Looks
So How Can Love Be Blind ?
But For Me U Don't Love With Your Eyes You Love With your Heart :-)
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@arabmaqlumz (24)
• Indonesia
29 Sep 09
I don't think so..I think love is not blind..this is my opinion.. if we love someone, it is because we have some reason for it. and i think for loving someone , we need a litle bit be more patience.. that's all..:)