Somebody Married !4 Times. Whose Fault Is it?

The fault is on the man.As in the news,he had approached only widow women and they have fallen in prey with his money and good looks.Remarriage for widows is still a hard thing in our country and no wonder if the parents run in hasty decisions.I wonder how this man managed to maintain relationship with all the fourteen girls.Cheers!

14 wives! All at the same time? That is completely crazy and actually I think that it makes a mockery of marriage. People should only marry when they truly love someone and really do want to spend their lives with that person.

Okay I'm assuming he is married to 14 women at once....and if they were all up for getting married then NOBODY is at fault.... Today we see marriages are arranged not based on the character of the bride or the groom. It is financial consideration LOL thats nothing new..in fact it was MORE common place centuries ago compared to today..Marriage was about social status and money way way back in the day.. Girls fall for looks and glamour again not true when it comes to the majority... I dont see anything wrong with what he and his wives are doing..if they are all in agreement of it then whats the problem..

I have read this news too. Its just something I feel bad about. I think that person is mad and sick. How can he dupe so many women and their families? i think they could not know beforehand about him.

This is a complex situation. Neither the man nor that 14 women can be blamed without analysing deep into that situation. Yes, in the present scenario, woman falls for man's wealth and they are least bothered about his character and other aspects. They fail to check the family's background and fall prey in the traps of these kinda persons. In the otherwise, Guys falls just looking at the glamour and beauty of women and fails to analyse their character, nature and other things. In my personal opinion, I never pity for these kind of girls and guys. They deserve for these kinds of attitude and activities. In my opinion, the fault lies on either side. The guy must be an extremely talented person to flatter 14 women or the 14 women must be a bunch of fools to bleieve the man and his false approach.

this an act of depraved. As a male, I'm not agree. If he is real gentleman and intended to help, he should marry only at most 4 wifes, not 14.

You are so right, it was financial consideration with so much of money to throw away and afford all of them, he seems like a casanova on the roll!

For me it depend on the situation, as you said there are some case like parental marriage because of money. sometimes also too young the woman get pregnant and the man need to marry the woman.But you know its not that i am woman and defending all the woman in th world. But for me its the man. we woman if we will be in a situation of arranged married maybe at first we dont like the man but when the man treat us well we woman become soft and fall inlove with that man. But if the case of the man mif they dont like the woman it will never change the emotion.

Ok, let me get this straight, the man currently has a total of 14 wives?? I am sorry for all of you polygamists out there, but I think that is very wrong. I am happily married to one man, and I am his ONLY wife. I was previously married, but that marriage ENDED in DIVORCE. How can any one person find happiness with more than one spouse, let alone 14? I think that this man purposely set out to deceive women and their parents, and those women and parents were so desparate, for whatever reason, for maiirage that they didn't even care to look into the backgground of this man. Where I come from and the way I was raised, this is actually illegal and considered to be immoral, and is called adultry (cheating on your spouse). I honestly feel that those people whose religious/cultural beliefs entitle or expect them to have more than one spouse cannot truly be happy in life.

if the man just married 14 times in his whole life i would not be very surprised. However in such short period he can marry 14 times i feel a little shocked and confused. I don't know what marriage means to him, and if the women know his history? What's the reason they got married and what's the reason they got divorced. By the way I feel a little confused with what you said. How can the man make money by getting married? I do feel sorry for the women who were cheated by it. No matter what they did, the truth was too cruel.

14 wives wow um, that's a bit much and I think that's crazy to have that many wives in that short of time.

The man is at fault. He should never do this....after all all are human beings and have a natural life to live...

Polygamy is not allowed in most religions; Islam allows up to four wives but most Muslim (in my country) would not marry all four at once. If a person is able to show the same care for all his wives, and provide for all of them, then they could marry more wives. If they can't, and they still marry more than one, then they're probably selfish or desperate. We are not in a position to blame anyone who practices polygamy; it has its roots thousands of years ago.

If the women are all fully aware of the fact that there are 13 others than I can't say that the blame belongs anywhere but with them. How can one be upset by the situation if one knew the situation before becoming apart of it. I am against polygamy only because I don't believe that each wife gets what she needs when she is sharing with so many other women. How can one man take care of multiple wives and children?

Are you against polygamy? I will say it is fine if the women were aware that the guy is already married and then agreed to marry him, otherwise it is cheating. I think Muslims are allowed to have more than one wife and it is happening in Muslim countries. It is happening in India also. I live in Chennai and the chief minister of my state has two wifes - everybody knows about it.