do you think this is a good idea?

@lynsai (36)
United States
November 13, 2006 2:53pm CST
my boyfriend and I want our daughter to be a part of our wedding. so we are waiting to get married.. ultimatly we want her to be our flower girl
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11 responses
@estarga (1188)
• United States
13 Nov 06
I don't know how to answer that, without knowing what would be making you wait, is she not the right age or what?
@lynsai (36)
• United States
13 Nov 06
well right now we are waiting to save enough money to have a wedding.. but by the time we do then she will be the right age
@estarga (1188)
• United States
13 Nov 06
Okay, yeah that's a great idea. Congrats!
@newmommy (13)
• United States
13 Nov 06
I think thats a really nice idea. How old is your daughter now?
@lynsai (36)
• United States
13 Nov 06
she is two months now.. so we have a while
• United States
13 Nov 06
Great idea. I am planning the same thing but I have 6 children and I don't want anybody to be in our wedding except for maybe my dad. If not than I'll have my son give me away. My other son will be the best man or maybe the ringboy. I have 4 daughters that will be flower girls. I don't need any brides maids. I just want me him and my kids. I just think that would be sooo cute.
• United States
13 Nov 06
That sounds very good to me. Congratulations on your pending marriage! How old is she now? What age are you waiting for her to be until you get married? I just love weddings!
• United States
13 Nov 06
It is entirely up to you. Waiting can be a good thing. Having a baby at a wedding can cause problems. If she cries during the ceremony it can be disruptive. It is better to have her grow up a bit. That way she can enjoy the attention too. My niece who was 8 months old was the flower girl at my wedding. Her mother carried her in her arms. She was so sweet.
@donglory (677)
• Ghana
13 Nov 06
that is good dear
@amitavch3 (436)
• India
13 Nov 06
yes
• United States
13 Nov 06
Wedding Dove of Peace - wedding dove of peace
How old is she now? I think that is a sweet idea, and if that is what you want then there is no reason why you shouldn't do it.
@cikedo (3483)
• United States
13 Nov 06
I think that's a great idea.
@helper1 (765)
• Canada
13 Nov 06
My youngest son was my ring carrier at two years old, how old is your daughter? I've also seen a couple get married with their newborn daughter as their flower girl, the mother and father both holding her juring the vows.
• Canada
13 Nov 06
If that is what you want to do, then do it! If someone else is saying otherwise, this is YOUR day!!! I think that is very sweet! Do you have anyone else in mind? Maybe what they could do if old enough of push your daughter down the isle in a little carriage or wagon or something. I have seen pictures of that and it is sooo sweet! Congrats none the less!