I never deny a friendship offer in mylot ! why should I deny no?

hi,oarnamav,first I think you are a very kind guy,I am not very successfull as you,but I love life and would like to make friends all over the world,there are many troublesome and depression in life,but I believe tomorrow is another day,we must gain better life in future.enjoy yourself!

I agree with you whole-heartedly, oarnamav. After all, humans are social beings. They crave for company. Even if someone prefers loneliness, he'd like some really close one to be by him. When people can't find so many friends in their real world, they come over to find some in this virtual world of the internet. But friends and companions are needed. Loneliness drives a person mad. I also try to cheer up depressed friends. I enjoy their company. And success isn't absolute. It's a relative concept. If you set your goals to be low, and not run after unattainable goals, then of course, you'll be at peace and content with yourself.

I like making friends also. It's not so easy being a woman though. Most times, friendliness is misconstrewed, when you are a woman, so it's not as easy for a woman, as it is a man. I usually try to help people on the internet more, by giving them links that can help them out, or talking to them.

I agree. You really shouldn't put anything on your profile that you wouldn't want the world to see. Plus, you don't know the people in real life, so it's not like you could have anything against them based on a real world situation.

I love having so many friends. In real life, online, and on MyLot. You're completely right! Why say no to a friend request? As long as they are not bad to you, you can have a good time. It's feels great to help a friend in need. When they are depressed, frustrated, happy, etc. I love enjoying life and I'm pretty successful. I have many many friends over the years of my life. Through high school and college is where I made most of my true friends. I've had a few girlfriends, currently one right now. I'm pretty happy with my life and I enjoy it even more at MyLot and with my friends. Thanks for posting this topic and have a good time at Mylot!

I have added everyone that has ever sent me a friend request. I see no reason at all to deny them. In fact the only reason at all that I would take them off would be if they spammed me. To me that is very wrong. Plus the more friend's you have the more discussion's you may end up finding to reply to.

Hi oarnamav, Me too, I never deny any friend request from members at myLot. I feel honored and happy when I receive a friend request be it from a veteran or from a newbie. I do check the profile only to know something about his/her personality but whatever I see there won't stop me from accepting the request. It's just so fun to have many friends.

Hey oarnamav, I used to not deny friend requests, then I read some discussions which mentioned about how some members rejected requests because there are other members around who are just out to spam you with referrals for websites. So now I check the profiles of people to see if they are been in discussions I have been in, like either my own, or if I have been to theirs. If I have then I always accept, if not then I tend to reject because I can't understand how they found me! With the friends I do have though I would definitely like to help them through any troubling situations they encounter in the future. That is one of my favourite parts of friendships I have made on places before mylot. Through helping my friends I have always felt that I can make a much stronger and meaningful connection with them. I have always got a nice little buzz out of knowing that I helped someone, and that if I ever need help I can go to that person and give them the same buzz as well. As for being successful and a go getter I can safely say no to both of those lol. I am just an ordinary person with experiences I like to share :) Happy mylotting and all the best, Dranz