Give Your Parents Pleasure After The Pressure!!

Parents are the ones who give their unconditionaly love. No one else can love you the way parents do. Yes, there are some parents who are so involved and busy to solve their own personal problems that they can't pay attention to their child's need. But mostly parents make lots of sacrifices for their child. In return, many don't pay back to their parents for their sacrifice, just curse them for their old age and diseases or abandon them or send them to some old age home. But one should not treat one's parents in such a inhuman manner, they should take care of their parents in their old age as they did when you were a kid. Ir at least let them stay along with you in your house and not some old age home. At least they will be surrounded by their family and will have a good life. Otherwise, it is just a life with some other old people who have no home or have been left back by their children because they can't bear their interference in their choice. I would say that they don't interfere, they just give their opinion because they have experienced more than us and always know better than us, but still sometimes we can't accept what they say, this is what we call as generation gap and that's where the conflict arises and as a result parents are sent away. All should give proper respect to their parents even in their old age and return them what they have done for you when you were a child, consider them your child in their old age!! Have a Happy Life!

Yes i do understand that our parents have sacrificed a lot to enable us to be what we are today.We should not put undue demands on our parents in their twilight years.The basic thing is to do what is expected of us so we do not burden them.There should be no recourse to antisocial action.A bit of mischief children are bound to do but to repeatedly depend on parents to bail them out isn't feasible.For all the sacrifices that parents make the best a child could do is to excel in any area he/she chooses and accomplish the same without resorting to anti social activity.

Very well said rberon, aside from the support, take good care of them when they grow old. Be at their side when they needed you most, stay by them till their last breath. Taking care of parents is a great, rewarding experience. It's a wonderful feeling having the experience of a child becoming a mother or a father to his own parents sometime.

you're very right there. my parents never took the money i've been giving them eversince i was single and still has a job. so much so now when i just try to earn a little something online. however, i now have a kid and everytime we would visit my parents i make sure there is a new skill that my 3 year old would show them. considering the fact that my child is the only grandchild even little antics bowl everyone over there in my house over.

Hi Rberon. Nobody loves and takes care of us quite like a good parent. When we get older and on our own, it is pleasure to buy them nice gifts or help them do any and all things as they get on in years, from running errands to taking them for outings and helping with household repairs or even expenses. Karen

Every month I try to take my dad and mom outside to travel a bit,to dine together or to have lunch in week ends too, for me it is like I am thanking them for what they have done to me, I will always be respecting them for what I am today.

My parents and I don't live close to each other. But when I have time I go visit my mom. I don't have a relationship with my dad. There have been many times my husband and I have taken my mom out for dinner or other outings. We don't have a lot of money so can't really help her in many other ways but if I could get a lot of money I would help her by paying some of her bills or buying her a new car.

You posted a great topic, Rberon. I have the same feelings as yours. My parents do sacrifice a lot for me, and I am in a posistion where I am able to pay back to my parents. I have that strong feeling that, I want to be their son forever, and do what I can to make them lead a good life. But I didnt know or understand and say what I just said years ago. I think most of us would understand how hard being parents to be, but it's never late to realize and hence pay back to our parents. However, there are still a lot of adult 'kids' dont know what to cherish, who are the ones love themself. That's a shame, but I'm glad that we know and we are going to pay back to parents. Cheers.

yes,great parents i have.they are the only people we never hate and get angry or break up.they are the warm arms when we got hurt outside.parents is the best gift in my life.no them no my life.

oh gosh!!! do i have too?! lol!i know how my parents have tried to make us a better individuals. we have eaten nice foods, finish studies and life has been to good to be true because of them. but though we have some downs in our lives but they never did given up on us. i just hope we do too... i am proud and honored to say that i am the one helping out my parents now. my dad has his early retirement and mom is just plain mom... she has always been in the house and the best there is, way before and even up until now, she is the best mom i ever had!!! and now i am the one who pay some bills, buy our groceries and many many else. my dad will be getting his pension next year... so i guess its my time to pay them back... and i love them both dearly!!! jhelai

It's true that we can never forget whatever they have done. After all its because of them that we are alive. My life infact belongs to them. So what ever I do for them, that won't be a sacrifice, rather I see it as my duty. It was nice to see such a discussion. Happy Lotting

well, i allowed my mom to play in the computer for that free cell or solitaire. she doesn't really get out that much unless she wants to go back to the province. all she does now that she retired is gardening, gardening and laundry..she said, it's better than sitting on couch watching tv where she only watch news...and santino

I'm planning on how to treat my parents for a vacation. Right now am planning on how to earn the money to send them on a trip for 2 to an island paradise. It's really an honor for me since they are the one who work to send me to school and giving me my needs. I really want to payback what they have done for me.

You are very lucky if these things were true of your parents. I don't recognize too much of mine in your description. My parents have never believed I am right - if I was in trouble they would take the other persons side. They taught me that I am a useless piece of dirt who is not capable of making a decision or having an opinion of her own. I have killed myself to please and honor my parents for years. I will to try and treat them well because the only power I have myself is that I can make the choice to forgive them. Oh, and moving to another country helped a lot...lol

I think its a very nice discussion. You are right,.We all should try to give comfort, pleasure to our parents when we are in a position to earn something. We should always remember what sacrifices they did for us.I try my best to provide them the best I can

This is great!! We do owe our parents a lot! So many times we forget what they sacrificed for us. So even a simple phone once a week just to let them know you are thinking about them and love them. I am blessed to be super close to my mom and try to call her everyday. I also send her flowers every year on "my" birthday in a way to tell her thank you for giving me life and supporting me through it.