What happens to the passion after being married 15 years?

United States
November 13, 2006 6:02pm CST
I have been married for 15 years and want to know what can I do to spice up my marriage and feel the chills and shivers I felt when we first met.
3 responses
dawnwv30
@dawnwv30 (63)
• United States
14 Nov 06
Have an affair! LOL! Just kidding....you need to make time to share things that are special to each other. Take time to appreciate each other. Try to think of all the good things that you share. I have been married for 13 years and some days its almost impossible to feel that way...but others its just there. Marriage is hard work but just like any other work sometimes you need a vacation from the "job". Be silly together...play a little, enjoy life together!
ahrdwrkr
@ahrdwrkr (689)
• United States
14 Nov 06
...just remember what you felt in the beginning and concentrate on that instead of all the things that happen in between the beginning and now.
miajane
@miajane (359)
• United States
14 Nov 06
nothing has to happen to it. but when we stop taking care of ourselves and eachother, things can get monotonous and boring. especially with kids.