Yes, I did change the avatar... for a gone friend.
By theprogamer
@theprogamer (10534)
United States
September 5, 2009 11:53pm CST
I know I was away when it happened, but when the news hit me, I felt bad. I thought of one way to honor this person beyond posting and it took awhile for many reasons. The answer came to me easily, thinking about our talks on mylot and our interests. So, Kaede is gone (for now...I think) and here is the new character and avatar chief... (you didn't think I'd just give away the name like that... there is still a possible best response and internet points to earn!)
So here's to you Bellaofchaos. [/salute] I do not know how reality and existence work (but I have plenty of thoughts, readings, theories on the matter), but I honestly hope you are out there in some capacity and you get to read this.
To those that knew and loved Bella, thanks for being a part of her life.
Cheers! This is your discussion too as much as it is hers.
~Pro.
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8 responses
@cynicalandoutspoken (4725)
• United States
7 Sep 09
She would love it Pro! Thank you. I forgot the two of you shared an anime obsession.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
7 Sep 09
*nod*
Want to hear something interesting about this. I actually had a dream I used this avatar on mylot, this was about 2-3 months ago. Kind of weird but still very intriguing in my view.
Anyways, another cheer for Bella.
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@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
6 Sep 09
I'm so bad because I didn't even notice with your last discussion that your avatar had changed. Your so lucky that I respond by email because when my friends change their avatar I am left so confused.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
6 Sep 09
Well, I believe I'll end up going back to the original theme in a month or so, but for now I just wanted this avatar up. She was a fan of the character/series and we did talk about it from time to time.
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@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
6 Sep 09
I had not seen the name that you mentioned and I thought that you meant that the person just quit mylot and didn't realize until after I posted (I respond by email) that the member had passed. I'm sorry programmer for your lose.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
6 Sep 09
Do you mean he/she is gone or had he/she left mylot ??? if he/she left the world then god bless rest in peace yea .
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
6 Sep 09
Left the world from what I gathered. Its still rough to think about.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
9 Sep 09
Hi Pro, I’m so sorry 
to learn that your good friend, Bella had left. May be she is somewhere around reading this post as well as the specially avatar for her. She might feel glad and comfort to have such a faithful friend like you. It’s not easy to come across good friend.
I hope you would feel rather relief after using the anime as your current avatar and sharing the info about her here. Really, this is the unique way to commemorate the friendship after the gone. Yeah, you are great to have such good idea to memorize your friend! I think most probably she was also a huge fan of anime.
Take care and happy posting 
to learn that your good friend, Bella had left. May be she is somewhere around reading this post as well as the specially avatar for her. She might feel glad and comfort to have such a faithful friend like you. It’s not easy to come across good friend.
I hope you would feel rather relief after using the anime as your current avatar and sharing the info about her here. Really, this is the unique way to commemorate the friendship after the gone. Yeah, you are great to have such good idea to memorize your friend! I think most probably she was also a huge fan of anime.
Take care and happy posting 
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
7 Sep 09
Pro it was devastating and sad, a lot of us could not believe it
Believe me I couldn't if it would not have come from Sparks I would not have believed it
She is still missed and I sometimes look at her Avatar and just ask why
She was so young, sweet and caring why did it have to happen
But believe me she will read this as she is always with us
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
8 Sep 09
Hello theprogamer. It is so nice of you to honor your friend by changing the avatar as one of the ways. She is sure to appreciate it. I am so sorry to hear her leaving us and wish her all the best in the world belonging to her. Bless her and thank you for the discussion, dear friend.
