what do you feel when you find out that a friend is not really a friend at all?

I have been hurt by my friends like what you said. I just feel very tierd when i know the truth. I leave her decisively, and I have many new friend now.They are all kindly and sincere, I have been enjoying a happy time with them.

I try really hard not to think about him/her. I'll try not to care about the treason.

it will be a very sad thing for me becoz i am very particular about friends, they are the most precious gifts of life one could ever have. but when this friend does not care about you or ditches you then a heart is broken and with the broken heart the world seems to be nothing but like a hell.

of course i will be disappointed if i'll find out that the person i considered a friend is not actually a friend. But before you ends it up you have to confront them and ask regarding the issue. Try to listen to them and evaluate it. If you think they don't deserve second chance then better to stay away from them and be casual. There are still lot of people who wanted to befriend you and who are deserving with your friendship.

At first... I feel a little angry... and depending on how developed (that I thought) the friendship was.. Maybe even a little sad.... should I start to cry, I remind myself of the reasons that this person is no longer my friend, feel relieved, start to smile and rejoice that the drama and energy leech is gone from my life. Amen xD

i would surely pity those kind of friends.for they lost a real one.

i feel bad of course, i am only human. but after that i just move on. there is nothing i can do about that. this happened to me recently and i have her as a friend maybe for 3 or 4 years already or maybe more. we shared a lot of things together. ups and downs. mostly her downs. she was really into a lot of problems on those years. but she delete me on her friendster account that came to me as a shock. i know this was coming for she has a new boyfriend that dont want me as her friend. but still it was hurting but i need to go on with my life. i still have friends that are worth loving.

I would keep my distance and not let them know what I know. As they saying goes "keep your friends close and your enemies closer".