what did you do on first date ??

India
September 12, 2009 7:20am CST
hi friends i recently fell in love with a girl ...we have planned to for a dating ..so i want to know wat you did in your fist date ...as this responses will help me friends please post your experiances ..it will a great help for me...waiting for your responses ....
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@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
hello vinoth! Although u haven't tell how long have you known the girl or how close or how much you know each other. But then if it's really your first date, and you are in the stage of getting to know each other, i wouldn't suggest a movie since you cannot talk anything there. and it's awkward that a new girl is sitting beside you in the dark LoL. I suggest a good dinner that will include a nice conversation. Choose a place that has a good ambiance but not too expensive and formal that the two of you will feel uncomfortable eating. Be real. Don't pretend that you are someone and don't try to show off as it will turn off a girl. Try to make her laugh too. A joke is good but be careful not to offend her. In my first date, we just had a pizza and steak in an Italian resto. We are both good eater so we didn't have any problem with the food. Ahh, never order spaghetti or something messy on your first dinner date LoL! Well goodluck and enjoy^^;;
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@grace118224 (1038)
• China
12 Sep 09
Well my boy friend asked me to eat out and then we went to the cinema later on. There was nothing new for the first date because at that time we were very close to each other . But i do love to eat out . Ordering some delicious food and having some pleasant chat would help a lot to improve your relationship, i think. I don't know whether your girl friend would like to go shopping or not. My boyfriend also accompanied me a lot to go shopping . We just enjoyed walking on the street instead of buying things.
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@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
14 Sep 09
When i met my husband, i was supposed to meet him at his brothers for a few hours, and then go back to my house.. (i met him through his brother, but we spoke online for months prior to meeting) but we got snowed in together. It was pretty fun times.. we got to know eachother fast..
@moondancer (7433)
• United States
12 Sep 09
On my first date with my husband we went out to dinner at a nice restaurant and then went dancing. He then took me home. I could not stay out late and didn't want to on the first date. The second one we went out an I showed him around town, as he didn't know the area very well. We ate, he my son and I played darts and shot some pool. Then my son and I went home. It is nice to go on a picnic and do something that she likes to do.
• India
13 Sep 09
I am confused, you had your first date after you got married or is it the other way round?! Well, your experience sounds really cool, you must have had a gala time being together! Cheers
• United States
13 Sep 09
We knew each other for about a year, dated for about 6 months and then got married. We have been married for 18 years now.
• India
12 Sep 09
I belong to a conservative family. I was never allowed to go on dates except with my prospective grooms, or those who I was likely to marry. On my first date, I volunteered to pay the bill, and the guy said, "this time I will pay". I was rather put off because I had no money of my own and was not considering taking up a job. Other few dates were also funny until I found my husband whom I am married to. We even have a four year old son. However I still haven't forgotten my experiences when I went on dates. They are good for a laugh.
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• Japan
13 Sep 09
Well, I was still in high school at the time, so we went to see a PG-13 movie and then went to Taco Bell for a late night dinner. I didn't really like the guy, but I had a good time anyway. I wouldn't recommend a movie unless you already know the girl pretty well though. If you don't know her, you won't be able to talk to her in a theatre. Dinner is always a good idea though. Find somewhere you feel relaxed-- nothing expensive or really nice. Just somewhere you can be yourself.
• India
13 Sep 09
I am very surprised that if u din't like the guy then why did you go with him for a date and even for a late night dinner. If you don't love someone truly then you should not make him fool and go for date with him as it's not fair.
• Japan
13 Sep 09
We were in high school. We weren't in love, we were curious. To be honest, I think you're expecting way too much if you're saying you're "in love" before your first date. But I really do hope things go well for you. Maybe you'll be lucky and that first date is all you need. Good luck!
• Japan
13 Sep 09
Sorry, I just checked out your profile and I'm wondering if there might be a cultural difference here. I'm from America, and here, if you go on a first date with such high expectations your almost always setting yourself up for failure. For me at least (I can't speak for all Americans), the first date is more of a casual thing. Things might be different in other parts of the world. Again, I wish you the best of luck!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
12 Sep 09
Congrats to u!! hehe May everything work out well for u!! hehe It all depends on what kind of person u are, as well as her character.. hehe ^_^ If she's someone quiet and shy, then take her to some quiet places, or with romantic ambience.. haha =D However, not to places that's isolated, for she might be scared instead.. lol =D BUt if she's someone sporty or active, then bring her outdoors for some sun activities.. haha =D That will be good though.. NO matter what u do, make sure u impress her with what u got, so that, there will be a 2nd date, and many more to come.. haha =D
• Malaysia
13 Sep 09
Me and my boyfriend went for our first date after get to know each other in seven month.We just hangout at restaurant,eating fries and drinking colas.Get to know each other.Then we go for window shopping.Its all about getting to know each other closely and we still feel awkward that time and its pretty boring actually.hehe..I think you should go out and watch movie with your date.It is romantic,im sure your dates will love it.
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
12 Sep 09
My first real date was under a bus stop. It's not romantic but it's not that bad either. Actually we never meet before that and he's a friend's friend. I don't know where to go and he said, "Let's meet at the bus stop." I think he's brain freeze too but he still show up. I even noticed how nervous he was. At least we walked to a nearby cafe half an hour later.
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
13 Sep 09
First of all congratulations on your relation. Well, my first date wasn't much interesting or romantic or like the ones we fantasize. It was just another "more-than-a-friendly" meet where we shared our feelings and the symptoms that signified love. We went to a park, which was rarely crowded as few people heeded it. I thought it'd be a perfect place, as we don't have any private place here in city and we didn't want to visit a restaurant for some candle light dinner etc etc. We wanted to spend some quality time being together and so we did. Yeah, one thing I always regret, I didn't embrace her or kiss her that day. Nevertheless, I always cherish the sweet moments, its been a memorable day for me! Good luck for your first date!
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
hi vino, my boyfriend now is my first boyfriend ever, we are 5 years and 2 months now.. no plan to get married, but somehow we are looking for our future together.. well, on our first date, we do it on the beach.. i like it, he was so caring and sweet.. we watch the sky, stars and moon.. i will never forget it.!! janebeth.
@reyaz678 (34)
• India
13 Sep 09
I fell in love with a irl and when i went for first date with her i talked with her very politely and i dint do any mischief. She was the only girl in my life i truly loved.
• United States
12 Sep 09
Well, you don't exactly need to spend much on your date. Just stay at home, rent an old movie you haven't seen, and then mute it. Then, while you're watching it, make up lines for the people in it. :)
@calai618 (1773)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
Contrary to what most people here say, I think watching movies will prevent you from getting to know each other better. I prefer dining out on casual restaurants or going to theme parks (yes, themeparks!!!) because these places induce more conversation. Going to these casual instead high end places will make you guys less awkward or intimidated. If you get bored in one of these places, you can always leave and go to another place without really worrying about the budget. Walking around is also a good way to get close to each other.
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
If i remember it correctly, on all my first dates, we went to the movies.. it was really casual.. and fun.. I don't like going to fine restaurants, cause it's awkward.. and we usually don't have anything good to talk about.. so I prefer the movies, less time to talk,... lol.