Will you gift your partner on your first date? If yes what will you gift?
By dolmitta
@dolmitta (221)
India
8 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
14 Sep 09
If it is the first date then I don't think I would give him anything either. I mean like you said wolf you are just getting know each other and don't know what they would like not to mention I wouldn't want the guy to think I am too clingy or too attached after the first date.
@neo_matrix (884)
• India
13 Sep 09
ya i might if things go well.it may not be something fancy but something i feel will remind him of me .might be a small key chain or stuff like that.have you ever tried something like that?
@daliaj (5674)
• India
14 Sep 09
This is an interesting question. I think usually people especially guys gift the girl something when they go on their first date. I know a friend of mine who got a teddy bear for the girl on their first date. If I put myself in the shoes of a person who goes for a first date; I won't get anything. Firstly, I don't know the person and I don't know what he likes. I prefer not to take the risk of getting something he dislikes. I also don't want to waste money unnecessarily if I am not serious about the relationship.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
14 Sep 09
Hi Dolmitta. Here in the US, it is more customary for a man to give a woman a 1st date gift, such as flowers. The first "gift" I would give to someone I am dating would be to cook dinner for him, or give him something I had baked myself--cookies, perhaps, or sweet bread.
Karen
@pinklemonade (486)
•
15 Sep 09
I would probably not give a gift on a first date as it would kind of seem like bribary. I guess I am fairly traditional in the way that it would seem super sweet if a guy bought me flowers or something but it would seem weird as a woman to bring a guy something. I wouldn't turn down buying him dinner or whatever we were doing though if he couldn't afford it. I do like the small things that matter though, like buying a small random suprise of a gift just because you love them
@tutor19us (455)
• India
14 Sep 09
If I am a guy, I would surely carry a gift. But If I am a girl, I will expect a gift. :) But surely, its a nice thing to gift something to your special person on your first date. It adds that much more charm and romance. :)
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
13 Sep 09
I think if going on date with someone..then i gave her a beautiful gift.. that is my heart... i feels her how i am very caring nature for her... and if her realized ..so that is very beautiful gift for me and her.. although i will gave her a diamond ring after accepting my proposal...i think she is also caring for me..then it is a very beautiful gift for me...aand i will never forget...that gift.. and when that day will coming in my life...i thinh that is the unforgetable day of my life..
@mattivdw (46)
• Antarctica
13 Sep 09
If it is the first date, you are still getting to know each other.
I'm a guy so if I like the girl during the first date it is clever to give something to her.
Something sweet. Nothing special. Just something small when she is back home and watches, reminds her of you. An object that connects you with her. Maybe tehre is an emotion hidden behind this. It really can be anything.
Or you can give her a piece of napkin with your number on it =p