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tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 1 Mar 10

Recently I got involved in a verbal duel with my father-in-law. He just went on accusing me and said that he has to tolerate me. I kept quiet for a while and when nobody came to my rescue started defending myself. After a point, I...

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tutor19us Well, FIL is a routine-based guy. He hates people who deviate from "his" routine, mind you, not their own routines. So, he flared up coz I did not do something that he had expected and started abusing my parents. Thats when I got wild.

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tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 1 Mar 10

Recently I got involved in a verbal duel with my father-in-law. He just went on accusing me and said that he has to tolerate me. I kept quiet for a while and when nobody came to my rescue started defending myself. After a point, I...

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tutor19us Yeah daliaj, its ok when you live in different countries. The troubles will start when you live with them or they come visiting you. I am not sure if westerners are different in their approach to the whole DIL and MIL/FIL thing or are they the same as Indians....

5 Apr 11

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 29 Sep 10

I was having a crappy day, and I was at a local grocery trying to get a few things which I should have gotten on my last trip. As I stood in front of the shelves, berating myself, with my mind at a hundred miles a minute, I saw a...

hello

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tutor19us Yes, I have had such an experience. Its usually with people I have never seen. In fact, whenever I see strangers wishing me and smiling, I always smile back. It truly makes me feel very nice, also that the other person may have a bad day if I dont smile back....

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puccagirl @puccagirl (7294) • Israel 28 Sep 10

Okay, so this is something me and my fiancee discuss a lot: I think it is very important that all parts of the bed match, including the sheets, the pillow cases, etc. So I always make the bed with matching sets. My fiancee does...

bed set

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tutor19us But, the best part is, you feel so nice about the arrangement. You get real nice thoughts and a very fitful sleep.

29 Sep 10

puccagirl @puccagirl (7294) • Israel 28 Sep 10

Okay, so this is something me and my fiancee discuss a lot: I think it is very important that all parts of the bed match, including the sheets, the pillow cases, etc. So I always make the bed with matching sets. My fiancee does...

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tutor19us Like you, I make sure that everything matches. I do not like sheets or pillow covers that do not match with the spread. If I do not find completely matching sheets and all, I try to arrive at a color coordinated pattern.

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cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 28 Sep 10

I miss my mom so much. Today marks the day of her death anniversary. She has been dead for 25 years. I miss her so much. I know that I am not going to be able to go to her gravestone and place a flower on it, at all. I...

mom death anniversary mom death sadness

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tutor19us My mom lives 2kms away from me. I still miss her a lot. Sometimes I chat with her online and sometimes I talk to her. I also forget to call her on some days. But, on those days, she calls me and we chat. Its fun to be with my mom.

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pentagan12 @pentagan12 (757) • Philippines 28 Sep 10

A woman usually has the so-called “ideal man”. I, personally have my ideal guy- someone I can be proud of in many different ways; a man I would love to see every minute of the day; a man who is willing to love me for all that I...

love

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tutor19us And, if you are angry or hurt because of your spouse, dont despair, just take a deep breath and think about the nice things they did for you. Love will come flying back in.

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pentagan12 @pentagan12 (757) • Philippines 28 Sep 10

A woman usually has the so-called “ideal man”. I, personally have my ideal guy- someone I can be proud of in many different ways; a man I would love to see every minute of the day; a man who is willing to love me for all that I...

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tutor19us Love is always worth fighting for. You may have had a marriage after knowing your partner for years or never seen him or her before the wedding night. Whatever maybe the case, eventually love blossoms and keeps you rooted with the partner. Especially, post...

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thunderbala @thunderbala (748) • India 1 Mar 10

hi mylotters, do you post review on a very lengthy discussions which are above 200 words approx? i have not seen much reviews to lengthy discussions.whats the reason behind this?

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tutor19us Well, I do read and respond to discussions if I find the topic interesting. I do not bother if the discussion is very lengthy or not. Some people may not reviews such lengthy discussions may be coz of lack of time. They want to finish off maximum number of...

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tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 1 Mar 10

Recently I got involved in a verbal duel with my father-in-law. He just went on accusing me and said that he has to tolerate me. I kept quiet for a while and when nobody came to my rescue started defending myself. After a point, I...

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dolmitta @dolmitta (221) • India 13 Sep 09

To go out with your partner for the first time is something very exciting. So, Will you gift your partner on your first date? If yes what will it be?

gift

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tutor19us If I am a guy, I would surely carry a gift. But If I am a girl, I will expect a gift. :) But surely, its a nice thing to gift something to your special person on your first date. It adds that much more charm and romance. :)

14 Sep 09

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 13 Sep 09

I am very sad to say that I am forced to work today. I am going through a busy work schedule, running fast to meet tight deadlines. I amd depressed and demotivated because my company didn't give a hike in salary for the last two...

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tutor19us Hi Daliaj, I can completely understand your position and empathise with you. But you know what there is always some other sorrow that is greater than ours. Let me give you an example: Two of my friends, a couple, got married recently last year. Afetr...

14 Sep 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 27 Aug 09

I am trying to read a book written by an Indian author. I was wondering how many of you read a book. If you read a book, do you read it for pleasure? Or do you read a book as a habit? Do you feel it is a good habit to read? Does...

books

reading habit

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tutor19us Oh Daliaj, That was so touching! :) I think you should just begin the journey one fine day, maybe this weekend. Then once you start, you must keep up the tempo. Atleast read a few lines a day before going to bed. ;) In fact if you are suffering...

11 Sep 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 30 Jul 09

I have been crazy about driving from a long time. I simply love the feel of maneuvering a car and taking off. It gives me a heady feel. Sometimes I feel I drive a car like a two-wheeler. I wonder: Do you emote with your car?...

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tutor19us Hey killersss, Thanks for your response! Now I was waiting for such a response from another enthusiast like you. :) I can surely understand the feeling, when you say I want to race. People think I am crazy when they say I emote with my car. It is...

11 Sep 09

bewitched13 @bewitched13 (792) • India 4 Sep 09

I am an Indian staying in India and have seen ads stating 'Incredible India' showing all the beautiful tourists spots, its people, food habits etc., India is a land of unity in diversity. We have many religions, many languages,...

country

india

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tutor19us Sorry! I pressed Post by mistake. :( Its main strength is the diversity. Oft repeated but yet true. I am truly surprised at the way people can just gel and live together without any issues. So many languages and multiple religions. How does one even begin...

9 Sep 09

bewitched13 @bewitched13 (792) • India 4 Sep 09

I am an Indian staying in India and have seen ads stating 'Incredible India' showing all the beautiful tourists spots, its people, food habits etc., India is a land of unity in diversity. We have many religions, many languages,...

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tutor19us Hi! I am an Indian (proud of being one) and live in South India. I have visited many parts of this great land and have had the good fortune of living in more than one place too. This in turn has had a profound effect on my cultural dictionary. In the...

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tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 4 Sep 09

Have you seen/met some one like this? A person grows up in a particular town/city/state. He learns the native language, studies there, stays there for umpteen years. Then suddenly he gets a chance, flies to the US of A. He...

dollars

nris

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tutor19us Till the recession hit India big time, NRIs were in great demand for Indian brides. They would literally demand exorbitant dowries and flats/cars etc in return for the "Dollar Dream". I wonder why people fall for this ruse. are people who work in India not...

9 Sep 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 4 Sep 09

Have you seen/met some one like this? A person grows up in a particular town/city/state. He learns the native language, studies there, stays there for umpteen years. Then suddenly he gets a chance, flies to the US of A. He...

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tutor19us Hey Dolmitta! Thanks for your reply. That was a fiery one. I know people like them are sure turn-offs. But they tend to think otherwise. :)

8 Sep 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 4 Sep 09

Have you seen/met some one like this? A person grows up in a particular town/city/state. He learns the native language, studies there, stays there for umpteen years. Then suddenly he gets a chance, flies to the US of A. He...

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