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tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 1 Mar 10

Recently I got involved in a verbal duel with my father-in-law. He just went on accusing me and said that he has to tolerate me. I kept quiet for a while and when nobody came to my rescue started defending myself. After a point, I...

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tutor19us Well, FIL is a routine-based guy. He hates people who deviate from "his" routine, mind you, not their own routines. So, he flared up coz I did not do something that he had expected and started abusing my parents. Thats when I got wild.

5 Apr 11

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 1 Mar 10

Recently I got involved in a verbal duel with my father-in-law. He just went on accusing me and said that he has to tolerate me. I kept quiet for a while and when nobody came to my rescue started defending myself. After a point, I...

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tutor19us Yeah daliaj, its ok when you live in different countries. The troubles will start when you live with them or they come visiting you. I am not sure if westerners are different in their approach to the whole DIL and MIL/FIL thing or are they the same as Indians....

5 Apr 11

puccagirl @puccagirl (7294) • Israel 28 Sep 10

Okay, so this is something me and my fiancee discuss a lot: I think it is very important that all parts of the bed match, including the sheets, the pillow cases, etc. So I always make the bed with matching sets. My fiancee does...

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tutor19us But, the best part is, you feel so nice about the arrangement. You get real nice thoughts and a very fitful sleep.

29 Sep 10

pentagan12 @pentagan12 (757) • Philippines 28 Sep 10

A woman usually has the so-called “ideal man”. I, personally have my ideal guy- someone I can be proud of in many different ways; a man I would love to see every minute of the day; a man who is willing to love me for all that I...

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tutor19us And, if you are angry or hurt because of your spouse, dont despair, just take a deep breath and think about the nice things they did for you. Love will come flying back in.

29 Sep 10

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tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 27 Aug 09

I am trying to read a book written by an Indian author. I was wondering how many of you read a book. If you read a book, do you read it for pleasure? Or do you read a book as a habit? Do you feel it is a good habit to read? Does...

books

reading habit

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tutor19us Oh Daliaj, That was so touching! :) I think you should just begin the journey one fine day, maybe this weekend. Then once you start, you must keep up the tempo. Atleast read a few lines a day before going to bed. ;) In fact if you are suffering...

11 Sep 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 30 Jul 09

I have been crazy about driving from a long time. I simply love the feel of maneuvering a car and taking off. It gives me a heady feel. Sometimes I feel I drive a car like a two-wheeler. I wonder: Do you emote with your car?...

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tutor19us Hey killersss, Thanks for your response! Now I was waiting for such a response from another enthusiast like you. :) I can surely understand the feeling, when you say I want to race. People think I am crazy when they say I emote with my car. It is...

11 Sep 09

bewitched13 @bewitched13 (792) • India 4 Sep 09

I am an Indian staying in India and have seen ads stating 'Incredible India' showing all the beautiful tourists spots, its people, food habits etc., India is a land of unity in diversity. We have many religions, many languages,...

country

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tutor19us Sorry! I pressed Post by mistake. :( Its main strength is the diversity. Oft repeated but yet true. I am truly surprised at the way people can just gel and live together without any issues. So many languages and multiple religions. How does one even begin...

9 Sep 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 4 Sep 09

Have you seen/met some one like this? A person grows up in a particular town/city/state. He learns the native language, studies there, stays there for umpteen years. Then suddenly he gets a chance, flies to the US of A. He...

dollars

nris

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tutor19us Till the recession hit India big time, NRIs were in great demand for Indian brides. They would literally demand exorbitant dowries and flats/cars etc in return for the "Dollar Dream". I wonder why people fall for this ruse. are people who work in India not...

9 Sep 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 4 Sep 09

Have you seen/met some one like this? A person grows up in a particular town/city/state. He learns the native language, studies there, stays there for umpteen years. Then suddenly he gets a chance, flies to the US of A. He...

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tutor19us Hey Dolmitta! Thanks for your reply. That was a fiery one. I know people like them are sure turn-offs. But they tend to think otherwise. :)

8 Sep 09

shantha_45 @shantha_45 (332) • India 11 Aug 09

Hello mylotters What will you do if you face with this situation? A head of the family remembers and knows everything happening in the world and surroundings. But doesnot remember the dates connected with the family...

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tutor19us Mostly men consider these "small" things less important. That is why they feel it is very stupid to remember such details. But on the other hand, women are very emotional and want their spouses also to remember each small detail. But alas, mene being men treat...

3 Sep 09

shantha_45 @shantha_45 (332) • India 29 Aug 09

Hello Do you remember God everyday? Do you pray everday? When you pray do you ask God to give you some thing? Ot just leave it to Him? Thinking that He knows when to give and what to give you? Do youthank Him for what He...

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tutor19us I completely agree with you bewitched. Even I never go to the temple to beg. I simply say a few words of thanks and say that whatever he has given is good for me. Some people say, how can it be good for me if I dont like it. My take is this: We are not fond of...

1 Sep 09

shantha_45 @shantha_45 (332) • India 29 Aug 09

Hello Do you remember God everyday? Do you pray everday? When you pray do you ask God to give you some thing? Ot just leave it to Him? Thinking that He knows when to give and what to give you? Do youthank Him for what He...

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tutor19us Wow! Thats really great daliaj. I think praying daily is a very good habit. Especially saying thanks for all the blessings makes us aware of everything that we receive and are thankful for. I think most of us remember God only when the going gets tough. Even...

1 Sep 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 31 Aug 09

I have a friend who keeps asking me in no uncertain terms this statement. I am not surprised because she is undergoing a very traumatic phas ein her life. I do not judge her based on these but I do get irritated sometimes. I feel...

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tutor19us Well maybe. I am not sure. But yes, she certainly feels not so positive about my marriage. Let us see. I wish she would have a nice life so that her woes end and she becomes happier. :)

1 Sep 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 31 Aug 09

I have a friend who keeps asking me in no uncertain terms this statement. I am not surprised because she is undergoing a very traumatic phas ein her life. I do not judge her based on these but I do get irritated sometimes. I feel...

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tutor19us Yes, my mother would vehemently agree with you. But you know what, we have had great times together. I got married late and its not even a year now. Till the time I got married my friend was great and always used to be happy and talk nice things, but after my...

1 Sep 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 31 Aug 09

I have a friend who keeps asking me in no uncertain terms this statement. I am not surprised because she is undergoing a very traumatic phas ein her life. I do not judge her based on these but I do get irritated sometimes. I feel...

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tutor19us Hi Yes Daliaj, my friend has had a very bad relation. But you know what, I feel that she has brought it onto herself. She was never happy with the relation and had always been cribbing about it. I felt she should have surely got a divorce long back. Atleast...

1 Sep 09

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 31 Aug 09

I have a headache now because I am working under pressure. I have a deadline to meet today, but it seems I have to stay back till mid night at office to complete the work. The work is not moving as smooth as I expected. Do you...

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tutor19us You bet! A surefire way of getting rid of the pesky head. LOL. :)

31 Aug 09

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 31 Aug 09

I have a headache now because I am working under pressure. I have a deadline to meet today, but it seems I have to stay back till mid night at office to complete the work. The work is not moving as smooth as I expected. Do you...

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tutor19us Exams are a surefire way to get headaches. I have had so many days when I skip studying complaining of a headache. Nowadays I do not do that. But it always works. You can say that you have a migraine and people look at you with a lot of pity. :)

31 Aug 09

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tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 27 Aug 09

I am trying to read a book written by an Indian author. I was wondering how many of you read a book. If you read a book, do you read it for pleasure? Or do you read a book as a habit? Do you feel it is a good habit to read? Does...

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tutor19us Hey! Thanks for your response. :) You can start by reading some simple novels. Maybe thrillers if you like. Harry Potter is quite famous/popular with many people. I havent read the series myself. If you have an inclination towards crime and...

31 Aug 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 27 Aug 09

I am trying to read a book written by an Indian author. I was wondering how many of you read a book. If you read a book, do you read it for pleasure? Or do you read a book as a habit? Do you feel it is a good habit to read? Does...

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tutor19us Thanks! That is a nice quote you shared. :) LoL. I agree that my books are my best friends. I always grab a book whenever I feel like escaping this world atleast mentally. I love to lose myself in the characters and scenes in the story. Novels are more...

31 Aug 09

tutor19us @tutor19us (455) • India 27 Aug 09

I am trying to read a book written by an Indian author. I was wondering how many of you read a book. If you read a book, do you read it for pleasure? Or do you read a book as a habit? Do you feel it is a good habit to read? Does...

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tutor19us Thanks a lot for your response. :)

31 Aug 09

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