Finding out a friend is two faced.....

I would be very upset with that friend. I don't have many friends because of experience like this. And I would feel differently for that friend, too. It upsets me for anyone to treat another that way. Happy Mylotting

I'm not confrontational and I dont think that if you ask, they would be honest about it. I just distance myself from that person when I feel like he/she is lying to me and pretending to be my friend. Otherwise, I wouldn't pay much attention to it.

Hi there jugsjugs! Well, if that ever happen to me, I may or may not confront her or him depending upon the degree of the mess that he or she made. But one things, for sure, I will never trust that person again and our relationship will never be the same again. I rarely give my full trust to a person and once broken, I will never take chance again.

That happened to me some years ago, and to tell you the truth I chose not to confront her and just started to stay away from her. I'm really not the confrontational type when it comes to situations like these. I've moved on anyways and whatever else she says about me, I wouldn't really care.

I would go right to the source - your so called friend should not be afraid to say anything face to face with you that he/she has been saying to others behind your back. Gossip and innuendo can damage reputations and break hearts. It needs to be stopped in its tracks before it goes any further.