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phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 22 Feb 10

Okay so about 5 months ago I found out some things about my boyfriend. I had been with him for over 3 1/2 years and there was this girl on his facebook I didn't like and he kept saying there was nothing going on. Which, I guess...

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malamar Hi phoenix, You actually answered your own question - "You have to change your way of thinking". It happened, and it is over - only you can decide to either get past it or end the relationship. I say, if the good outweighs the bad like it seems to in your...

22 Feb 10

veromar @veromar (1453) • Argentina 22 Feb 10

I've done it twice. The first time happened when I was 9 or 10. My brother and I were playing "traffic cop". He was riding his bicycle and I was the traffic cop. He was approaching faster and faster and I put up my hand for him to...

experience with broken bones

setting your own broken bones

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malamar Hi veromar, I have had a few little mishaps over the years. The first time was when I was about ten years and broke my collarbone on a school playground playing leapfrog. My foot got caught in the girls coat pocket and I went down HARD. The second time a...

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malamar @malamar (779) • Canada 19 Jan 10

You think and think, and try and try to come up with a new intersting discussion. And then the responses come in..... drivel, off-topic, not interesting and so on. You get the one sentence responses, and the obscure ones that make...

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malamar Hi purplealabaster, Yeah, I hear what you are saying. It used to hurt my feelings real bad when I got almost no responses to a posting, but it doesn't bother me as much anymore. After all, there are so many posts, and so little time.... You are right...

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EvrWonder @EvrWonder (3571) • Canada 9 Feb 10

Floored. I am out, driving. I have a full tank of gas so no problem there but my tires could use some air. I pull into my favorite gas station, enroute to the grocery store. I get parked and hop out of the car and to my demise the...

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malamar We have only two service stations in my quiet little burg that have this service and they have both had a fifty cent charge for years. I guess at first I was a little surprised since it had always been free before. But, when you think about it, that station...

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binacheri14 @binacheri14 (299) • United States 9 Feb 10

If someone asked you if the next time you go to the store, could they go with you. Would you ask them for gas money? Or take them since you were going anyway?

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malamar I wouldn't even think of asking them for money if I were going there anyway. I mean really, what's the harm? Now, if they were asking me to drive them here, there and everywhere, that would be a different story altogether. If there is no extra cost for you...

10 Feb 10

ANIME123 @ANIME123 (2466) • United States 10 Feb 10

I love that they have the best search engine ever and it's so easy to find things on the internet with their search engine. I always go to google when I have to look something up. What search engine do you like to use is google...

google search engine

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malamar I love that Google saves me hours of time when I need to research for school assignments. No more driving to the library and spending forever trying to find the information I need! I have tried other search engines, but I keep coming back to Google.

10 Feb 10

handsomeitaliano @handsomeitaliano (1050) • United States 10 Feb 10

Ok, well I deposited my fiance's half of the rent into my checking account yesterday and withdrew the total rent amount as a bank/cashier's check. When I got home, I logged into my bank account online and saw the recent...

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malamar The bank will notice the error eventually there is no doubt. Why not take the moral high ground and bring it to their attention first? Same end result really since the money is not really yours to begin with. BUT, you look like the "good guy" for being upfront...

10 Feb 10

malamar @malamar (779) • Canada 19 Jan 10

You think and think, and try and try to come up with a new intersting discussion. And then the responses come in..... drivel, off-topic, not interesting and so on. You get the one sentence responses, and the obscure ones that make...

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malamar Sorry for the delay getting back to you zed. I have been busy lately and haven't had time to do any "fun" stuff for awhile. But, yeah, I agree it has sometimes seemed pretty quiet around here on the occasions I have been around. Even the notices in my in-box...

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PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 16 Jan 10

I believe all of us have what some call "gut" instincts. It is that little feeling within us that tells us we are about to make a good choice or a bad choice. Every time I have gone against that "gut" instinct,...

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malamar I so agree with you Karen! If we learn to carefully (and honestly) learn to evaluate some of our life lessons, we will find we personally play a huge part in all of them. It is just so easy to lay blame on someone or something else, to avoid looking to...

23 Jan 10

fedoralinux @fedoralinux (556) • India 22 Jan 10

I think the Malaysian twin tower is the highest building in my point of view, if it is not tell me which it is from which country ,i want to know this ,please respond to this discussion,dear my lotters .

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malamar I read something about this once, and there was a huge debate over whether things like sprires, antennas and the like were considered factors. If they are, I think it was between the Burj Debai and the Tiapet 101 tower. If they DO NOT count, and you base it...

22 Jan 10

malamar @malamar (779) • Canada 19 Jan 10

You think and think, and try and try to come up with a new intersting discussion. And then the responses come in..... drivel, off-topic, not interesting and so on. You get the one sentence responses, and the obscure ones that make...

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malamar See, I have lightened up already. Now I don't care if it is one sentence, or none, or goofy.....I would call that going with the flow, wouldn't you? Just seems a shame to waste a good opportunity for some real dialogue between people, that's...

22 Jan 10

malamar @malamar (779) • Canada 19 Jan 10

You think and think, and try and try to come up with a new intersting discussion. And then the responses come in..... drivel, off-topic, not interesting and so on. You get the one sentence responses, and the obscure ones that make...

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malamar Hey chrystaltears, how are you? Yeah, there was some fun happening there for awhile, wasn't there? Even when I have difficulty following some of the obvious "insider" banter, it is still fun and I like it. Catch you on the flip side, as well.

22 Jan 10

malamar @malamar (779) • Canada 19 Jan 10

You think and think, and try and try to come up with a new intersting discussion. And then the responses come in..... drivel, off-topic, not interesting and so on. You get the one sentence responses, and the obscure ones that make...

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malamar Hello thewayis, Gosh, my fingers wanted to type thewayitis there Yeah, I know what you are saying about the no responses, that kind of hurts your little feelers at first, doesn't it? But yes, when someone responds and makes you think...

22 Jan 10

malamar @malamar (779) • Canada 19 Jan 10

You think and think, and try and try to come up with a new intersting discussion. And then the responses come in..... drivel, off-topic, not interesting and so on. You get the one sentence responses, and the obscure ones that make...

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malamar Hi nijolechu I can live with short answers, I can live with goofy answers, and I can live with no answers at all. What I am questioning are the ones that are so far off topic that they are not on the same page at all.

22 Jan 10

bounce58 @bounce58 (17387) • Canada 7 Jan 10

I dropped by Wal-Mart today to pick a few things before going home from work. I was in a rush, because I had to get the kids from the babysitter's. Anyway, as I was going out, I heard a group of teenagers just outside the store...

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malamar Hey thanks for the BR bounce, you made my day! I still check out the candy department everytime I am in Walmart, but haven't seen you yet - LOL

21 Jan 10

malamar @malamar (779) • Canada 19 Jan 10

You think and think, and try and try to come up with a new intersting discussion. And then the responses come in..... drivel, off-topic, not interesting and so on. You get the one sentence responses, and the obscure ones that make...

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malamar Thanks for your response maezee! That is my point exactly. I have tried so many times to reach out, and then....to receive the "friends" who turn out to be spammers or worse, YUK! On the flip side, there are some really cool people here, and I have been...

19 Jan 10

malamar @malamar (779) • Canada 19 Jan 10

You think and think, and try and try to come up with a new intersting discussion. And then the responses come in..... drivel, off-topic, not interesting and so on. You get the one sentence responses, and the obscure ones that make...

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malamar Merlin, don't get me wrong here. Yes, I do understand we are all different and all trying to participate to the best of our abilities. It is not actually the "uninteresting" posts that I object to, but more the ones that just do not make sense. (Not the...

19 Jan 10

malamar @malamar (779) • Canada 19 Jan 10

You think and think, and try and try to come up with a new intersting discussion. And then the responses come in..... drivel, off-topic, not interesting and so on. You get the one sentence responses, and the obscure ones that make...

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malamar Torunn, hey, hello there, it has been a long time! Thanks for dropping by, it is always good to see you. Yes you are probably right. In the long run, the boring, off topic, unimaginative answers will probably fade away on their own. Not that I can't be...

19 Jan 10

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