Are you Mad,frustrated and sad when ever referrals aren't active at all.........
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
Philippines
September 20, 2009 11:02pm CST
Hello my-lotters,
How are you doing? i know almost every one can relate to this dilemna, i just want to share my rant. few days ago i have introduced a new guy in the community but unfortunately, he never and stop being active, i was so sad about it.
then, yesterday there was a new referral, i didn't introduce but the user already create a response on some one else discussion. I try to sending informations but unfortunately the user didn't became active afterwards.
the one thing i hate having in this new account is those damn! inactive referrals. and now it seems that i have two of them. it's really pissing me of sometimes. well, we all know the reasons for them not lasting long in here, some i know are lucky having active referrals. oh, well gotta go my mom needs to use this PC
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Have a great day
How are you doing? i know almost every one can relate to this dilemna, i just want to share my rant. few days ago i have introduced a new guy in the community but unfortunately, he never and stop being active, i was so sad about it.
then, yesterday there was a new referral, i didn't introduce but the user already create a response on some one else discussion. I try to sending informations but unfortunately the user didn't became active afterwards.
the one thing i hate having in this new account is those damn! inactive referrals. and now it seems that i have two of them. it's really pissing me of sometimes. well, we all know the reasons for them not lasting long in here, some i know are lucky having active referrals. oh, well gotta go my mom needs to use this PC.
Have a great day10 people like this
19 responses
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
I used to be, especially when it's a referral exchange but as time went on I learned not to expect anything from referrals. If they were personal referrals, Im already grateful that they have joined under me.
It's best to not expect/demand that they be active, just hope that they are. If they are then that's great, if not oh well, Im still earning by myself and there still are millions of people out there who might be my referral someday. I just have to reach out and look for them.^_^
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@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
That's the spirit You can still aggressively promote myLot like you have been doing, you just have to learn to not expect anything so that when nothing happens you dont get disappointed, but when something does happen, you'd get to be pleasantly surprised about it.^_^
You can still aggressively promote myLot like you have been doing, you just have to learn to not expect anything so that when nothing happens you dont get disappointed, but when something does happen, you'd get to be pleasantly surprised about it.^_^@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
I guess you're right. It seems that am out of my league lately for asking so many people to join but become a lot less active than before. well, some one's gonna join under me and participate in mylot. we all have to reach out and look for them3 people like this
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
wow, you too. that's bad as well. i think you should still stick around and enjoy the site. i hate inactive referrals too but there's nothing i can do since they are not active at all.
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@babyangie27 (5176)
• United States
21 Sep 09
I have been here 3 years and I have 9 referrals and not one is active.
I don't mind though because I have this same luck with my other making money sites.
I enjoy mylot more for the friends nowadays,sure the money is an AWESOME bonus no doubt. But I don't mind not having active referrals.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
thats the way to go friend. i am not really also into active referrals myself. as long as i am having fun with friends new and old here. then thats way more important to me than anything else.
jhelai
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
well..I have about 9 refrrals in mylot...24 for trekpay... some 46 in clixsense... and a few more on some of my programs...
but i do not mind if they are acrtive or not coz it's their choice really...
we are luck if they are....
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
hello baby angie, my old account had at least more than 20 and not all of them are active. there was an active one but stop because she had other priorities, one of them is her studies in info technology. maybe i shouldn't bother myself , wow i feel so affected.
ovely jhelai you are still sad. it seems you agree with her.
wow pato you have more share referrals in trek pay you must have been there for a very long time though.3 people like this
@tamarafireheart (15384)
•
21 Sep 09
Hi Let,
Yeah, that has happened to me once and this user is still here but active all, it sucks when they don't bother to active so why join in the first place?
tamara
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
though we tried to explain them everything about mylotting but still they didnt manage to see the benefits of this site. that is why maybe they are down not having been active here.
jhelai
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@dbutheking (2347)
• India
21 Sep 09
I had 10 referrals in my last account in which only one was active. Hmmmm.. That was deleted. Now, i have no referrals at all.
Because, it is enough to earn from my participation. So, i dont take any step in making referrals to this account. Also, i am going to use this only for a month. So, no need for referrals..
Have a great day.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
Hey, you'd better give us a one damn good reason why you are leaving after one month, you were just doing great here. this reason has got to be good dbu. otherwise,....the movie won't be as the same@dbutheking (2347)
• India
21 Sep 09
I waiting for the confirmation.. I will tell you after i confirm it..
@1anurag1 (3576)
• India
21 Sep 09
Obviously and ever every body. becuase when we make a referal here we expect alot from him. and convince him to be here and work. but after this effort when they are not active like us then it directly seems as our all effor has gone.
I have one good active referal and rest are junk
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
if i convince him to be here and work that would would mean actually forcing him to join me, that wouldn't be productive at all. wow, you just call them junk, how long he's been active on this site, under you? well, good thing you referred one. have a great day1 person likes this
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Sometimes I am sad when referrals aren't active but I have gotten used to it. 11 referrals and not one of them active. So I look over it. I had referrals on other site also that did the same thing. They might do it for a little while then end up getting mad because it isn't a fast money maker they want it to be. Even though I told them it wasn't..you can only make what you work out..you can't expect to do only a few discussions a day and make money..well not over a few cents anyhow.
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
23 Sep 09
Just think how much I could make if I had 11 referrals all active and they had active referrals..would be a nice penny..but atlas they aren't. I have removed all but a few of my referrals alot of them being family or a few friends that let me know that they wouldn't be active at all anytime now or in the future. Some try to grasp at a fast buck. I only gave referrals to those that actually ask me for it. I never tried to force it or make them work here. I am that kind of person.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
Wow, that's a lot of referrals, just imagine if you have eleven referrals. i was upset after that you-tube friend for actually, didn't became active for being here at mylot, so mad that i was about to remove him from my friends-list
that's a lot of referrals, just imagine if you have eleven referrals. i was upset after that you-tube friend for actually, didn't became active for being here at mylot, so mad that i was about to remove him from my friends-list
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Sep 09
hi buddy.
i have some few referrals, and i know you know about them. they are quite active and one already reached her minimum. lucky me, though.
but the ones that had just joined for the sake of joining and accepting the invitation really not good. anyway, it's not our lost, it's theirs.
so come one, buddy, don't feel so disappointed. we have a lot more to do.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
that was my problem, one is barely active and the other just joined for nothing, it was really upsetting but i guess that's part of referring people. yeah, you're right we should just channel our time through mylot in free time rather than find referrals.
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
Well, before i didn't have much to worry with referrals. but certainly why would i be mad now if you're my referral. not only that you're popular my-lot user but an active one too. always getting my earnings fill-up on time. thank you for introducing me this site even though you're my referral now. good night@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
yeah, there's no reason for you to get mad at since am you're referral after all almost active ALL day
. well, as long as you're active for quite some time then it's okay. I don't mind being active all the time, it's for my own hard work. have a great day
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
21 Sep 09
Hi LK, I do have two referrals so far and only one of them visits the site if she has time. Both of them are my friends and if they are inactive, I don't get upset because well ou just cant force and dictate people. Besides, I was used to being on my own in earning here at mylot so I can't see why I should be upset over inactive referrals when I knew I could survive on my own. Well maybe that is also because I am not so money-driven here, I am just here to enjoy. I also hope their being inactive won't put you into so much pressure. happy day!
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@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
21 Sep 09
Oh I agree it is a very fun site but well some people just dont see it the way we do. Well you could always try to come up with a cool discussion expecially those that they can relate to and poke them or email them and tell them,"hey I got a great question which you definitely can answer considering your expertise o the filed.." you know, boost their esteem, win their trust and wehn they get the swing of things, who knows? They might be more active than you are! Good luck!
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
I just want them to enjoy this site, that's all. there's no harm in trying. i just want to share besides earning money from them, i know they wouldn't believe me if i go for that approach.well, i can always asked that guy to simply remove his mylot account. i just don't like seeing inactive people in the site.1 person likes this
@May2k8 (18356)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 09
I'm not going mad, because it was not me who lost, but them. I only have one, this guy is active and confuse to decide theme of what he would make. The most important thing for me is never forced people to join and can always relate well with friends and referrals. I am lucky to get even just one, because this people like to discuss.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
I agree with too, it's either i feel disappointed or pity for them not seeing the lights and benefits of mylot as i see them laughed at me and say that it's not worth they're time. for now, i am observing one of my referrals of how long they can be active
, it's either i feel disappointed or pity for them not seeing the lights and benefits of mylot as i see them laughed at me and say that it's not worth they're time. for now, i am observing one of my referrals of how long they can be active
@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
21 Sep 09
some sign up to see what the program is about, how much you make with it and such. If it doesn't meet what they are looking for they don't do anything with it.
I have a few referrals and if they participate its good not just for me but for them also. We can't force anyone to work the programs it is a choice.
I myself have signed up for some and got out because it wasn't something I wanted to do.
I am happy if someone does work it, if not I just remember when I have signed up and didn't work a program. I don't get upset. I just try and find others to sign up and hope that they want to work the program.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
There's no way you don't have to be embarrassment, as long as your here and represent on your-self in mylot that's okay, it's just a habit of changing avatars here and there.. wow, if you're planning for a new look i might not recognized you @jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
darn those inactive referrals. because i got plenty of them here in my referrals list. they just dont know what they are missing. and i dont care now what they think. if the cannot see what i am having. then its really their lost not mine. as long as i am having so much fun and money. then its my blessings to keep!
hope they got it next time if i can make so much here while they are ranting more about their losses.
jhelai
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
oh! i am being ambitious sometimes my friend. but i hope we could be good at this things once in a while. but i also do hope we could not let our ambitions get too much on our ways that we ended up trying so hard and in the long run nothing is happening with all our hard works.
jhelai
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
Hello jhelai. It seems i feel that am getting over ambitious again just like before, no wonder i am this frustrated. i should bring back the fun that was with me when i came back to this site. i don't want to loose my path.this is indeed a blessing, I shouldn't let myself get carried away again
. It seems i feel that am getting over ambitious again just like before, no wonder i am this frustrated. i should bring back the fun that was with me when i came back to this site. i don't want to loose my path.this is indeed a blessing, I shouldn't let myself get carried away again2 people like this
@DeifyHobo21 (2)
• United States
21 Sep 09
Yes man I understand what you are going through. I hate it when people do that to you then you never get referals. So like just make sure you are at the friends house when he creates the account and make sure he puts you down. Well got to go sweep.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
no, he doesn't put me but he did let me down that day. i should have never introduced it to him since he wasn't really that interested. but i got over it so i hope i cold just do more discussions here.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
i can not, har har har. i dont have any referrals. so i am proud to say that my earnings are all from my hard work and nonsense har har har. i read a lot of members who gave referrals and few just became a member and never came back. i dont like to have a problem like that so if i invite any friends or relatives i just give them the site and it is up to them to join or not.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
Well, I am proud of myself as well. i just was just trying since i have made that damn video. maybe i didn't think it would turned out the same as last year. yeah, it has always been up to them and in the end they just wanted to leave the site s they believe they have earned from us.
, I am proud of myself as well. i just was just trying since i have made that damn video. maybe i didn't think it would turned out the same as last year. yeah, it has always been up to them and in the end they just wanted to leave the site s they believe they have earned from us.1 person likes this
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
Well we can't always count on referrals so in my case I don't really depend my earnings on referrals. I actually don't have referrals anyway. I think I am one person who don't even want to ask people to be my referral. I just work on myself and whatever I earn whether big or small they are all because of my own effort. At any rate, should your referral become inactive I think they have good reasons and that is their prerogative. I don't think we should ever get mad if they are not active at all.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
that's really good to know. that you don't get addicted in getting others or pulling them to mylot since you prefer to be happy earning on your activities. i see you prefer all hard work on your own, i don't why the heck i got addicted in convincing others about mylot. well, am not gonna get mad that long.
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
yes all of my referrals are not active. i am still dreaming to find some active referrals. i still have not found them. most of my referrals are just active for a day and they are gone forever. i know this is a cool site, if they sticked for a while i am sure they would have love it. it is their loss not mine. i am not so much bothered cause i am enjoying my time here. and i can earn still by my own activity anyways,
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
Hello hotsummer, that's so bad. well, that's okay. as for me i still have to guard for this one because i don't how long can he be active. since he doesn't have paypal yet and bank account that supports international transactions
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
21 Sep 09
I was just thinking, as I was reading your discussion, that the person I signed under can’t complain that I’m not active! I don’t have referrals and don’t really bother trying to get any because I am happy just working here on my own. If somebody wanted to sign under me that would be ok but it is not what I’m here for.
I guess you can’t control what others do and just like you can’t force people to sign up under you, you can’t make them be active, annoying I know, but what can you do? They may decide to get started here in a while, you never know, I joined up, went away for a while and then go going later on.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
you are truly right paula, or just can't seemed to break their barrier of disbelief that earning online is possible. the one who' had been talking to about mylot in friendster, never even heard of Paypal and said theirs no paypal in the Philippines, he was kinda comparing it to a regular bank2 people like this
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
21 Sep 09
Hi Letran,
I have 5 referrals in this site but only two are active. When I invite friends to join myLot I tell them about the benefits that I enjoy as a member, and it's up to them to sign up, and to sign up under me or not. I somehow feel sad when those I invited don't get to appreciate this site, but I don't take it against them. Maybe this is not the place for them.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
hello, doryvien. wow really thank god they are active under you. well, at least it's balance because two out of three are active in the site and as for me only two referrals but neither are active. probably they're not that open-minded yet dory, that's why they kept denying it.
. wow really thank god they are active under you. well, at least it's balance because two out of three are active in the site and as for me only two referrals but neither are active. probably they're not that open-minded yet dory, that's why they kept denying it.1 person likes this
