Have You Ever Been So Happy Hearing From Friends From Your Past That You Cried?

@Opal26 (17679)
United States
September 21, 2009 6:24pm CST
Hey Opal here again! I know that some of you know that I have been in recovery from drug/alcohol abuse now for almost two years now and proud of it! I just got off the phone with a friend of mine who was very deep into drugs and I didn't know if she was even still alive! It has been about 6 years since I have heard if she was ok! Well she now has two years clean and sober and also has a beautiful 5 year old little boy! She is happy and living in Arizona and came back to NY to visit her Dad and gave me a call because we were once very close friends! I can't even tell you how much this phone call meant to me~ I am still crying, but they are tears of joy for my friend Angela! Have you ever felt this feeling? Have you ever gotten a phone call or letter or something from someone from your past that meant so very much to you that you didn't know what to do next? Please share this...
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25 responses
22 Sep 09
Hi Opal, That must have been so wonderful, No, I have not eexperienced anything like that but recently I heard for m a friend that I haven't seen for 14 years but we were not best friend, she was someone I worked with but it was nice of her to look me up. Tamara
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Hi tamara! It's just always nice to hear from someone after not hearing from them for awhile!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Sep 09
hi opal good for you, yes I met some of my diabetes seminar friends before my life crumbled and they hugged me and icried and we had a wonderful visit. I was moving to Antioch. well the move neverhappened the woman who was going to help us decided not to at last moment.now my friends are scattered again and would so love to hear from them. as for the traitoruos woman who pulled the rug out from under us, I just hopethat some day she realizes what she did and feels some remorse fo it. anyway I would so love to see my friends again.,
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Hi Hatley~ I know that you have been through a terrible time this past year and I feel so badly for you. I wish that you would be able to somehow re-connect with some of your old friends too! But, don't give up because you just never know what could happen. Before I went to Florida I got a phone call from another friend of mine who I had lost touch with for about 20 years! So nothing is impossible! And now we plan on getting together soon because we still both live not far from each other!
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
Hi Opal! I am moved by your post. I love to hear people changing lives and going for the better or should I say for the best. I love to hear people who finally recover from past mistakes and now living a straight life. There is no better life that living clean and sober. I love to hear such kind of testimonies. I could feel how that call from your friend meant to you. There are friends that stick closer than a brother/sister and I believe that kind of friendship is what you have with Angela and I know what touched you more is knowing that Angela just like you is now living a clean life and that after all the long years of no communication she remembered you and shared you the good news about her. I am happy for both of you and I pray you both continue living clean and sober. Yes good friends mean a lot to me too! I do pray for them even if we are far apart and could not constantly communicate. I have a friend who migrated to Canada and despite the distance we still keep the relationship as close as possible. We don't always communicate but whenever we do, it would be a very happy and exciting conversation and we could not stop talking really Even after the call, happiness remains because the fact that I know she is living fine in that far away land and that she also remembers and pray for me just like I do are more than enough to feel really joyful. Have a wonderful day!
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@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Hi Opal! Wow that's great 2 years is a long time! I hadn't known until you posted. That's great about your friend as well! I haven't really had anyone that I drifted from that I cared if I got in touch with or not. I hope that you two are able to catch up and carry on your friendship.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Thank you so much Zephyr! Angela was always someone who I cared very much about! She was like a little sister to me! So this unexpected phone call meant more to me than anything!
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
22 Sep 09
That's great, I just recently got an e-mail from my best friend in Germany. We started first grade and finished high school together. I haven't heard from him in about 2o some years. Isn't it great to hear from old friends
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Hey missy! This is the second friend that I have heard from recently! Right before I went to see my Mom in Florida I got a phone call from another one of my old friends that I hadn't heard from in years! Only she lives not too far from me and we are going to be able to get together soon! That call also made me so very happy because we also were very close friends!
@BStuff (495)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Aww thats really sweet. I love seeing old friends I havent seen in awhile. It makes my day or week. I've been on myspace or facebook or something and someone will add me and it will take me some time to realize who they are. Then I usually will send them a message and we will reunite. We talk for sometimes.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Hi BStuff! It's funny because she mentioned that she is on Facebook and I told her that I have been invited on there, but never went! It was one of the biggest surprises ever to hear her voice and know that she is doing well! We will now be in touch again!
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
22 Sep 09
First let me say that I am real happy to hear you are clean for 2 years. That's quite an accomplishment. Keep up the good work as you take one day at a time. Yes, I received a letter from my biological father's wife. I was so excited to hear from her and also to know my father accepted me as his child. Was given up for adoption as a tiny baby. Anyway, this was a wonderful feeling. This all happened about 12 years ago so I was an adult when I did a search and was able to contact and meet both biological parents. My life felt complete. Take care, carolbee
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
22 Sep 09
You're so welcome.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Hi carol! That is really something to have happened to you. I am so happy for you! One never knows what will happen in our lives so we can never take anything forgranted! And I have learned that even more now from what I have gone through! Thank you for your well wishes!
@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
22 Sep 09
No, I don't think I have, but I haven't gone through all of the trials you and your friend Angela have. It always makes me happy to know that people who have fallen into habits that hurt them have turned their lives around. Continued congratulations go to you and her. You guys have gone through things that some of us could never imagine.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Thanks Ambie! This is someone that I really was so afraid to even think what might have happened to so hearing her voice after all this time really was quite a wonderful shock and surprise! Thank you so much for the congrats!
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
24 Sep 09
No, but a neighbor recently sent me a poem that was so sweet I cried. Congratulations on hearing such good news from your friend. I am glad to hear you are successful in taking charge of your life. We were not meant to be slaves. Keep up the good work ;-)
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
24 Sep 09
Hi drannhh! Great to hear from you! That was nice of your neighbor to send you a poem. And thank your well wishes!
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
23 Sep 09
HI OPAL!! Congratulations to you!! That's awesome!! Wow!! That's so cool!! Both of you are making great strides in your lives and there's nothing better than that!! Now have I cried over seeing someone? Yes I have a few times but they were more of my parents friends that I haven't seen in a long long time but was very fond of them. Everybody gets so busy in their lives that some how we lost touch but when we saw them, it was like we've never been apart! lol Good to see you!!!!
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
23 Sep 09
Hi cats! It is always wonderful to re-connect with someone that you once were close to and cared for! Ang was like a little sister to me so to know that I can now at least talk to her again is the best! And to also know that we both have been clean and sober for two years is even better! Now we really have something worth sharing! I can't wait to talk to her again!
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
22 Sep 09
I can feel your joy through your words here Opal. Not only did you receive the call but filled with such good news too - wonderful indeed! Only today I received a mail from someone from the past completely out of the blue. It is still sitting there and I haven't responded yet because it took me by surprise. Just a short and sweet 'hi how are things with you?' type of mail but this person has never ever contacted first in the twelve years that I know him and the last time was a very we were in contact was quite some time ago so it is very odd, pleasing and a surprise. What I shall respond I have no idea at all yet
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Hey msd! Thanks for being able to feel my joy! Don't wait to long to respond to your friend either! It probably took some guts to write to you too so don't make him wait too long!
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@littleone3 (2063)
22 Sep 09
Hi Opal That is wonderful news am so glad that you found your friend again. I also got back in touch with a friend after about a year of not seeing her. I helped her move away from our town as her and her children were fleeing from her violent boyfriend. After she came back to pick up some stuff I had been storing for her I did not hear from her. I was away in Ireland for two months while I had my baby and I came back home to find a letter had been put through my door with her phone number on it. So I got in touch and was so glad to hear that she and the children were fine as I was worried that her ex had hurt them. Now we keep in contact through facebook, msn messenger and phone and try to see each other as often as we can.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Hey littleone! I am so happy that your friend is alright! And glad that she was able to let you know that she was too! And now you can both be in contact and follow her new life as she starts over without fear! I am so happy to hear these kinds of stories! It makes me feel so great that I started this discussion!
@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Sep 09
Oh sure I have. i rarely heard from one of my friends and when she would finally call and tell me what she had been going through I was beside myself. I am happy glad you heard from your friend. Glad she is doing so well. Life is good. Yes, I have had these times. A nice long walk usually either helps he solve the problem or helps me feel better. Both are nice.
@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Sep 09
Yes, dear, be sure and let her know how much she means to you and how happy communication with her makes you. Thanks.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Hey celtic! Isn't it wonderful how just a little thing like a phone call can mean so much? I don't think Angela has any idea just how much hearing her voice meant to me, but when I call her and we really have a chance to talk I will be sure to tell her how happy she has made me!
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@artistry (4151)
• United States
22 Sep 09
.....Hi Opal26, First of all congratulations to you on your success with the program, you must be so very proud of yourself. Keep up the good work. I wish I were able to afford to go too a fat far to get over my addiction to food. Back to your question, I found a good friend of mine through a job that I had where I had to call people for photograph sessions. It was an accident, we knew each other when we were very young, and this person let me know that she knew her as we were talking, gave her my number and my friend and I linked up over the phone. I didn't cry, but we laughed so much and caught up with our lives, it was amazing to hear from her after so many, many years. It takes you back to the good old days. Take care.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Hi artistry! Don't ever let anything that you want to do get in the way of doing it! You don't need to go to a fat farm! If you want to lose weight there are loads of free support groups that you can get into! That is another one of my addictions, over eating! I am happy that you were also able to connect with an old friend from the past! Isn't is such a great feeling to take that trip down memory lane?
@artistry (4151)
• United States
22 Sep 09
..Hi,.... correction, fat farm :o). (also to not too) Thanks.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
23 Sep 09
I am so glad that you heard from this Friend and that she is ok and doing well for herself to You are 2 great People for overcoming what you have and should be very proud of yourselfs as you have every reason to be Big Hugs
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
23 Sep 09
Thanks gabs! I appreciate you vote of support! Hugs to you and my boy Gissi!
@BarBaraPrz (47308)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
22 Sep 09
No, can't say as I have... And I don't think I'd have that kind of reaction if someone from my past did contact me. I'm afraid I might be pigheaded and get angry at them.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Oh how great for you to hear from your friend after so long. Well one of my friends has seemingly disappeared from the face of the earth despite every which way of trying to reach her. Haven't heard from her in two years....if I heard from her suddenly out of the blue you better believe I'd be crying with happiness...we had known each other for twenty years before she disappeared.
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• India
22 Sep 09
Well, I have not had such an experience. I mean, no old friend called me up after a gap of many years. Reason...I don't have any old friends. People did not want to become my friends because I suffered from depression. ;) I am happy that you found a good friend, and do keep in touch. You sure sound fond of each other. :) Cheers and happy Mylotting
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
22 Sep 09
Definitely. It has happend so much with me over the years as people move and migrate. If they move on this Island thn I will hunt them down but it is when they travel that it getd difficult. I am happy for you. Blessings
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22 Sep 09
I dont think i have had the thing, from hearing from someone like that, but i can imagine your happiness, and i think it is brilliant that you changed your life around, both of you. That is very admirable, as it cannot have been easy.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Well thank you forestgold! And again, welcome to mylot! I have a discussion about my addiction from last year. It is almost two years for me. November 1, will be my second year! It is something that I did unexpectedly that truly has changed my life! It hasn't been easy and I have to take each day as it comes, but with the help of my support group of friends, my therapist and psychiatrist I am learning how to cope and survive "one day at a time"~