Do you feel proud if you know 2 men or 2 women fighting over you?

It would boost my ego a bit knowing that more than one woman like me. Proud? No. I wouldn't want to force women to be crazy about me as it's unnatural. I wouldn't want women to fight over me - it feels "nice" but it creates tension too.

As long as the two women ( I am a guy ) aren't involved in a dramatic fight or causing each other some injuries, then I would be delightful to know that :-) But as I know it's a serious fighting, it would make me upset, and definitely a no-no for me. If so, It likely that I am a bad influence for them that make them in unpleasant situation although I cannot be blamed for that. Yes, you are right, knowing that they have good feeling for me would be just great, but fight scene is a bit too much for me....

it does remind us about our beauty and personality which should have faded or would have been a second option in life.It feels proud sometimes and sometimes sad too but fighting is a last option and better one should be away and when necessary,they should have a compromise or the girl should come in action and tell her feelings, so that the guys must stop doing that non-sense.

Years ago I did have two men fight over me and I really didn't like it at all. It was all about the other guy who I dated touching me where he shouldn't and my boyfriend saw what he did. I thought it was very inmature. I could see how some females out there might be "ooh they are fighting over me". I just never felt that way because I don't like confrontation of any kind. It makes me very uneasy.

Hmm, never had two women fight over me so, yeah, I just might feel mighty proud if ever something like that happened to me. It has its downside though. You'd lose your privacy and might earn yourself a stalker. The problem gets bigger if one or both of them are psychos, by then you just wouldn't be able to escape them without risking your life in the process. I'd really like to experience that just once in my life.

I think theres that minute or two where its kind of like bask in the glory of having two people into you but if you have feelings for both of them. ANy feelings at all it can get really really bad really fast. It's an awkward horrible place. If either or both of them are your friends it just got 10 times worst. I've seen this situation tear some of my close friends apart. Its a real tradgity.

I actually had two men fighting over more, not so much with each other but more so with me. I have two men trying to get me to date them over the other without talking to the other man. More of like why I should date them instead of the other guy.

Personally, I think the right word for that feeling is overwhelmed as i cannot be proud that two men fighting over me. Its overwhelming to know about that because that would mean your standing out from others and that you have something to be proud of but that doesn't mean you really be proud that their are two people fighting. Just my thought!

Not worth to proud at all, i think, this should be a stupid things for me. maybe that girl think she is very beautiful and charmful, all the guys should adore her and must fight with her. this is the immature behavior, she need to learn a lot about how to handle the personal relations and get well with the guys around her.

i would definitely feel elated when people are fighting over me. it makes me feel so full of love. but at the same time i fell sad to cause that quarrel or fighting. i would want them to settle their problem calmly and like matured people and not trying to be selfish. but it has not happened yet though. i wish it may happen to sometimes for me.

Hi there, In my case, It never happend to me, there's no two men fights because of my beauty . I'm not like Helen of Troy yet. But if ever, im not gonna proud of it. It makes me feel guilty and nervous, what something wrong and the other guy killed the other one, whatta disaster!

If it happens to me, it will never make me proud, even a bit. Other way around, it will make me a little bit shy. =) But someone deserves it, in the meaning of their carisma, or brain, or beauty. And it's not our fault if 2 men/2 women fighting over us. =)

no. while it may be vaguely flattering to some i find it produces an extremely tricky situation. i'm not insecure enough to find that getting two blokes to get to fisticuffs bolsters my ego (yep it has happened - you won't believe the effect a blue rabbit/average looking girly can have]. your friend is still very young though which possibly explains her response.

i guess part of me might feel somewhat flattered, but it isn't something i would brag about i suppose. In fact, i would feel somewhat ashamed and guilty that i had done something to somehow lead two men on at once,thus causing this problem.

Hi friend, lots of time i faced this kind of moment, when i was in college about 3 or 4 girls raoming around me and i was avoiding them because i didn't want to lose my any friend among tham, i treated them as my friend but i knew they loved me vary much. have a nice day, LOL

i don't feel proud,i think it's pathetic,i can understand why some people may like it though

Tell her she's funny. Well, that kind of incident can make you feel flattered. But I don't think it's a good reason for someone to feel proud of.

I've never had that problem...I guess it could be kinda flattering but I wouldn't like knowing that I caused that problem. What if one kills the other over it?

I have tried it once in my life...We were inside the mall and my ex and my present boyfriend ended seeing each other. So, my ex was on my left side while my present one was on the right side. Something triggered to have them start a fight with each other so they started to be standing facing each other a few distance away from me because they wanted to have a fight. I stopped them. I didn't feel proud about it. In fact, it's such a shame because I don't even feel I'm worth the reason for them to fight. I did something to make both of them talk and just be friends and let my decision be the real score of the relationship. Up to now, we're still together with my present boyfriend - more than 6yrs and still counting. My ex is somewhere i really dont know where. I told myself to really forget him after that.