Would you get in relationship?

Unfortunately, I had no ex. But if something Unfortunately happen like you said,I wouldn't fall into another relationship,maybe I can't accept the factor,maybe I am impulsive,and maybe I will XXXXX.......... To be frank,if your bf/gf really doesn't care about you anymore,the way you suggest has no effect at all.If you want to take him/her back to your side,you must do something that can make him/her turn back to you Be that as it may,but who knows when it would be really happened in some day,how to deal with it well especially me,I know I'm a bit irritable which is my shortcoming

for this question, i will say no. if i were in this situation, i will no longer see him or contact me. How is he going has nothing to do with me and all i need to do is to make myself live in a more happy life by myself. Maybe i will change a hair style, go shopping for more new clothes and work more hard to make myself more confident and beautiful.

A relationship with some one, especially with a significant other is to be treasured. One does not go into it for the sake of it. No reason to get into a relationship just to show the ex that you are happy. Or to make your ex jealous. It is totally not fair to the person you are getting into a relationship with. Not to mention, very childish thing to do just to make a statement!

Getting into another relatioinship after recently breaking up with somebody, I don't think you should go into another relationship. The reason being, is because, you still are sufforing from a break up. You shouldn't go with somebody else to make you think your happy when your not? I mean why would you do that when your already hurting so much. That make's it ten times more difficult to forget about your ex. It's just best to get through it, than getting over it finding somebody else.

Wow, I have only done this every time I broke up with someone. Even if I was the one to leave, I'd still jump quickly into another commitment. It's not the smartest idea. It has caused a lot of confusion, emotional baggage, heartbreak, and remorse. It especially causes problems when that ex tries to come back, and you still have feelings for them but you are now with someone else... I think the best thing to do is just focus on your own happiness and avoid more future heartbreak.

firstly one shud try to find the reason why the bloody brakup happened and try to pathch up....but if that doesnt work then be like a free bird and find some with ur interests

Hi asweetie,If my boyfriend would go out with someone else ,I highly doubt he would be jealous to see me with another. There are benefits to being married,I am glad that this is something of little matter anymore.But I do see how ripped up friends can become over guys still at our age.Maybe it my security in my relation that makes me feel this way,but I don't think I could ever play the dating game again.

Hello, You know in the past when I was single, that was the type of thing I tended to do and can't remember how many times I have done that, well ok probably twice. Anyway once I started dating this very hunky firefighter to get back at my ex. Of course I realize it wasn't fair using the firefighter to make the ex jealous, since I was on the rebound and there should be a cooling off period then. But nevertheless I did do that and always made sure that I looked my absolute best when the ex spotted me with the firefighter. Yes I know of course it was juvenile,and not fair to use someone that way, but we don't always use our heads when we've been hurt by a relationship.

In my opinion, i will not going to get into a relationship, to take revenge, pretending i'm happy without him. It only gives me more heartaches. I just let him go, and enjoy my freedom.

I think exiting out to jump back in is a wrong call that a lot of people make. I know in my younger years I did that and in all reality it's unfair. It is unfair to yourself and to the person you are dating. I think there has to be a healing time to make the sting go way, or in my case when I'm not mad anymore. I think those rebound relationships often lead to more heartache because first, you're not ready to be close to another person yet and second, the other person often times gets hurt over it. The jealous game is a stuipd one and often times we hate ourselves for it becuase we are actually using another person as a tool and seeing them as a human being. I have to say I do feel sorry for those that are in a relationship and run away just to get into another one. Like the example your gave a boyfriend or girlfriend leaving for someone else. I tend to think people who do that are either incomplete as themselves because they always need a person there to complete them. Or, they are just looking for the next best thing and keep jumping into relationship after relationship. I'd rather know who I am being alone over feeling I need someone there to make me feel complete.

NO not at all actually speaking I would lose all my interest in relations and don't want to go out at all.I am saying this out of my personal experience,Let me tell u one thing after my gf left me I got the idea like what you said but that was impossible for me because wherever I go old memories wound me and it took nearly 5 months to come out of it and now I am normal again. I am saying eventhough you get the idea of taking revenge it requires a great deal of will because if you truly love ur gf/bf you can never into a relation with another just for taking revenge and even to talk freely with someone takes time...

no i don't get in another relationship...because...someone who hurt me..and hurted my feelings... i can't going with her again..i don't want to create this mistake again...

Personally, I would not even consider entering a new relationship for either of those reasons. First of all, it is not fair to either you or the new person involved. A rebound relationship is almost always doomed to failure. What good would it do to move on to someone new, when you haven't yet put your last relationship to rest? Also, what if the new person falls in love with you - would you just leave him/her heartbroken in the end? You obviously know the pain/hurt involved when a relationship ends. You need to work through your own upsets and find some closure. Once you are right with yourself, then you might think about a new relationship. Be kind to yourself, and be kind to others.

Getting into another relatioinship after recently breaking up with somebody, I don't think you should go into another relationship. The reason being, is because, you still are sufforing from a break up. You shouldn't go with somebody else to make you think your happy when your not? I mean why would you do that when your already hurting so much. That make's it ten times more difficult to forget about your ex. It's just best to get through it, than getting over it finding somebody else.

I am happily married since 1966 lol

I just had a breakup recently and my ex did that to me. He got a new girl friend after a month. Well yes it worked. I was jealous and hurt. In his part although he did it he still posts things pertaining to me in his wall despite the fact that he has a new girl friend. But if he expects me to come begging him to come back to me he is wrong. My decision to break up with him was final. Yes he succeeded in hurting my pride but I do not think he is happy with his pretense love affair. In my opinion it is wrong to use another person as a rebound. If you are not yet over somebody do not engage in a relationship because first, it won't make you happy. Second, you'll end up hurting the one you truly love and missing a chance to get back together. Third, you might end up hurting someone when she finds out she was just used.

No in my opinion it is totally wrong. Because it may happen that the person with whom you are creating a relation may be under wrong impression that you have some feelings with him and one fine morning after knowing the truth he will be collapsed for deceiving. Otherwise take that person in confidence and tell him frankly that this drama is only to teach a lesson to somebody then its ok. Do not play with the others only to make some one jealous.

No! If my gf breaks my relation, just to show show her or to make her jealous I will not get in relationship. But, if I get genuine gf, who loves me then certainly I will get in relationship with her.

When I was the girlfriend of my husband we had several separations and when we were not together I didnt have another serious relationship but I went out with friends because I didnt want to sit and wait for him...also to he realize that he could definitely lose me.