do you keep diary daily? and do you read your own diary afterward?
By iamfine
@iamfine (740)
China
September 27, 2009 6:02am CST
hello my friends, I keep diary twice or three times per week, and till now I have four notebooks all concerning my diarly. When I am boring at night, I sometimes would read my own diary, and I find my own diary is just like a story book.
There are so many things that I almost forget that they had ever happened, and when I read them, I recall again, and the happy to misery feeling would come to me again... just like I am reviewing a movie.... I like this feeling anyway.
How about you?
Do you keep diary, and do you often read your own diary?
15 responses
@offlimits (596)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
I don't know if I would call it a diary, but I consider it as one anyway. So yes, I do have one. Haha. It's not like the other diaries though. I don't write to it daily but instead I write when I am in class when I can't speak of what I am thinking. Sometimes I would write scribbles like something that just happened to me or something that my teacher mentioned. I have my separate notebook for some other things, like when it is in form of poems. I may not remember a lot of details about certain experiences, but I make sure I would remember the feeling when I was in it. And of course, I would remember the memory of it too.
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@offlimits (596)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
That is true. It is the only way to keep things by ourselves sometimes. Tak care! :)
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@moneymakingtoday (4061)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
i used to keep one when i was in my teens (during high school). i enjoyed reading my diary afterwards. i stopped writing diaries when the one i started and used to keep got lost. i was really sad that a good part of myself was lost and worried if someone who knew me had it and knew my secrets.... (lol, when u are in ur teens u have these crushes and ur hates). i never had any diary after that. maybe i had outgrown the excitement of keeping one and didn't find much need for diaries, firstly because my activities increased as i grew older and i didn't find much time for it and secondly, i didn't (and still don't) want to write my secrets lest they get lost again and somebody uncovers them ... lol
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@iamfine (740)
• China
30 Sep 09
hello moneymakingtoday, thank you for sharing.
yeah, I remember when I was at my teens, I wrote diary and one time I found my father was watching my diary, because i left my diary on the hall carelessly. I regret that really much because of my carelessness. But I didn't quite my diary, instead I know how to keep my diary in a secret place, under my pillow for instance.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
28 Sep 09
I stopped keeping a diary a long time ago. The reason I stopped was that I had people around who would invade my privacy and read it. It got to the point where my private thoughts were no longer private and my feelings were ridiculed. Now, I will sit and type when I feel the need, but then delete everything when I am finished. If I do write my thoughts and feelings on paper, it gets ripped up and thrown away. This way, I am still able to get my feelings out, but I don't have to worry about my privacy being invaded.
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@iamfine (740)
• China
28 Sep 09
hello lynnemg, thank you for your response.
yeah I understand the feeling of finding others reading your diary without your permission. I had such experience too, but I forget it now, becuase I think to write down my though and my experience is more important.
@dolmitta (221)
• India
28 Sep 09
Thats really nice! I wish i had that habit. :(
I use to write diary when i was 7 years old and i stopped writing diary in a week. ;) In fact, i started writing diary because my teacher instructed us to do so. :) Those are real sweet memories. Now i don't have the habit of writing Diary. There is only one window to my past life, and that is my old pictures. :)
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@AndyDan (50)
• China
28 Sep 09
I really admire your action.Those,who said busy,I also think they just find excuse for their lack of persistence.
In modern life,some people feel their lives boring and even can't find beatiful things in the world.If they do things like you,they will find life aren't boring as they think.So I will learn from you and begin to record my own life.
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@iamfine (740)
• China
30 Sep 09
hello andyDan, thank you for sharing.
yeah, I think no matter how busy we are, we can still find time to write something on notebook, it is easy, and it doesn't require too much time for you to do so. 15 mins is enough for me.
And I strongly advise everybody write down something, Nowadays people are more use to typing, typing, and not good at writing.
@mablew (4)
• China
28 Sep 09
long time ago,i enjoy writing,and sometimes i make diary with my fellings,maybe happy or unhappy.i think it's a good habit for everybody.we can find something that we have forgot and for what we write them.time could make us forget slowly,but diary could make us remember when we look back ,then we learn to appreciate.
@iamfine (740)
• China
28 Sep 09
ello mablew, thank you for contribute your first response to my discussion. I think you right, in the process we write diary, we try to slow down our mood and feeling, when we are happy, our happy last longer, when we are sad and angry, those bad feelings disperse as we write more words and encourage ourselfe to forget and learn from our experience to avoid getting bad feelings.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
27 Sep 09
Life is so busy and i don't have the time to keep myself a diary updated at times yea .
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@iamfine (740)
• China
27 Sep 09
hello sir_bobby88, your life is really busy? I see you have post 6660 posts in mylot and you said that life is too busy?
Keeping a dairy just take you little time that may equal to the time you post 10 discussion or response. Of course you earn more when you post discussion on mylot
Have a good mylotting, thank you for sharing.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
27 Sep 09
I do have a journal and was writing in it again but had to stop since life got way too hectic..I plan on starting up again soon though..I've been journal writing for yrs now and yes I do read them every Halloween (Samhain) adn I keep them all too...I have a daily journal, a dream journal and a spiritual journal actually
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@OrangJuice (687)
• China
10 Oct 09
How to say? I have a diary but seldom write diary now. When I was in college, I read "Annie's Diary", it touched me very much. And I start to write diary. Same as her, I also regard diary as my best friend - I can express myself completely there. At first, I wrote frequently, but now I just write when I'm sad or in trouble. Or records important experience of my life.
Sometimes, I read them afterward to review my hard time. - I think I'm a bad owner of my diary. I seldom share my happiness with it, but only sadness, painful.
However, I think diary is useful and meaningful for my life! It's my best friends!
@Thebraggingman (275)
• New Zealand
27 Sep 09
I am a man and I don't keep a diary daily. I write in it when something significant happens. I then don't read back because I like to keep it as a memory. I read a diary that I kept from a few years ago a few weeks back I haven't laughed so much at the memories I wrote down in a long time. It really is a good way to keep memories. In my next diary if i go lets say kayaking I might stick pictures from the outing in there aswell. That could be fun. I don't however write in my diary about a girl I have a crush on. It's more of an event reminder.
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@iamfine (740)
• China
27 Sep 09
hello thebraggingman, thank you for sharing.
I think it is common thing that men pay less intersted in keeping diary. All men around me has no the habit to keep diary and I don't why.
Maybe female are more good at writing, using more beautiful words? when I read my diary, I sometimes would feel amazed that the words I used was so properly. But I don't use that words that often in my daily life...
If you don't write down about the girl you crush on, you may forget how you feel about them afterward... but maybe that is not that important to you as time goes by
@yue1010126 (19)
• China
27 Sep 09
hi,friends.When i see this topic i feel so sorry to admit that i have not keep a diary.however i want to start again since i am on the way to be a freshman in my new university.Not having done well in the national entrance exam I was admitted into a college which was not on my wish list.haha^
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@online76 (28)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 09
long time ago i ever try to write my daily diary in 1 year, and my diary is mix with agenda, so sometime i write something like expense hehehe.. the first day i have write about what is goal this year, how i reach it ets.. and as the days flow.. i keep writing.. and in the end of the year i read it back.. and sometime i feel sorry for my self, and feel stupid doing something funny etc. just like you said its like story book..
now i never write any diary.. since there is facebook, and realize or not, its become all human diary :D
@iamfine (740)
• China
27 Sep 09
haha, online 76, thanks for sharing, that's interesting.
Yes usually the first diary of the year is something we plan ourself for a better future, but usually it does not come out as we planed it to be at the end. But at least you will, hey I was so ambition that time, and you can analyse what's going on this year, and make you not reach your goal...
I would do so, and then begin to write: "what if..."
@malamar (779)
• Canada
27 Sep 09
I have always kept a journal and refer back to it occasionally. Journaling (or writing in your diary) has long been proven to have certain therapeutic values. It is very interesting to go "back in time" and read about upsets, hurts, feelings, boy/girlfriends,and so on.
Usually by revisiting past situations, one of two things will happen. First you may wonder what on earth had you so upset/hurt/frustrated about the situation. This occurs frequently with teens and young adults as they struggle with the trials and tribunes of those difficult years.
Or, in a really serious situation,by looking back and revisiting it again, you realize that bad times too shall eventually pass. This is very effective when we are struggling in our current life as we see how we overcame/got over past struggles or challenges.
Or, sometimes it just helps you to have a good laugh and get over yourself already.
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@iamfine (740)
• China
27 Sep 09
hello I think I have the same feeling about journal like you. Sometimes I read about what happened before, I will recall more, and though some others said that it is not good to think too much about the pass, but we can also learn from the lesson of the past, and better plan our future.
@SQD444 (677)
• India
28 Sep 09
oh no.. when i was in school i used to write daily diary due to the influence that i have seen many movies in which the stars i like wrote diary... then some of the popular studenst in the school i knew wrote diary... not because i was interested.. so i gave up long back i think when i entered high school
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@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
Yes, I have a daily diary to record all my activities and re read afterwards to have a good memory about the past events. I just love writing and cherished all the memories and events happened in my life. It's a nice habit especially when I have no work or bored during the day.