Attracted to a 60 year old man ...Is it wrong ?

If he is not married then there is nothing wrong! Think about this next statement: Age is a matter of the mind, if you don't mind then it doesn't matter. But don't rush! Make sure it is not just a passing infatuation. Let some time go by, say at least six months and then see if you still feel the say may. I wish you the best!

I don't think it is wrong to attract to a 60 years old man. In my views is that, my friend. There is not bad if you are attract to a 60 years old man. Unless this old man will have the power and make something responsively there is no wrong with that...It is better for woman to have a relationship with an old man than a man to have a relationship with an old woman...Have a nice day, my friend! Hope you enjoy your life...take care

Hey!! I understand...I have a list of "older gentlemen" actors that I find hot....Sean Connery, Harrison Ford, Paul Newman (RIP), etc etc etc...there are a few more men on this list. And I can even appreicate some older guys I see in real life, in everyday occurances, are attractive--but I would never try to start anything with them. I do have a rule for myself lol. I'm 20.....so the limit I made for myself is no older than 30. I wouldn't want anyone in my dads decade, and ESPECIALLY no one older than my dad. 30 is not a set, strict rule..a few years older wouldn't be the worst thing ever....but 30 is a guideline, I wouldn't go much older for a real relationship.

lol..hi there beautifulll! No, no, there's nothing wrong that you attracted to him. I always like older men, although the age gap between my husband and I is 10 years, hehehe.. You know what? When you said that he's a sexy 60 year-old man, I immediately think of Richard Gere, lol, because he's 60 and he surely is sexy to me :) I've been in your age, and it's so so normal to have that kinda feeling, that you just love to see his face, his move, etc. Just don't go further..:) Happy mylotting.

wow, i have also experienced the same thing but in my case, we only have a 13-year age gap. he's my boss and i also got attracted to him. good thing he also felt the same thing for me. he is now my husband and we've been married for six years with a 4-yr-old daughter.

No, it is not wrong to be attracted to guy that age. Besides, you're just admiring him and not loving him. If, you're planning to have a move for love, it's another story. You're having a big age gap, my dear.

LOL. My mother had an expression "Better to be an old man's darling than a young man's fool." However, since he is married with children, and you are a young woman with morals, you will admire from a distance and no harm will be done. After all, desire is not automatic permission to go after what you want when it can bring pain on people (yourself and his entire family). You are very mature in that you admit to the attraction. You face it head on. And you are willing to let it go. Atta girl. Your true love will come along for you in good time.

well it is not wrong to get attracted to somebody else but are you really sure that you really like him??or is it only an infatuation?you can find many guys out there...but if you really like him and he's single maybe it can work..there's no problem if you are both single..

It is just a crush and it is quite normal. You are attracted since he is your boss, a goodlooking guy, and a very successful man in life. I have a crush on the central minister of state foreign affairs of my country. He is above 60 years and I have never met him. I won't miss a single magazine or news which talks about him. But, it is just a crush and I never let it corss the limits and distrubs me and my family.

I see nothing wrong with it. If you're attracted to him and there is chemistry between the two of you, then its possible that you two make a great pair. Yes, I know there will be some people who will gossip about you two as a couple, but come on people, what wrong with that? If that person who choose to be with that particular someone don't even mind, then what the heck is it with those people who like to gossip so much about people? They are just extra and you can ignore what they say and treat them as if they don't even exist.

People have different preferences as far as attraction to opposite gender is concerned. At times, even the age gap is nothing to us. If you are attracted to someone 40 years older than you, that is normal. But if you have to make the first move and he is married, that is not ok. We should know our place and should not make other family suffer because of our attraction.

There is nothing wrong to be in love with him. But is he in love with you? Is he still single? Can he still function in bed? Ask these practical questions to yourself before you move on to his turf, for better or use. Have fun, though!

Hi,i think you are come out of teenage attraction behavior.Generally in teenage they fall in attraction with the people who closely move around.I don't know the mental maturity of you to comment.If you are that much cofidance on you to face further sequences then only proceed.Have a nice time.

yah girl very very wrong....for sure you just confused.....your looking for a father image or figure...or looking for the love of the father....or your closer to your dad, that thought you want to be a man the same with your dad...lots cases the same in you girl....one thing you just confused ..so for me its nah normal way of what you felt now, so stop fantasizing this 60yrs old boss of yours...coz you can stop it if you just want to...:)

No, that's perfectly normal. As long as you know where you stand and know your limits.

Woo, it sounds amazing! I don't think you are wrong, because age never be the excuse for true love. But how about him? Does he like you, too? I don't know where you're from. But in China, a few years ago, an 28-year-old young lady married YANG Zhenning, who once got the Nobel prize in physics and then was 82-year-old. How surprising! But you see, love with large age-gap, I think, is more harder and dangerous with those between two peers, that's true. But if he is single and attracted by you indeed. Why not? True love can overcome any difficulty, I believe.

You can get attracted to anybody and it is pure nature.I am glad that you are aware of it and you won't run into trouble by making any silly moves.Just admire him secretly and it will pass by soon.You need not feel guilty about it.Young boys have attraction to mature girls and it happens equally with young girls to mature men.

hi there, well it's not a problem after all.. it's normal at your age.. and i think that will pass by, and hey is he married/divorce or what??

silly but there's nothing wrong with it, you like him thats fine, the inportant is dont ever make a move on him, its like a childs play, your'e so young, your feeling is like a flower, day & days after its going dry..think of it.

are you sure you like him? maybe you respect him, i think that it is different about respect and love. 21, you are so younger, 40year gap, horrible little girl,maybe you understand the feeling wrongly