Rich Guy or Poor guy?

honeslty... i find this question one of the toughest to answer... I would definitely want to marry a rich guy... oh god i have been working my b*tt for years and years and I am so beat up and tired every single day...yet I have not saved enough... how nice would it be to have someone who can just give me what i want without me having to break my bones from working too hard for it. ...yet i am scared about being miserable and lonely one day... I know women can learn to love a man especially if he is so nice to her and would treat her very special... what if i won't learn to love him??? I would try...but what if it isnt there at all????

Rich guy over Poor Guy? Depends on if you're in love with the Poor Guy! How can one be truly happy if they are in love with the poor guy but then they marry the rich guy for his money? I know I wouldn't be happy if I married someone just for their money, their has to be love. I could be happy with the poor guy if I loved him, because we would have so much to share together including quality time with our family. Now, if I was with the rich guy and we both loved each other, we would have something else to build on, but we would know that money doesn't dictate who we are. Also, there has to be a physical attraction, for me anyways, and that's just for starters. I would want a guy that knows how to make me laugh, because as always laughter is the best medicine. I would want someone that is caring, kind and considerate and knows how to enjoy life. Yeah, I want someone who loves to make me laugh and I want to be able to make them smile in return.

I'm sorry but I get so sick of ppl (usually guys) having such a negative attitude towards women today....now maybe its my age group but then again I dont think so since I have neices and friends with daughters who are in their teens and 20s..but myself and pretty much all of my friends, female family members and neices etc etc ARENT out for money..Granted we are all (except a couple) strong, independant, NON materialistic women...I honestly think that the money wanters are few in comparison really...yet ppl (again, usually guys) have this belief that the majority are out for the rich guys..why is that??

I am a very simple girl and want to live a happy life, if in future I have had money but no happiness than I have never prefer that life to live. I can live even in a hut with my beloved but I want is happiness and thats it for me.I want to laugh and enjoy life,if less money , no problem but I want my life partner to love me and with a true heart.

Well, I am way past the time when I am looking for a guy at all, either rich or poor. Actually I don't think anyone could fill the shoes of my late husband. But to try to answer your question I will offer these points. If a man is to poor and has no ambition to better himself no matter how good he looks or how good he makes you feel the relationship will be strained down the way. When it is time to pay the bills and your man will not work you will get disgusted. On the other hand marrying for money is no guarantee of happiness either. If a man is rich he may be used to getting his own way in everything. He may feel that the rules of marriage don't apply to him since he can buy anything he wants. You might find yourself lonely in a big house. So before deciding to get married a couple should get to know each other and talk to one another. They need to see if they have things in common and similar goals for life. They need to love one another and more importantly respect and like each other.