Are you satisfied with your life now ?

China
October 1, 2009 6:16am CST
Life is a process of changing. We all know that life is driven by dream and goal .But now i feel very confused about my life and i feel very unsatisfied with my life. What makes things worse is that i don't know how to change the situation. Can anyone here give me some suggestions?
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25 responses
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
2 Oct 09
not totally.. i have what i need..but there's so much i want to have and achieve... Yet..i would never trade places with anyone else... I love how things are working for me...
• China
2 Oct 09
Sometimes ,desire is the reason why you feel unsatisfied. But my my problem is i do not know my place.
• Philippines
2 Oct 09
i guess i was on the same voat as you were years ago.. but hard work got me out of depression and feeling lost... keep your self busy and explore opprtunities...wehn you do..you feel more fulfilled.
@vopols (204)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
You are unsatisfied with your life my friend simply because you are confused. As your definition of life it's a process of changing I agree with you on that. What makes life unsatisfied is when you do not know what you really want in life. Life can offer us everything but the problem is our choice, we must have have something to hold on to. That is why we are given a mind for us to think of what we really want in life. A person may feel unsatisfied only if most of his or her goals were unattained.
• China
1 Oct 09
hello vopols thank you for giving me such good suggestions. I appreciate it a lot. Actually ,i am now really confused. Yes , i don't know what i really want .Your words really help .Thank you very much.
@vopols (204)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
Your welcome my friend
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
2 Oct 09
I think that everybody haves such a perioud. I really think that it`s periodicaly . I will write down how many days i was unhappy this year , what days. When i say unhappy, i mean it , because it`s like all problems camed to me in the same perioud . Now, after that perioud , i had some happy moments . I think this it`s like a cycle . After some years, i don`t know exactly how many , every person it`s dealing with this situation . This it`s my theory , and i saw this on myself and on some of my friends (3 of them ) . When you have such a perioud, you don`t have too many to do . You can just to try to smile and look like you`re happy . If you look like an upset person , you`ll get more bad-luck , because people around you can see that you`re not so well, and they will make all the possible to gain something , just because you`re in that situation .
• China
2 Oct 09
Thank you for sharing your opinion with so many details. Actually everybody will have a low-spirit period. During this period you may feel depressed and disappointed. Still ,we should be positive about our life.
@riyasbass (118)
• India
2 Oct 09
Once my teacher told me that "If you changed your habit in an opposite way you could find many happiness in your life , some special enjoyments...I mean :If you sleep usually by turning to right side Today you sleep by turning to the left.....If you always drink a coffee then today you drink a tea or something like that.... Make sure that at least a majority of your habits should be changed to experience the joy......................
• China
2 Oct 09
Well thank you very much for the advice. I think they are very useful full of wisdom.
@gowriv89 (295)
• India
2 Oct 09
Hi Chryslark... You are right buddy... every minute is new and every single thing that happens in life is new... humans are generally wavery in nature... they are never satisfied with what they have and will always expect something which they didny get yet... once they get that thing, they don't mind it and they will start to desire for some other thing... So human's desire becomes eternal... there is no full stop for that but once you are satisfied with what you have then life becomes pleasant....happy mylotting
• China
2 Oct 09
Hi gowriv89. You offer a good point for us. Sometimes we learn to be satisfied with what we have .Only in that way can we be happy. Endless desire will make us feel painful.
@neelimaravi (1793)
• India
2 Oct 09
i am very satified in my life. i have got everything in my life. but i have few goal to achieve. but definetly i will do it. i have that much of confidence. thankyou.
• China
2 Oct 09
Hi neelimaravi, i must say that you are such a luck guy that you got evrything in your life. But i must say that you should set other goals and keep moving on. Good luck.
@shimanaja (493)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 09
Hi there.. Honestly i am not satisfied with my life now, me and my hubb are fighting for make a better living. I want to change the curent life become a better life. We dont want to have the life as it is, we want more better life, so go for it and never give up :)
• China
2 Oct 09
Well i hope that finally you would achieve your goal. Best wishes for you.
• Indonesia
2 Oct 09
I think maybe you should see another people around you or another place which they life is very bad.they have no food, no clothes, no water.one thing they have is they have disease in their body. you don't look up in around you but you should look down in around you. so you be so thankfull for GOD for everything you still have and don't lost.
• China
2 Oct 09
Yes ,you are right . We should be grateful to our life. Value what we own now.
• China
1 Oct 09
by now i am satisfied with my life,my honey loves me,and we have a lovely son,he brings us lots of happiness,though we dont have lots of money,but i think money is not the most impotant in life,of course it plays an important part of our daily life,i am sure we can improve our living condition for we are yong now,i hope our life become better.
• China
1 Oct 09
best wishes for your family. Yes , i think with such an positive attitude toward life, finally you will succeed.
@offlimits (596)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
I would say that I am satisfied with my life now. I am contented with what I have and I treasure every moment that I have in this world :) I believe you will have to determine the way you live your life, whether you would be better or worse. I think you must follow your heart on what you desire. If you are still confused, pray to God to give you guidance in the path you chose to go.
• China
2 Oct 09
First thank you for sharing your opinion. Life is amazing so we should cherish every moment in our life. Thanks for your advice. i will try to find my destination.
@riyasbass (118)
• India
2 Oct 09
I am not satisfied with my life. I am very sad to know that i had done nothing for others. I always thought about me only. I suggest you that you should not be selfish much. To satisfy with your life think only positively. Only expect good things. You will also get good things..............
• China
2 Oct 09
Well thank you very much indeed for the advice. You did make a good point. We should be positive about our life.
@Swadey (220)
• Canada
1 Oct 09
well what you have to figure is what o you want out of life what do you feel is lacking that makes you unsasisfied with life once you figure that out you should take the steps in towards achieveing that goal. I am quiet satisfied where my life is going right now, i have a saportive family, good boyfriend and i am going bak to school this winter to be a early childhood educator once im done school then i will be satisfied. Happy Mylotting
• China
2 Oct 09
Well Swadey i feel happy for you that you own a satisfying life. I will tyr your advice. Thank you .
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
2 Oct 09
Chryslark, life is beautiful which are consits of dream, goal and other things. First of all, you need to find out and understand what let you don't unsatify? Sometimes, we can't control and change the life, but we can control our mood, if you use a happy heart to look life, life will be more happy, so don't confused and cheer up, you will change your unsatisfy life if you feel happy.
• China
2 Oct 09
Yes ,bettydeng5 ,thans for your cheerying words. Maybe i am a litle pessimistic about my life. Life itself is a magic thing. I should look at it in different angles. Thanks for your good advice.
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
1 Oct 09
First cheer up, life is a challeage, you need to adjust your opinion to face life, life is beautiful, and it's great that you have set up your dream and goal, you find out what the source of problem was, and consider whether you will have the ability to change the siutation, if you can't change the situation to achieve your dream and goal, then do the right thing, and find back your confidence, I think you will achieve your dream and goal.
• China
1 Oct 09
Oh bettydeng5 you are so nice to say such encouraging words to me .Thank you . I will try my best to find back my confidence. Life is very beautiful . We must learn to enjoy it ? Am i right? Thanks for your good opinion again.
@lovedude (4447)
• India
1 Oct 09
Though there were many times when I wished I could have done differently. but yeah I am quite happy the ways I had chosen in my life.. I have done the best I can possibly do.. and yeah my friend.. you shouldn't be disappointed from your life.. you must be doing your best to live life happily but it's just circumstances when you feel down and feel like it's the worst time.. just remember one thing.. THIS WILL TOO PASS.. the most famous lines I remember whenever I feel down.. just feel happy.. Good Luck..
• China
1 Oct 09
Thank you ,lovedude,for those kind words. Just as some lyrics go: i am with who am . Our life is the most precious thing we own ,so we should live our life happily. Am i right?
• India
1 Oct 09
i am dissatisfied from my life, my life has become worst i dont know why...why this is happening to me. i just want to be alone and want to think that why these kind of things are happening to me. why some of my friends are become selfish and why the cool atmoshphere of my life has been changed. i am many dreams and desires in my life and i want to complete them. i want to become a great person so that everyone should know about me and should care for me. i just want to be lived my life happy and desirable but i dont know why all these things are getting wrong. what will happen i dont know about my life , i am very much dissatisfied with my life. i just want to enjoy my life and i want to be a successful person.
• China
1 Oct 09
hello arpit-taran , i feel very sorry that you feel nobody cares about you . To be honest i sometimes have this kind of feeling too and then i will feel very depressed. But you know what ? Life is a matter of your's so you can't depend on others to change your life. So come on ,feel the world with a grateful heart, you will find that it is not so bad.
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
I think each of us here are not satisfied with the kind of life that they currently have. For me, it is the sole essence why each of us here in this world and that is to try to developed ourselves into a productive individuals who can effect changes within the society and within ourselves. We are not satisfied with our current status because we still try to strive harder in order to find ways to alleviate our social and most especially our economic status. So for me, each of us are not satisfied. ...
• China
1 Oct 09
well aabuda thanks for sharing your opinion with us. maybe you are right .maybe the unsatisfaction can serve to be the power to improve ourseves and develop our society.
@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
1 Oct 09
Dissatisfaction in life is caused by desires or cravings for the things that we want but that we could not achieve. When this happens, we will feel disappointed and sometimes depressed because we don't (or can't) get what we want. We need to learn to live a moderate life, do not compare with what others have because each of us are different in many ways. Do not expect anything. If you get it, good; if not, life has to go on. I'm not sure if this helps, but good luck :)
• China
1 Oct 09
Sure,it helps a lot. Different people lead different lives, so i should just be happy with what i got. But there is one point i disagree i think we shoud have expectations in our life ,or we will lose the power to move on. Hope you have a good day.
@killersss (638)
• India
1 Oct 09
i would not say that i am satisfied with my life at the moment because i haven't done anything in life and i have to do a lot of things to be successful in life. but if you ask me on a smaller scale when i am using my mum dad's earnings then i would say yes i am satisfied with my life.
• China
1 Oct 09
well thanks for your good opinion. i must say that you are a luchy guy .because for people who are not satisfied with their life but hvve no idea how to change it , it is difficult to be happy.
• China
1 Oct 09
Oh ,my friend ,My situation is the same as yours,I am vert anxious,I am not happy every day .my life is not my idea,life is really unpredicatable,at first,I would like to go to college,but did not pay off,I can do it,because my father do not want me study .His view is that there are many University Students in sociaty ,they still not find a satisfactory working ,in my country ,it is hard to find a job,because there are many many population,and the job is only one. so why not let me do work directly. I understand my father ,he want to me have a job to live. but this farther and farther away from my dream .I am side sometimes I really want to cry,I look at the night sky ,which is a star belongs to me? Nevertheless,I will never give up,never.I have overcome many difficulties in life,I can not down.
• China
1 Oct 09
Hi thebest1988, i really admire your courage. I must say that you are a brave man. Maybe your family is unable to support your dreams, but as long as you can insist on your dream ,i believe that finally you can realize it. It is right that you don't give up. I hope that you can always be so brave.