Unemployment being called "Fun-employment"!
By sderringer
@sderringer (303)
United States
October 1, 2009 9:45am CST
I was on another site yesterday where you enter into discussions and I came across someone discussing that some people are calling unemployment "fun employment". It angered me so much how petty and callous some people can be. I am temporarily unemployed and believe me it is far from "fun". Oh it was nice in the beginning not to have to endure the every day stress and grind of working but that soon passes and now I am starting to feel very bored and useless. I am lucky enough though to be in a two paycheck family and my husband still has employment so we are not hurting. But, when I think of all those people out there who only had one paycheck and lost their jobs or those who were the main paycheck in the family and lost their job, I feel very sad for them. I can't imagine that unemployment has been "fun" for any of those people. Have any of you ever heard the phrase "fun employment"? What are your thoughts on this?
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7 responses
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
2 Oct 09
I have never heard it called "fun employment" and I agree it's pretty heatless to think it's fun being jobless, especially if your the head of the household, and have children and bills etc. I am not working and there are some perks to it, like not having to go out in the snow, but you feel useless like you said. In a way it's sad that your identity is so tied up in the job you have. If you don't work you don't get to socialize with other people as much, even though some people drive you crazy, it's still good to keep in contact with others.Some people stay in touch, but only for a little while, unless you are good friends, after awhile you have nothing to talk about, or in common.
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@sderringer (303)
• United States
2 Oct 09
Very good point cerebellum about not much social contact when not working. That is surely true for me since I haven't been working I hardly ever leave the house except to grocery shop or go on an interview. I don't have a huge problem with that though because I am a home body by nature but still I miss some of the girls I used to work with sometimes. And you are right, most of them didn't stay in touch. Thanks for the great response.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
hello sderringer,
I have never heard of that term before, but i guess it may have been originated from people who have lost their jobs and happy being unemployed, i dunno. of course, it's crisis it can't be helped.don't let get through you, it's not your fault you're unemployed. I've been unemployed for a year now.
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@sderringer (303)
• United States
1 Oct 09
Thanks for the response LetranKnight! Sorry to hear you are unemployed for so long too but you are right, in today's economy and job crisis, unemployment is growing by leaps and bounds and so far it seems that it can't be helped. I wish you all the best of luck in job hunting and hope you will be employed again soon. Take care.
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
2 Oct 09
Unemployment has never been fun. It's the first time i heared that coined word. My first impresion is maybe that's a defense mechanism or maybe one way of saying...laugh at your problems rather than be depressed.
Whatever the original intent is, it's not easy to be unemployed or underemployed, income which hardly make ends meet.
cheers.
@sderringer (303)
• United States
2 Oct 09
Originally I perceived the phrase as coming from someone who was angry or jealous over the fact that they were still working and stressed while others got to be off and still receive a small income but thanks to your response I might be able to view it differently now. Maybe it was said originally as a way to laugh during a bad time. Who knows. Anyway, thanks for the different point of view Manong.
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
12 Oct 09
Yep, that's a new one on me as well. Most of the people that I know who are unemployed, are very upset about it. As far as I know, the unemployment income is less than what they are used to living on. I received unemployment for about the first 6 months of my 2 year reign of being unemployed, and it was significantly less than what I was used to living on.
For me, it wasn't so bad, because I'm only one person, (not married and have no children). But for my brother-in-law who was the only one who worked in his family, with two kids and a wife still at home, believe you me, it was not fun.
Plus, for him, it was very mundane. Like you said, maybe the first couple of weeks was like a break because he got a break from work. But after that, he really didn't know what to do with himself. Plus, it was the middle of winter, so it wasn't like he could just go out in the yard and pick up a project.
I don't blame you for being insulted by that phrase.
@sderringer (303)
• United States
12 Oct 09
Thanks for the response Kykidd. Yes, unemployment income is a lot less here where I live than the income I got when I worked. I am very grateful to have it right now though. I just didn't realize until now that some people seem to view it as a way to goof off and still have a little money or that there are some people who seem to think you should be ashamed to be getting unemployment money. I guess I tend to live in a bubble sometimes......safe and protected from the mean and hurtful viewpoints of some people. I hope things have improved for you and your brother-in-law and thanks again for your understanding.
@malamar (779)
• Canada
2 Oct 09
Must be nice to be unemployed and with no worries about bills, money, mortgages, and so on. Although I have never heard the term "fun employment", I have come across those who think unemployment is a vacation of sorts. Of course, they don't have the responsibilities that many of us have. They also lack the maturity to understand the long term effects of being without a steady income.
I guess we can only do what we can and try to get by during these difficult times.
At least we are not experiencing the troubles that our friends in the Philipine's are right now.
It is hard sometimes to be grateful, when things are going badly, but we owe to ourselves and to our loved ones to try. Keep your chin up, stay positive and be kind to others. This too, shall pass.
@sderringer (303)
• United States
2 Oct 09
Thanks malamar. I have always believed strongly in that saying "this too shall pass" and I am sure that it will in time and the economy will pick up. I also know it's difficult to be grateful when things are not going well but I am a very lucky woman and have a lot to be grateful for (job or no job).
@sderringer (303)
• United States
2 Oct 09
LOL malamar. Unfortunately that is not where we live. It's an old picture of a vacation in Florida. Tarpin Springs.....sponge capital I think. It was a beautiful peaceful place. Ahhh memories.
@malamar (779)
• Canada
2 Oct 09
You are so right,sd. We have much to be grateful for, but sometimes it just gets buried under stress and hard times. I like your picture, by the way. Loving partner at your side, calm and peaceful water, lots of sunshine and boats.... can I come over this weekend?
@tariqsahiwal (223)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Oct 09
i lost my job many time because i ever do Private sector and private sectors whats to extra ordinary work but their giving salary not enough. so i am unemployed these days and try to govt. job and try to make some extra income from online but still i have no any satisfied opportunity on internet if you have any experience to work online so please tell me i ever thanks to you....!
@sderringer (303)
• United States
2 Oct 09
Sorry I can't be of help tariqsahiwal. I dabble in a few online things to earn extra income but none of them earn enough to support a person. I enjoy it though as a hobbie so I keep doing it. Maybe someday I will find one or you will and we can share with others. Thanks for the response. Hope better days are ahead for you.
@GlisGlis (5)
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18 Jan 11
I've never heard that one either, and can't imagine where it comes from! Being UK based, I've watched many friends lose their jobs in the last year or so, with little or no prospect of working again for a long time. Personally, I'm self-employed, and although I can keep the wolf from the door on a week to week basis with one to one teaching, more and more arts organisations are either going to the wall or losing their funding every week, and the big projects (with a living wage attached) are fewer and farther between than ever. I don't see how lying awake at night wondering how in hell you're going to pay your bills and keep a roof over your head is "fun"...