I am away for mylot for a week now ...

Do not be sad, God gives a problem because we can deal with it. So I'm sure you'll get through it and you can also attend back here. We all will always be waiting for and receiving your return. Do not be sad and try to smile. Come awaken your spirit and go to myLot

oh kmaram, i hope you can be strong with this problem. pray for God to guide you and give the solution for this problems. dont give up and trust God, always trust God

what is your problem my friend? hope you could solve it soon. just be strong my dear. and never ever give up! your daughter is your inspiration, i know that because i know that you love her sooo much! just pray and i will pray for you as well. we are always here my friend. you can handle it though its hard but i know you will. jhelai

Hi Kmaram. Taking one's life is not the solution. We all go through problems of different intensity. This is just a phase of your life. It will all pass. It maybe easier said than done but in times of this, there is only one thing that we could hold on to and that is God. Everything that is eating you up should be lifted to God. All your worries, problems, anxieties should be surrendered to Him. Let God lead your life. In time, you will see a brighter future. Thank God for your life and for your daughter.

hello kmaram, I don't even know what the problem is, how can i even help you.well, i can only encourage you to move on living. quitting would be the end of everything and could really be hard for your daughter to move forward if you give up. i believe in GOD, and i think you should pray for you to be strengthen and help you face your problems

Your daughter needs you. Why worry about your personal headaches or heartaches? Your daughter is what counts for you now. Move on! Take care of her needs rather than thinking what you can do for your self.

it happens that due to some of the reasons we arent able to mylot and i think its going to be an year i had taken a break from mylot and it is jus today i am writin here again and i dont know till when i am able to mylot, i usually like mylotting but due to my travel to hometown and nodue to my pregnancy and all i have just taken a break and my due date is next month and idont hink again i will be able to mylot and it is just ifelt mylotting today and i am doing it. person have to always act according to the situation or the stages of life. so dont worry and carry on how it comes, all the best.

It is said that we are never given more than what we can handle and I have to wonder about that sometimes…You have a young child so remember that no matter how you are feeling you do not have the right to take your own life and deprive her of a mother. I was feeling very low up until last week and I went to my doctor who referred me to a counsellor and prescribed some antidepressants which I was not keen on taking but I did and I feel one hundred times better although I have not seen the counsellor yet. Do you often feel as you do now? If you do I would consider speaking to your doctor about it. If something has happened that has brought you down it may help to share with a friend if not right here with us and see if any of us can help out. My thoughts and prayers are with you...

Heads up my friend! There is still alot of living to do. There is so much to do and so many people you have left to meet. Your daughter is also depending on you to show her how to live. I know how tough life can be sometimes and I am not in your shoes but I can say that after some time..things will start to look up. You have to look up first though and that means you can't be hanging your head.I promise it won't hurt a bit to smile and if you can't find a reason to then just look at that pretty little girl you have.

hi mona. no matter how difficult it is the things that you are going through right now, never even consider the thought of quitting your life. and as you said, you have a 2-year old daughter and just imagine the kind of life she'd lead if you were gone. just hang in there, no matter how difficult it is, we are not given problems that we are not capable of overcoming. just think of it as a test to make you a stronger person.

Hello Kmaram, So sorry to hear about that. Hope you can handle your problems soon and don't be sad okay. Don't ever think any way to quit please. Think of your adorable daughter and hope you get her to accompany you and go all the problems with you. If you really need some body to talk with, you may pm me. See you again next week, friend.

Hi mona, I'm sorry if I happen to notice your discussion about this just now. Me too, I haven't been active to mylot for a few week now. I sent a message already and always remember that I'm willing to talk. I've been reading a few replies, and I think I have an idea regarding your problem. Although I really wish I'm wrong. =(

Kmaram, I really feel bad about you. You have to have strengths inside yourself to face any kind of problems of life. Please do get demoralized ever. If you know my problems, it be like a movie to you or may be you will think its a story I am trying to tell you. But its a fact. Now I am at 52, and about 10 years back I was a millionaire and I had everything. That time I had so many friends, who were enjoying with myself. But due to mistake of me, I became just a beggar in 2000 and then I got a good job after 6 months and worked for another 2 years. After that again I lost that job, and was again in trouble. I could not get any job during that time, and did not even have money to feed myself and my family. My elder daughter who was 18 at that time, got Scholarship from Govt. to continue her study and she got admitted into an Engg. College to complete B. Tech in Computer Science. My younger daughter could not go to school for another 2 years due to finance problems. At that stage all my friends and relatives gone away from me. It only God came and saved my life, but he also assured me that I should not quit from that situation. After that again I started earning and again the whole thing came to a shape, but last 2 months again I am jobless. Thats the reason I am looking for money through Internet and I came to myLot and meet friends like yourself here. Today I heard a bad news from my girl friend who is 20 years junior than me in age, she is 32 now. She is a working lady, and her hubby also works with an Insurance company. She told me today during my morning walk, that her hubby's company is giving notices to many person for leaving the job, because the company's turnover is decreasing, and they have to terminate at least 100 person from job. So her hubby might loose the job also. Think of the situation, when I am in trouble, she also face this kind of problems at home. And her hubby almost daily telling her, that he may not return home after office. I talk to her again just 1 hour back and informed her that I need to talk to her hubby at this situation and will extend all kind of financial help if necessary and I do not want to take any undue-advantage against my help. She loves me like anything, and told me that she will talk to her hubby and introduce me with him. I know at this stage I can only do some kind of counselling with her hubby and save him from this worst situation. She needs help at this stage. This is simply called LOVE and nothing else. We will never have any physical relation in future also, and I am not that type of man she know from her heart, but to me its love only. The kind of love I have received from her during last 1 years or so, its the return from my side. You can only return LOVE against LOVE. So you must believe in God and he will ultimately help you. Thanks and warm wishes from me too. It love for another Human and nothing else. Sorry that you have to read such a strory from me.

hope you can deal the problem..Leaving mylot allows you to think about it..hopefully your problem will be over soon..

hi kmaram oh my dear no no don't think like that,you are' young and you have a precious daughter. YOu are also precious and you must think of yourself as one whom you love. You can start a new life, you must throw back your shoulders, shout I am kmaram, I love myself, I am unique, I have a dear sweet daughter, I can do it, and please believe this,it does work. Jesus himself told us we are to love ourselves as we love others so we are able to love others. You will do just fine in your new life, and soon you will smile again. think of the smiles your pretty little daughter gives you. cheer up not everyone has a lovely little girl like you do. Yes life will get better, believe it and it will happen.

Remember this, all of us live on this planet for one purpose only, be it humans,animals or plants. We have a job to do,raise our offsprings and then we disappear from this world. Don't worry, you and I will have a chance to return back to the creator. But for now, your job is to make sure your daughter's well being are properly looked after. Only YOU can do that. We cannot let our own emotions jeapordize our children's future. It's our duty and we are answerable to them. Whenever I am sad, I look into my daughter's eyes to see her future. Her eyes showed a reflection of me, her father. Her future is in her daddy's hand. Your daughter's future is in your hand. She is your joy,sadness,future,love and everything else in this world. She is your LIFE!

Hello everyone of us has a problem. Let's pray together friend we can solve it in God's will. You can count on me. Hope I can be an element to make you happy. It's been a month since I am absent here in mylot.

I don't know what the problems that you are going through are. But, you need to find someone to talk to about the problems that you have. It is not just for your daughter, it is also for yourself. The fact that you said you even think about quitting your life is terribly troubling even to me and I've never even met you. Please, see if there is someone that can help you through this time in your life and you will find that things will be much better. Everyone goes through dark times in their life, and the fact that you are able to admit it is the first step in the right direction.

Hello kmaram!, I hope you can manage your problems successfully.Think positive and hopefully you will come back in this forum.