Do you believe there are ture love in this world?
By liujuanxh
@liujuanxh (170)
China
October 3, 2009 9:48am CST
Dear friend,what is your opionion about true love?Do you belive ture love ?Do you think ture love exit in this world?
I donot belive true love and i still donot think there are true love in reality,it only exit in the love novel.Do you agree with me?Pls tell me your feeling about true love.
Thank you!
19 responses
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
if we broaden our conception of the words true love then we could say that it really exist in this world.have we forgotten about the kind of love a mother could give to her children?to carry an unborn child in her womb and face the risk and peril of delivering her child isnt enough to believe that true love do really exist?
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
i do even believe in true love.my 6 years of marriage was not just all glory and happiness yet im still holding on for i can feel inside me that no matter what happened i would still be happy to stay with my husband.and i think thats because i truely love my husband.
@today2009 (160)
• China
5 Oct 09
There are a variety of love.However,whether there is love between men and women.My answer there .But I did not see,and now the kind of love are built on the interests of the.We need to wait for true love slowly.
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
5 Oct 09
Yes ,i agree with you.most of love in reality is built on the wealth,looks,and many other things.
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
6 Oct 09
HI friend,i am from China,and you?Although i didnot have such experience before ,i saw too much things around me.
I am disappointed with the love in this world ,i think it is unperfect.
@today2009 (160)
• China
5 Oct 09
Where do you come from? You also have such an experience ah?I can add friends ?I will not add?
@thebest1988 (603)
• China
4 Oct 09
hi ,my friend, I belive ture love,why,because I experience it,I met my wife before 8 years,when I met her,I immediately fell in love with her ,at that time we still a student,we had a lot of joy and sadness.we are all aware can not leave each other,she know my heart and I know hers,we are all accustomed to each other's way of life.we respect each other.now she is my wife .I will accompany her life.I love her,it is no extra word to say.
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
5 Oct 09
Hi,friend,i am so glad that you share your experience.What you have is ture love ,and i think you are happiness.Seldom people can love another one like yours.
They always said they will love the other forever but they always change their mind and fell in love with others.Too many stories like that in reality.
@mybeatrice (203)
• China
4 Oct 09
hello liujuanxh, may I know why you don't believe that there's true love? have you ever been hurt by your lover?
I believe there's true love, though I have been hurt by my ex-bf. It is just there are too many conflicts between love and reality. We do like to stay with each other, but since our temper is very very different, so sometimes we have fierce augue, we both feel sad for our breaking up, but when recall back, I still feel warm for his accompany.
If both people are serious in this relationship, both care for each other, without any other purpose, then that is true...
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
6 Oct 09
Hi,mybeatrice,thank you for your response again.
What you said is right,and i also want to find my ture love .for me,i once belive this,but after experiencing many things,i am disappointed with this world.
Most of friends in mylot give me the possitive reply,so i think all of us want to find their ture love.
I wish you can find your ture love and happiness forever.
@mybeatrice (203)
• China
4 Oct 09
yeah, but I would like to say, untrue love exists, doesn't mean that true love is not exist. Just like in the world, there are good guy, there are bad guy, there are pretty guy, there are ugly guy, there are clever guy, there are stupid, there are too many extremes, they both exists.
So, finding the Mr./Ms. Right is so important, if you find the wrong one, you will find that your love is so wrong, so untrue. If you find the right guy, then everything is changed. I am still looking for my Mr. right, and it is hard to find, I have found and be together with Mr. wrong, so next time, I will have to be very careful, but if you don't try, how do you know that they are not your Mr. riht?
So even if you have ever been hurt, please trust in love, never stop looking for your ture love.
@mybeatrice (203)
• China
6 Oct 09
hi liu, thank you for your good wishes, and I hope that the next time you will find the mr.right, what you have experienced belongs to the past, every experience will be different, just be positive, you will finally find your Mr. right!
@chinali (48)
• China
4 Oct 09
Of course,there is true love,although i have not find yet,but i believe in it.Perhaps,there is a long way to go to find your true love,so what you can do now ,it just enhance yourself and lead a happy life with the active attitude to life.When it's the right time for you ,you will find it.
Be happy everyday!
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
4 Oct 09
I think almost everyone desire ture love and want get their ture love.But i donot think the one who will marry you will be your ture love.For humanbeing,they want to find one person to live with him,but we can improve the emotion day by day,but do you think it is ture love?
I donot think so.
@chinali (48)
• China
4 Oct 09
I ever yet didn't believe in true love,because it seems that there is no true feeling nothing with the material and looks around me.But when you meet with a person,during your stay with him,you would like to do things selfishlessly,maybe you just like him,which is nothing with his perfect or money,but apprciation or some other true feeling from your inner heart.
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
6 Oct 09
But if without money ,do you think you will be happy?love and bread,which one will you choose.If without love ,you can still live ,but without bread ,do y think you can live happy?
@jacobsguardian (108)
• United States
6 Oct 09
I believe true love exists. My husband and I married after only two weeks, and we've been married 10 years now. But even true love requires work and sacrifice at times, especially when both people are changing and evolving over time and may not necessarily be the same person you first married.
@jacobsguardian (108)
• United States
6 Oct 09
But I think that descibes true love--it's loving someone even when they do change, because we ALL change in life in response to our experiences. And I don't think that perfect love can exist between a man and woman, because we are all imperfect people. The only perfect love that exists is God's love for us.
@yamskee (827)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
true love is loving without expecting anything in return. it is loving someone with all your heart as give love yourself. that with all the consequences, you stand by each other, supporting and loving each other. that's what we did. me and my partner are counting 5 years and 8 months and its getting stronger.
@ashish1487 (137)
• India
4 Oct 09
you don't believe in true love because you have not seen it yet but in my opinion i think that true love exist actually now days it is now for time period but true love exist just joking. actually saying there are very few cases which we cannot see that are true love and that's why we says that true love does not exist so in my accordance it is not totally finished but yes it is reduced.
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
4 Oct 09
Have you seen ture love in your life?
I never see it ,and i think i already old enough,if it realy exit i hope i can see.but till now i havenot seen it .
@praseeda2 (15)
• India
4 Oct 09
True love is the mutual understatnding between two minds this will happen only if there is true mind.
But i believe now there is no true love exist.. Now a days its like lovig someone and marrying other.. then where is true love for them.
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
5 Oct 09
hi,friend ,thank you for your response.
I have the same feeling like you,because people in this reality world are too much reslism.
If a goodlookin man donot have enough money ,few girl will marry him.But for a rich man with ugly face,maybe he have a lot of girls.Just like that ,i donot belive ture love ,even you marry ,the one maybe not your ture love .
@ppatole (34)
• India
5 Oct 09
Why not true love does exist in this world. And I do belive in this. Hadn't it been for true love, the world would have seen a doom's day almost ages ago. Actually, it is the true love that survives the test of time. Other is just infatuation and hardly exists.
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
5 Oct 09
hi,friend,i want to ask you a question.Do you find your ture love now.You say you belive this ,but i think you are just waiting for your ture ,but even youself cannot be sure wether your ture love will appearnce.
For me ,even i donot believe ture love ,i also wish it can appearance in my life.
@nagikka (407)
• Italy
4 Oct 09
I do believe in love but the one between me and my parents and family. I don't believe in true love when it comes to relationships. maybe because I've had nothing but negative experiences in the past from people that used me and that's about it. I just wish I could change my mind.
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
4 Oct 09
Thank you for your response.But you must misunderstand my meaning.The ture love mentioned by me is for lover but not for family or relatives.My question is that do you think you can find you ture lover one day,and love him forever whatever he is
@THEcreationist (837)
• India
4 Oct 09
Surely, it does.
Those who have not yet experienced true love would say it does not exist. But, please ask them who have experience it or who truly love somebody else.
As for feelings, true love does not generate any extraordinary feelings. Streams of strong feelings come from infatuation not true love.
Happy Mylotting!!
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
4 Oct 09
I think your views about ture love is right.But i really never see that in my life,do you find you ture love?
@gowriv89 (295)
• India
5 Oct 09
You can experience the true love only when you love someone truly... hope you guess what my answer for your question is gonna be???? love is always devine in nature and pure... the purest form of love is still existing in this world.... so dont suspect it anymore.... only if its true, then its love else it should be called lust....
happy mylotting
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
6 Oct 09
Hi ,friend , i understand what is your meaning.You want to tell me you believe ture love.
Yes,everyone want to have his ture love ,but the reality is not so perfect.In reality world ,there is a lot of things affect ture love,wealth,status,looks and many other things.
Even i donot belive this ,but i still wish to get it ,i think it is a dream.Whether will it come ture,i am not sure.
But i will wait.
@ladyella (145)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
it's a sad thing that you do not believe in a wonderful thing called love. but i believe that someday, you'll come across it when you decide to open yourself to this. you'll see, it is the most wonderful feeling in the world. yes, i really believe in it even before i found my boyfriend at present. because i believed in true love, we made our relationship work and we are together for 2 years and 5 months now and we are still counting. ^^ i pray that you find your love too. ^^
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
5 Oct 09
Hi ,friend ,thank you for your blessing.I think everyone want to find hid ture love ,even i donot belive it.But i pursue it.But i think in this world ,ture love maybe have,but few people can get it.Maybe they can find a person and get married,but is that means they find their ture love?
I donot think so.
The ture love that i mentioned is that that will never change whatever happed and even they are in danger,they care of the others than themselves.I means the perfect love just like those in the film.
@barbiejune (125)
• Philippines
3 Oct 09
Yes. True love exists. Me and my fiance have been together for almost two years now and our love just grows stronger each day!
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
4 Oct 09
Thank you for your answer.I am happy that there are so many people believe and own it.
Maybe i am a little pessimistic and extremist.Because i saw too many people donot find there ture love and have a unhappy family.
@xinman100 (43)
• China
4 Oct 09
I don't know if there is true love exist in the world.But I don't pursuit this question often.I think there is no answer to this.The true love which appearence in novel always move us .Maybe that's enough.If you have the other part of your life ,please just enjoy your happiness,don't think so much about what is true.Maybe your are experience the true.
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
4 Oct 09
Maybe i should consider thi question like you .Differen person have differen experience and though i donot belive that ture love exit in this world i couldnot lose heart to this world .Life will go on,even you donot happy in your life ,this world will not change for you.
Donot be too much pesisting in one problem ,maybe there are really no answer to this question.
Thank you for your reply.
@Craicha (801)
•
3 Oct 09
yes i do believe there is...coz i aready meet my true love...yah it takes time before we meet but its worth it coz this time we both feelin like in heaven with our love we shared everyday, were so happy inlove...thats what love can do to the person that is meant for eachother and happily in love...
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
4 Oct 09
I am glad that so many people give me the affirmative answer.Though i havenot meet my ture love ,i feel better than before.Maybe i should be more optimistic and not be so diasppointed with the life and this world.
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
3 Oct 09
Yes, of course.
I met my girlfriend about 5 years ago and we have a good time all the time and enjoy a better life with each others together.
Why do you have this question?
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
4 Oct 09
Because most of my friend donot belive that.And i see too much seperation of lovers.Just for one reason,they fall in love with others.Once they say will love me forever and never change,but it is not come ture.
For you,i am glad that you can find your ture love.I think you are a luck man.I hope you will be happiness forever.
Thank you for your sharing your experiece.
@liujuanxh (170)
• China
4 Oct 09
I am glad to hear that you find you ture love.I think if you think like that you can make him belive it also.Just try your best to let him fell that you are his ture love.
Best regards!