Do you "re gift presents" ?
By ilyzium
@ilyzium (1197)
Canada
October 4, 2009 2:26pm CST
Have you ever re gifted a gift? I think we've all received presents at one time or another that we didn't care for. Well, what do you do with those presents? Will you keep them or wrap them up and pass them off to someone else as a gift? I also try not to re gift something then pass it on to other people, but I admit to doing that now and then. Most people though that know me know that I am very picky about everything and therefore will usually give me gift certificates which is preferable though.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
5 Oct 09
I only did this once and didn't regret it. It was a fruit cake given to me around the holidays. This cake might have been gifted for years for all I know..lol We took it to a friend's house just as a friendly gesture. They like this kind of cake and did offer to serve it while we were there. We passed on that one. I can't stand the taste of fruit cake and there was no reason to keep it here and let it turn green all by itself.
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@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
5 Oct 09
Hi carolbee,
Haven't we all given away fruit cakes during the holidays? lol I've even given away those pannetone cakes that you find as well, as I just find them too dry tasting for my liking. Don't those cakes often taste like they're "on the line" sometimes? lol Just not quite fresh or what you'd expect.
@cutepink_13 (691)
•
5 Oct 09
before i was a person who doesn't really value a thing so whenever somebody will ask something from that is given by somebody i don't hesitate to give it not until my friend told me that i should not give things which given as gifts because the person who gave it will be hurt.
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@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
5 Oct 09
Hey cutepink,
Well, when you do decide to re gift a gift that was given to you, you have to be very discrete about it. That is, don't tell anyone that you think might "blow your cover". You don't need to tell everyone everything and if someone asks about a gift that was given to you, I'd probably just admit that you still have it and not reveal that you gave it away. I don't like to hurt other people either so that's how I go about re gifting a gift.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Oct 09
ilyzium hi yes after making sure I was not sending it
to the one who gave it to me, I stripped off any thing
that would make it appear a regift and then put it in a
pretty gift bag with colored tissue paper and put a name
tag on it and gave my expensive cologne that I did not like
the scent of to a new friend.
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@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
5 Oct 09
Hello friend, :)
And I'm sure that you're friend really appreciated the gift too. I know cologne can be kind of tricky to give as a gift because it's such a personal thing really, so you must have been really confident that your friend would like the gift? Well, I'm sure she did.
@zzyw87 (1254)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
I also get a lot of gifts that I don't usually like. I prefer getting gift certificates but people seldom give me these. If I don't like the gifts I received, then yes, I usually re-gift it and give it to other people. Sometimes, I just give them away even if there is no occasion. If I don't like it, I never keep it because I know I would never use it. So it would just go to waste. I also don't like selling stuff. So the most practical way is to just give it to someone else.
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
5 Oct 09
H zzyw,
I think the same way that you do. While I always appreciate the thought and effort that went into my gift, if it is something that doesn't appeal to me I will also give it to someone more appreciating of the gift. And yes I usually prefer gift certificates myself which is what my family members and close friends tend to give me. During the holidays we usually all make lists, and I tend to buy people gifts from these "lists".
@njack97 (13)
• United States
5 Oct 09
yes. i would just give it to somebody that has a birthday or something coming up. just don't tell the person who bought you it. or (depending on the type of person you are) just tell them you already have it or are not interested. but (for me at least) whoever buys me the present always says "if you don't like it i will give you the receipt." since at that point they basically just told you that you could do what you want with it without making them feel bad, then i would just give it to someone as a re gift.
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
5 Oct 09
Hi jack,
You know I find a lot of people that do give me gifts will also give me a receipt which is even better because they're not likely to find out if you return or exchange a gift, and see they're already giving you permission! :) I've done the same though, have told someone that I have something that they would absolutely love and I'm usually pretty accurate.
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
5 Oct 09
I don't pick, whatever I received is fine. Gifts are thoughts from someone (whether they did convey their thoughts in it or not, lets not go there) I will not give them to others. Whether I hate it or not, I will keep them (at least in the storeroom if I don't know what to do with them)
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
5 Oct 09
Hi prinzcy,
I was just thinking that if you do decide to accept every gift, what would you do if say one day you have a house full of gifts that you don't care for? See, that's what I always think at the back of my mind. But yes I like how you phrased that: "a gift is a thought from someone".
@seanbryan (349)
• United Arab Emirates
7 Oct 09
Hi ilyzium,
I always want to give things that I don't really need to friends or relatives may it be a gift from somebody or a thing I purcahsed myself. It's not that I am picky with gifts but I feel it's much worthy if I can see it being used by somebody who needs it most than keeping it with me and not be used. Good day!
@moneymakingtoday (4061)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
if i don't like the gifts given to me, i pass it on to my daughter/sons. sometimes, i give them to my cousins and very close friends. i don't need to wrap them up but i tell the recipient about the item and that it was a gift for me that i don't quite like. i feel they need to know the "story" behind the item.... who knows, the original giver might bump into my close friends and in a way discover that i gave it away. i wouldn't want the original giver know that, so i will let my daughter/sons, cousins cover me up on that. it would be very embarrassing if the original giver knows that i passed it to other people.
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
5 Oct 09
Hi moneymakingtoday,
That's a very nice tactful way of re gifting a gift, because you're being upfront and honest about the gift. True, there is a chance that someone could find out that you re gifted a gift if you don't say anything. Well, I'll admit that while I love my mother in law, she doesn't exactly have the best taste in clothes. Quite often she'll decide to give me one of her hand me downs that are 25 yrs old, so yes they are retro, but definitely not my style. I just haven't gotten around to telling her that I don't care for them, so I just accept them graciously because I don't want to offend her. Some of these items though are really "questionable" and I usually just donate it to a goodwill shop, because I can't think of anyone that would appreciate them?
@moneymakingtoday (4061)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
i am smiling here reading ur comments... because i can relate to that, lol. it happened to me, too... gifts from sisters-in-law that really aren't my taste. i just accepted them in order not to offend them. take care.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
5 Oct 09
Hi ilyzium. I have been guilty of regifting before. I only do it if the gift still looks brand new or was never used. I don't think anybody that I have regifted to ever knew the difference.
@Picquarian (724)
• United States
4 Oct 09
Guilty! I have done this many times before. It's tacky yes, but they are things that I don't need and I don't have a lot of money to spend on gifts, so....
@offlimits (596)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
I haven't tried "re gift-ing" gifts, and I don't want to try it either. I think it is a kind of appreciation for the thoughtfulness of the person to use what he/she gave to you, or if not, to keep it instead. Well, I don't want others to give my gifts to other people, so I wouldn't do that to them too. That's only in my opinion my friend. I respect the way you do things on your own. Take care! :)
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
5 Oct 09
hi offlimits,
I also respect the fact that you think that way, because yes the person who buys the gift was thinking about you that they went through the time and effort to pick something out. I have to ask you though, what will you do once you have a house full of gifts you don't like? ;)
@offlimits (596)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
I don't know, maybe I will still try to keep them. Or maybe use them in other ways. Haha! After all, that has never happened yet because I like the gifts other people give to me :)
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
5 Oct 09
Hi ilizium , I have never done it, but I had a very embarrasing experience once. One of mine and my sister's common friends gave me a gift that was given to her by my sister. The friend hadn't noticed that my sister had engraved the words " Gifted by ....to ....on the occasion of....dated ...' on the steel container that she had given...LOL ,When we later unpacked it and saw my sister was both angry at her friend and a little concerned that she hadnt probably given a proper gift that was useful...We ofcourse never told our friend about it, since we thought it better to just leave it...All the best and have a great evening
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
5 Oct 09
Hi kiran,
Oh no, that was definitely a blooper!!! Yes I can imagine that your sister would have been upset about it. I think most people would have probably confronted the other party about it. Ok that's pretty bad since in her case it was specifically engraved for the friend.
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
I don't "recycle" gifts simply because people who gave them to me thought of me, and keeping their presents is a sign of appreciation for their thoughtfulness. When my budget is really tight I just buy cheap presents instead of giving what others gave me. After all, it's the thought that counts, or at least I hope that's what the receiver of my present believes.
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
5 Oct 09
Hi elyzium,
No, I haven't re-packaged a gift I received and gave it to someone else. But I do give away gifts I received that I don't have any use for, and if I think someone (a friend or a family member) needs it more than I do. Not that I'm against it (the "re-gifting" act), it's just I think if don't need it, someone I know does, so it doesn't reach the point when I have to give it out as a gift.
@nijolechu (1842)
• Canada
5 Oct 09
Yes, I have been found guilty of doing that too. I guess the important thing is not to get caught by the original person that give you the gift. lol. That has never happened to me yet. I just tell my friends not to buy me a gift.
@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
I don't do that because it's for me that is given. If I give gifts then I buy something for that person not giving the gift given to me. I don't see any essence of doing it.
@shizuka15 (55)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
not at all. I really appreciate gifts from anyone especially from friends. I value their effort for giving me one even if it's useful or not. Only the thought counts. ^_^