A Three Way Triangle? You Be the Judge.
By Savvynlady
@Savvynlady (3684)
United States
October 5, 2009 9:44am CST
I tried to find a spot to put this and when I saw this category, I went with the above. OK, here goes. I go with someone in whom we have a mutual friend that brought us together. OK. Now, recently another friend had an event and asked mutual friend who lives out of town to come but she initially said no. OK. Then she called me further down the road and asked me to help her with something. I said ok. so I told my boyfriend. but unbeknown to me, he was the one footing the bill for this. So what she wanted to happen didn't because of it and she called me to tell me about it because she valued our relationship more than she did with him. To say this has puzzled and had me concerned is an understatement. I only work parttime but I pay my way and though I ask for his help, I try not to. What do you think?
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@moondancer (7431)
• United States
5 Oct 09
Wow, I think your friend should have told you that your boyfriend was footing the bill or actually he should have told you, instead of you gearing it from the friend. It's not good to keep these things from each other, when money is spent. I know he has his money and you have yours but all in all when doing something like this...the other person should be told. That's what I think anyway.
The other person, the friend should not have put you on the spot like that either.
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
15 Oct 09
I agree and from the time she told me until now, I haven't had nothing to say to her. I told my boyfriend about it too and he said he would help her since she claimed to have fibromyalgia or what ever it is called; but the thing to it all is that she had another guy coming and had me running interference and from the door, it was fishy. Thanks for your answer.
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
20 Nov 09
Since I started this discussion, I have cut off relations with both friend and boyfriend; but my kids and mom felt that I took it too far with the boyfriend because he was trying to help her, but I felt if things were as they say, then perhaps I don't need to be a part of this. SO, he asked after I cut off relations to meet up with me and talk. I said ok and we will see.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
5 Oct 09
i would love to answer this post girl, but i really am unclear about what it is you are asking?
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
5 Oct 09
Bottom line; I have a girlfriend who went through some things and moved out of town and basically shiesty; She hooked me up with a guy over a year ago. OK. another friend who is friends with us was having an event and invited us all to be there. Alright. Now my girlfriend wasn't coming originally but one day she called me up to tell me she was coming down and staying at a hotel with a guy and wanted me to be the go between for them. Now I went through some similar stuff with her before and stuff get funky and I smelled a rat but I agreed. OK. now, I went to my man to tell him I would be doing this. But girlfriend never called me. Then, early this morning,I get a call that the reason she didn't call me to stay with her was because the person who was financing her to stay there, my man, called it off after I told him about it but at the time I didn't know that he was paying. So now she confessed to the gig saying I told someone about it and I know it ain't no one but him and that he was going to pay it but when I would ask for stuff he would tell me he couldn't and he had other things so now I know. Now you got the deal.
