Does your girlfriend/boyfriend sleeps on you?
By shadow41
@shadow41 (2351)
Philippines
October 7, 2009 9:34am CST
It's happening to me almost everyday. We were texting at night and suddenly she disappears. There was this night when she said that she's going out of her house to buy something and then she never replied back to my messages. I was so worried that I rushed to her house to check her. It was raining hard and I'm having a fever that time but I still took the long drive to see if she's okay. Then I found out that she only fell asleep. I'm thankful that shes okay but I was really disappointed. We agreed that she'll never do that again but she still does. It's hurting me. Makes me feel that I'm not important to her.. Does your girlfriend/boyfriend do this to you?
3 responses
@Fracker (177)
• Pakistan
7 Oct 09
You are expecting too much from your GF. you should understand her, and should know that she can't continue.. and need rest.. many people don't have too much control on their sleep, and when they get lazy, and are on the bed, easily get caught by sleep. I don't think it her problem, but problem lies at your side.. (Sorry to be harsh.. but this is truth).
My wife never get sleep, infact i am the culprit in this section... she always waits for me, speak alot with me.. care for me... i also try my best, but some time when i am too much tired get sleep.. & she understand this.. and behave like a sensible women..
@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
oh yeah I got you but you don't understand. I completely understand my girlfriend. We were just texting for like 30 minutes and then she's gone out of the blue. And dude this happens almost everyday. Plus the night is so young. Can you get that? Lucky are you to have a wife that understands you as I do with my girlfriend. I'm pretty sure you'll lose your nerves when you're in my shoes.
@Fracker (177)
• Pakistan
7 Oct 09
naah i am pretty cold person, and don't loss my nerves so easily.. unless there is something really worrying.. but yes i am lucky to have a wife who understands me..
as you said it happens daily, so its means, she can't control her sleep.. and this thing you need to understand.. No body is perfect, not me, neither my wife.. she has some weakness i has some... and we need to accept eachother's qualities, as well as weaknesses.. we don't get perfect, as we aint perfect :)
@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
yes i understand what you mean. I also understand my girlfriend for maybe she's so tired. But to make me worry is so much. Well you said you're pretty cool headed person. What if your just texting with your wife and suddenly she disappears? Only you found out she's asleep. Or just like in my situation.. Feels like I'm having a nervous breakdown. Hehe. It's good when you can contact other people to ask them to go and check on your girlfriend or wife but me i got none. After all i was just concerned with my girl.
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
8 Oct 09
...nop, but if she does, i got no problem with that, i trust her and you should do the same..
@gagan_agarwal (1)
• India
16 Nov 09
ya same problem with my boyfreind....
he olwayz talks nd talks nd suddenly goes off to sleep...i keep taking his name nd den i realize tht he is sleepin.....does it mean tht he gets bored with me???
i do understand him nd i have given him many chances but he does it every night...it really gets annoying...i even told him that i will not call him at night from next time.....but he says sorry sorry.....what m i supposed to do....if u r readin this please reply me....please...really need ur suggestion...thnkz yaaa..!!
@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
Oh we're very the same. I also think my girlfriend is bored with me or not interested with me anymore and it's making me mad but more sad. She does sleeps with me too almost every night. In fact she fell asleep again now. 
I guess we should just understand them. There's nothing much we can do. Maybe that's just the way our partners are. Sleep heads. Haha.
shadow41
I guess we should just understand them. There's nothing much we can do. Maybe that's just the way our partners are. Sleep heads. Haha.
shadow41