Don't be a whiny kid and take it like a man (or a woman)! (for poker players)

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For all you hold'em poker players (especially online poker players), you may recall this situation. You are sitting at a table, playing poker, a tournament, ring game or whatever, and somehow you end up playing your pocket Sixes or Sevens like they are the best Aces in history. And of course someone ends up chasing you with some pocket Kings or even Aces. But after the flop you hit a set and you win. Now, a real player would just move on without a word, but most egocentric players who feel they played good, that they feel they are professional players and that they should have won (notice the word "feel"), might attack you with names like donk or fish or even worse, just for the simple reason that you didn't play by "the rules" (and by "the rules", I mean playing by the odds). But just a reminder people, poker, with all it's complexity, is still a gambling game, and as long as you do not know what the flop is going to be or you do not know your opponents cards, you'll be gambling with a pair of aces as much as you will gamble with 6 7 offsuit. Of course your chances increase with the power of your hand, but there is still a chance that I might win with a poor hand, and if I'm willing to take that chance, then I deserve the money I win as much as you do if you hit the best hand. It may be annoying to lose with a great hand and your ego might get bruised, but being neutral about it is the best way to go, as it will not affect your style, nor will you bring "the curse" of being hit on and chased till you are out of the game by the players you have offended. In some creepy way, we should all be like Negreanu used to say "Oh, if I lose a million, I go 'meh, it's just a million, I'll make another one'" [citation needed]* I do not recommend being all loose in your play and taking such a chance against a monster hand, but that doesn't mean that playing some hands is out of the question or that you do not deserve to play poker. As long as you don't cheat, a pot won is a pot won. After all, a tight player never reached the last table in the WSOP, am I right? *wikipedia style!!