Will You Patiently hear What Poeple Said???.............................

@weimin (33)
Malaysia
October 8, 2009 11:57am CST
Sometimes there is many poeple share about their problems...happiness or sadness... but try to imagine that someone is so many things to say...will You easy Get bored? For me...I think i will just seat there quitely and hear what others say... Will You??? ^^
5 responses
@proxima14 (196)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
I do though most of my friends tell me to put a limit because I become depressed whenever someone tells me something depressing although it doesn't really involve me. I practically absorb almost everything (negative or positive vibes). But I can't imagine not being able to listen to them especially when they expect you to.
@weimin (33)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 09
Ok ok...There sometimes poeple will expect you to listen to them until there is no ending for them...Is quite hard to do that...but if I try to understand their feelings then i will almost absord most of it in my mind...^^ So as you right?
9 Oct 09
I also often get involved emotionally too. I think this is why I could never be a doctor. The first time I witness someone dying I wouln't be able to handle how upset it would make me.
9 Oct 09
I'm a very good listener, at least I think I am and I've been told that I am. I can often listen for as long as neccessary and only comment when needed. I also try and give the best advice I can when someone is comming to me with a problem. We all help each other in many ways maybe often without realising it, people often go to counselors to help with their problems, and often people rely on their friends to take on this role. Usually people are happy to do this in return when needed.
• India
15 Oct 09
it is really good if you are a good listener. i am also a good listener, but for me it depends what kind of talking is going on ? i think this is foolish to listen a useless talking. i think only those peoples go to counselors who are not good listeners.
@mablew (4)
• China
9 Oct 09
of course,i enjoy this.i am a good listener,many of my friends always like to share their story with me,happily or sadly.because i am patient,and could give them suggestion which will help them away from the trouble,and also i get the sence of success from.i think every friend is the gift that god give you.
@ramo44 (76)
• India
8 Oct 09
That exactly what i am doing.. whether i am happy or sad.. I don't like to hurt others. The only way to do that is listening what they are saying and respond to them. That makes them happy and somewhat make us happy also... Try this guys you will also feel happy like me...
18 Nov 09
i never get bored when someone shares his/her problem with me..I just listen until he's/she's finish..If he/she needs advice, that's the time I'll talk..I think it's a way of respecting one person who needs you at most=)