Do you believe "Once a cheater, always a cheater"?

Not at all. Sometimes a cheater will have to learn the hard way in order for him to stop cheating. But as long as he will not be in trouble, he will continue cheating. I do have one buddy who cheats on his wife and had another woman. Not until her wife cheats also with another man, did that person knows how painful lesson it is for him. So far for now, he never again cheats on his wife even if sometimes temptation are just around the corner. He's a good boy now and often gives advices to those that are newly weds.

I partly agree on that. There are certain people who are fond of making lies but there are persons who just make mistakes and change too. So, I am in between agreeing and disagreeing on what you've said. Although I knew someone who is really a cheater. So, I guess, that line resembles his personality. It depends. But in most cases, I must admit you are right. Happy Mylotting!

I have an uncle who is a womanizer before but now he is a changed man. He doesn't cheat at her wife anymore and you can really see the big change. So i dont beleive that once a cheater, always a cheater. People do change, it is just a matter of giving them trust again.

hey,i am out of sympathy with this opinion,‘once a cheater,always a cheater’,sometimes people tell a lie just for a particular reason.maybe most of us have told our friends or families a white lie once.for instance,i often tell my mother my life goes well even though i have some difficulties.i told a lie just because i don't hope my families or friends always concern about me.

In some ways yes, because when you get caught and get away with it, you get bolder and bolder every time.

I dont really agree with that. I do believe that sometimes, people simply make mistakes but learn from it and never repeat it again. We can't always have full control of our emotions, so I would be able to understand why someone would cheat once. As long as it was only once, and they are truly remorseful, then I would have faith that they would never cheat again.

My mother always said that. In a relationship we always have to wonder would our partners stray? I guess it depends on the couple. If two people have enough in common and care enough about each other I don't think they would cheat. But frequently in long term relationships boredom sets in. That is one time people might cheat. If a person is not really committed to just one, they could cheat. If a person is not really mature enough to understand the ebbs and flows of a real relationship they will cheat. Sometimes they are just not ready to be exclusively with one person.

Yes i agree with that statement, if someone will cheat you once they are going to do it again.

I believe that a cheater will not be a cheater forever. Time will come that a person like them will realize that they get nothing from cheating. In cheating we don't cheat to other people we are just fooling our selves if we cheat. So I think there is always a room for a change just like a sinner. A sinner will not be a sinner forever if he want's to change he will not be a sinner anymore. So it depends to a person if he/she wants to change.

Hey! In some situations I do believe that "Once and cheater, always a cheater." For instances, if you are in a relationship and the guy cheats on you and you stay with him, what is going to stop him from doing it again? He got away with it once, why not try it again. I feel like if you truly respect the person you are in relationship with, you won't cheat on them. For me, if my lover cheated on me, it would be very hard for me to get over it and I know that I wouldn't be able to look at him the same way. However, I do know that people make mistakes and that people change. I just feel like more likely than not, if a guy cheats on you,he will probably do it again. It's hard to change a person over night. With time he might learn and change his ways, but I don't believe it will happen right away. Forgive and Forget.... BUT, Re-live and Regret....