Do you Lie to your LoveR?

There are two characteristics that one must possess before I begin to open up to them and care for them with all of my heart and the first one is being honest. Communication is one of the strongest bonds between two people. The instance someone lies to me I'll know. Lies are so as easy to spot as bombs are in a peace committee. I'll usually know enough about the person to spot the lie and either dismiss it or subtly get them to tell the truth. Now, to respond to your question: NO! Why would I lie. When I find out that someone has lied to me I feel terrible. It's as if they thought I was mentally impaired and easy to trick. Lies to keep a surprise from becoming foiled is a different story but there are only a few things that are worse than telling some whale of a lie: 1. lighting me on fire and not dousing the flames 2. running me over with your car and so on. Ok, seriously though, little white lies are ok. I'll find out but usually the lie(s) haven't done any damage. If they have then that's a different story. If I find out that I was really adopted after graduating college then I'd be pretty pissed. It all depends on the destruction, or lack there of, that the lie causes. Peace! :P

Why should we lie to our lover?She is the one who accepts us in total with all our qualities in the name of love.i don't find any good reason to tell a lie with my lover.But I have told a lot of lies to my wife.then they think that they have the responsibility to monitor us and lying to wife cannot be avoided.

Hi ranma! Sometimes i did lying but in a way that i don't want to hurt him..But it's really hard for me to lie infront of him because he can read my eyes if i'm telling the truth or not..So most of the time when i'm with him i always say what's really on my mind and don't want to lie because i don't want to be caught. (",) Hapy mylotting!

I do kinda lie to my bf just white lies because I don`T want him to get hurt especially in the way he dresses or some things like when I`m kinda busy with my parents and I have to lie to him that I`m on duty with work but I never lie to him about what I feel about him.

That is just terrible! Why would you lie to your partner?? I can tell you right now that whoever you are with deserves far better and someone who won't take their feelings for granted. As for me? I don't lie to my boyfriend and I don't plan to. I don't even think I tell white lies?.. And if I did, I am a terrible liar and he usually catches on. They are end up being things like me trying to hide how I feel. But I would never ever dream of lying to him. We've been through some bumps and stuff but even when in certain circumstances I criss crossed my feelings for someone else I ALWAYS was up front about it. I find people who purposely deceive their loved ones incredibly selfish. In fact, I just went through an issue with my boyfriend where I felt he wasn't being honest about this girl, and then stumbled upon things that really made me not beleive him. And while in the end when I admitted it to me and I found out he really had nothing to do with it, the fact he lied really put a dent in our relationship. He thought he was doing the right thing by avoiding drama and conflict only to create it much much bigger when it came out. So lying doesn't help anyone in the end. It may stall the inevitable but not for long. That is why I beleive completely in honesty.

At first I have to acknowledge that I ever did it to my lover, or many times actually. Sometimes, there is no other way of explaining the reason, so I have to fabulize a story to get by. they are pious frauds in most cases, what's more, you know that girl is always curious about anything she doesn't know, having a inquiring character in her blood, I'll be weary of her constant questions, so I have to lie again, it's not my fault, I thought, I just want to strike a equilibrium in my real life.