Turn the Light off!!!
By rosepedal64
@rosepedal64 (4188)
United States
October 14, 2009 1:23pm CST
Hi mylotters. I have this problem with my husband. It seems that if he sees a light switch that it is suspose to be on. No really!!..He can come in from work and 15 minutes after he is home I look around and all the lights are on. He goes to bathroom and leaves the light on. He goes into the bedroom and leaves the light on. I guess you get the point now. Does anyon else have these kind of problems? You live with someone that is always leaving the light on when they leave the room.
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@Simon1223 (903)
• China
15 Oct 09
Personally speaking, sometimes I don't turn the light off when I leave a room, especially in the evening. I don't think such conduct should easily attribute to a kind of problem. I was often told that turning on and off frequently would shorten the service life of the light, which means I need to buy new lights frequently. So in my view, if I'm sure that I may go back to the room some time later, I usually leave the light on. Of course, if I'm going to leave the house, I will certainly turn all the lights off.
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@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
15 Oct 09
I use the guideline that if I am going to be out of the room for an hour or more, then I will turn the light out. I buy the compact fluorescent lights too. They do last better if you do not turn them on and off a lot.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi Simon
I have heard that about switching on and off. But if you are not going to be back in that room for awhile like Garden said then I don't see a reason to leave that light on all the time. Thanks for sharing Simon and you have a great day. Don't forget to smile today. It is good for the soul.
@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
hello rosepedal64,
well, i guess your husband and me has one thing in common. that is also my wife kept on complaining to me. i turned on the light withou me turning it off. i do that everytime i go to one room and even outside. my wife was the one turning it off for me. or she will remind me to turn it off.
i don't know why i kept forgetting to turn the light off. but my family does. it's alreday in their system. though sometimes, i can but most of the time not.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi robert
Okay there it is..It is a man thing..LOL..I don't why he doesn't turn it off. I have asked my hubby why and he too cannot tell me why. He just says that it isn't his fault. I don't know who he thinks does it when it is only me and him that live in here..I guess maybe one day we will find out why you guys do this..Thanks for sharing and have a nice day..
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Thanks robert...Its another day. Did you tell the lights off today? Go back in there and tell off that light...LOL
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Oct 09
When my cousin was 17,she came and stayed with us for a while. Every time I turned around she had left a light on, a door open, the toilet lid up, etc. I guess she just grew up with different standards. Not to mention had no experience with actually PAYING THE BILLS!!! lol
Nowadays, it's more the children leaving a trail of things behind them, toys, jackets, shoes and socks, school things, etc. They're actually pretty good about turning off lights.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
14 Oct 09
Hi dawn
I know what you mean. When my grandkids come over they will turn the lights off before hubby does. We have been married for almost 7 years now and together 8 years. He know how I hate this but I just can't get it thru his head to turn the darn lights off when he lives the room..LOL
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
We are in training right now for the light switch ordeal. Maybe good things will come out of it.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
14 Oct 09
I am Mrs. Frugal when it comes to the use of electricity but it does pay of in a reduction of bills. I turn everything off and remove plugs from sockets etc.to conserve. My children learnt too from a young age to conserve. Out here we pay th most for electricity - more than the developed nations of the world. I actually start palpitating when the envelope comes containing the bill.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
14 Oct 09
I live on an Island in the Caribbean so I do not have to worry about heat but occasionally I would like to turn on an air conditioner! I was from the U.K. but have lived here for donkey years.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Oh cynthiann
I would love to live on an island. Is it as nice as they say it is?
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
14 Oct 09
Hi cynthiann
I know what you mean about the electric bill. I know that winter is coming on and up goes the cost of the electric. Right we are living in our camper and still the electric is high for this small place. Thanks for sharing and you have a great day.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
hello rose,
NOrmally i would stay up until three in the morning because of what i do here at mylot. that some times when ever evening strikes and the lights are off am just gonna turn it on because it doesn't feel right to me when ever it is off and am all alone awake while my mom is asleep. sometimes i can't help turning it on after watching on the hell raiser or other horror movies for the matter. am done who's doing it but i do turn it off when ever i feel i need retire and sleep
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi knight
Good to see you my friend.
I don't have a problem with some of the lights being on at night. It is just funny that when he goes into the bathroom he will of course turn the light on but it is when he comes out that the lights are still on...LOL..AT night we will have some of the lights on but if we are not in the kitchen then that light doesn't need to be on. He just thinks that when he sees a light switch that it needs to be in the on position..LOL..Thanks for sharing and you have a nice day..
@jenlex79 (256)
• United States
14 Oct 09
I'm glad to say that I don't have that problem in my house. Even my 4 year old daughter knows to turn off the lights when she leaves the room. I'm sorry that your husband leaves the lights on all the time. Does he like paying the electric bill?
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
14 Oct 09
Hi jenlex
That is what I asked him too. He comes back with "I sorry" in a kid voice..I have always heard that you can't teach old dog new tricks, well that is differently right when it comes to men..LOL. Thanks for your response and have a great day.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Me too..keep your fingers crossed that it will happen soon..LOL. Have a great day and keep smiling.
@jessogusto (32)
• India
15 Oct 09
Well its not a problem for someone you're living with but a problem for earth. Yeah, this is not one of the times I over-exaggerate stuff. I mean leaving lights and equipments on when you're not using them is a blow directly to nature. We're hurting nature that minute fraction of a bit when we're producing electricity. Oh yeah, it hurts your pocket and leads to overload and shut downs at the electricity plant.
Sit him down and let him know.
Take care.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi jessogusto
Ahhhh, thanks for that tip. Im sure he knows all of this but If I tell him this he might get the hint even bigger. It would shock him for me to talk that way. Im going to try that theory this evening when he gets in. Thanks for sharing and you have a nice day..Keep smiling.
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
i don't leave the light on. i only leave one light on and all other else i turn it off . most specially at night.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi summer
Good to hear from you. How are you doing today?
Im not a big light person either. When night starts to fall I will usually have the livingroom light on a small light on the stove on in the kitchen. Other than I don't have all the lights on. I can control the switches unlike my hubby...LOL..Thanks for sharing and have a great day.
@britt_200 (1226)
• United States
15 Oct 09
O YEAH my boyfriend does this all the time!! and then i go in behind him and shut off the lights and he doesnt even seem to notice...but its ok i dont make a big deal i just make sure i shut them off when they need to be...hes getting better at it tho
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi britt
Im glad to hear that he is getting better at it. I have been working on my hubby for 8 years now. Maybe it is his age that makes it harder for him to learn a new trick...LOL..Hey what can I say, I love the goofy guy. Thanks for sharing and have a nice day.
@happy6162 (3001)
• United States
15 Oct 09
No, I do not have that problem. My husband use to once in a while leave a light on but not no more. I would just ask him if there was a reason he did not shut the light off. If he said know than I would say okay I guess I can shut off this time. After doing that a few times he learn to shut the lights off when he leaves the room and is not going to need that light on anymore.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi happy
Okay what is the secret to teaching him to turn the lights off? I need to learn that trick..LOL..We are looking into a place to live and I told him he needed to start practing on the light switch..He justed laughed at me..Thanks for sharing and have a great day.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
15 Oct 09
[b]Hello my friend
Thank you so much for the comment, I am o.k just really busy so by the time I come home I am to tired to get into mylot, I did get some bad news today about a friend of mine, so right now I feel pretty bad, I will be o.k, smoochesss thanks for caring my friend, I shall return soon.
As for the lights I like to have the lights on after a certain time, my daughter loves the dark, and I hate it, so I turn the lights on just for the heck of it, so bring on the lights my friend lol
Have a good day/night and know that I shall return really soon.
Thanks so much my friend, smoochesss[/b]
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi kitty
Im glad to hear that you are somewhat okay. I hate to hear that you got some bad news. I you want to share that then you can PM me. I may not have the answers but Im a good listener. Feel free to talk with me any time.
Now girl, you need to leave those lights on the off position. Okay I will let you have a couple of them on. But hey if your not in that bedroom then why have the light on there...LOL..Thanks for sharing and you have a wonderful day my friend. I know what you need...Look below..
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
15 Oct 09
Well, it seldom happens in my family. Most of the time when it happens is just that they forgot to close them unintentionnaly. But my family will say it out to make sure we always remember to close our lights to save energy if we did not use them. Mostly, the lights which we always forgot to close is the bathroom.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi Mike
You are right. It usually is the bathroom. I wonder why that is. Even the kids have the tendency to forget to the bathroom light off. Maybe a person gets so caught in the bathroom duties that when they live the room their just excited about what just happen that the light is farthest thing from their mind..LOL Thanks for sharing and have a good day.
@neelimaravi (1793)
• India
15 Oct 09
yes, even my hubby and kids do this regularly, you know how irritating it will be. when i go outside, and back in each and everyroom will on the lights. just i scold them and switchoff that. see how much we reponding to everthing. when powerbill came then my hubby use to tell why so much amount came.ooopps. mostly this situation gets in every home. thankyou for your topic, have a nice day.
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
A nice day back to you. It has to be a man thing when it comes to those lights. Maybe one day I can get thru to him. I know that when I go out too, and come back in I can see all the lights turned on. Thanks for sharing and keep smiling.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
15 Oct 09
Hi rose: I have this problem so i understand your husband, maybe it's a men's problem. When i arrive home i don't like to see my house in darkness if you know what i mean, so first thing i always do it's to turn all lights on
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi star
Oh yes when I come in I do to turn the lights on. I actually will go thru the camper and turn all the lights on to look around. But I do turn them back off when I get done with that. At night I will leave a light on in the kitchen area. Now if that was my husband he would leave all the lights on all the time for no reason..Thanks for sharing and have a great day.
@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Yep, hubby, son, whoever. Of course people tell me I take after my dad too much. I turn everything off. I can walk around in the dark just fine.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi GardenGerty
How are you today? Great I hope.
Do you think that it is a man thing as well? I beginning to think that it is. Like I had said before, I think he has a magnet in him that draws him to a off position light switch..LOL..I told him that if we find us a place to rent that he will have to keep the lights off. So we have started practing on that now..LOL..Thanks for sharing and have a great day.
@AmbiePam (93937)
• United States
14 Oct 09
My mom drives my dad nuts doing that. She'll leave every light in the house on. He gets so exasperated. I find myself going into any room she's been in after she's left it, and turning out all the lights. My dad is the only working right now, so he is really trying to keep the bills low. My mom just never turns the lights off! Today my sister came to visit, and she and I were both at my parent's house. Everywhere she went in the house, SHE left the lights on. I knew she would get angry with me if I pointed it out, so I just "followed" her around after she would leave a room and turn off the lights for her.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
14 Oct 09
Hi AmbiePam
Are you doing good today?
That was sweet of you to follow her and turn out the lights. Yeah you are probably right she would have been a little upset with you because of dad telling her that all the time. I don't what it is that makes them do this but I know one thing. It is a job to train my hubby. He is still in training..LOL
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@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
15 Oct 09
My kids do this constantly. My hubby does it but with one light & that's the one that goes to the top of the back steps & down into the basement. If you are in the kitchen you can't really tell if the light is on when the kitchen light is on. So I"m always turning that darn thing off. I wouldn't mind so much if he would switch it to one of those CFL bulbs but hasn't & I'm not attempting a ladder in a spot that barely has enough room for a kitchen chair to be situated to change it in the first place.
So if you haven't already swich them over to the CFL's atleast that way they won't cost as much if they are running so much. Or nag them to turn them off or they have to sacrafice something else or make a rule of only so many items on at one time & everything else has to get turned off or unplugged.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi Snugglebunnies
Good to hear from you. I never thought about those kind of bulbs. You have a very good point. I will have to invest in those. We are looking for a place to rent and that is when I will get those CFL's bulbs. That will help a little bit. Im also teaching him the new trick of turning off the light when he leaves the bathroom..LOL..Thanks for sharing and you have a great day my friend.
@rainmark (4302)
•
14 Oct 09
Well in my situation, It's me who always leaving the lights on, i keep forgetting to switch them off. Sometimes when i go upstairs in the bedroom or bathroom. Switching ligths off is always in my mind but i do still forget. My hubby always shouting on me if it happens lolz. He keeps reminding me that our electric bill is gone up again coz i keep leaving lights on.
Happy myloting.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
14 Oct 09
Hi rainmark
Thanks for sharing that with me. Im sorry that you are the one to get shouted at. I don't really have to shout at my hubby. But he has learned the look and the toe tapping that goes with it...LOL...Have a great day and keep smiling.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Oh yeah, I know what you mean.Sometimes he has lights on and it's still day time.
Or I go in the bedroom and leave the light on for him so he can go get ready and he comes out but never turns the light off. At least I had mt power bill adjusted this year so I pay the same amount every month.
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@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi missybear
Good to hear from you. Are you doing okay my friend.?
Yep that sounds like mine too. I went into the kitchen just a little bit ago. He was coming in before I was leaving. When I walked out I hollowed back in and told him to turn the light off when he came out. Of course he said yes honey..Then while we was sitting there I looked and guess what the light was still on. LOL.
Thanks for sharing and you have a wonderful day my friend..
@wahmivy (776)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
Do I ever? Is it a husband thing? My mom used to complain about this with my dad (she still may, but since I live away now, she doesn't vent to me about this anymore). Now, my husband does the same thing. He's actually worse than our 3-yr-old daughter. She, at least, sometimes remembers to turn things off. :)
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
15 Oct 09
Hi wahmivy
Okay now I know that it is a man thing. I have had several responses telling about their hubby. I am in the training process of teaching him to turn the lights off. Wish me luck and I will let you know how that goes..LOL..Thanks for sharing and you have a great day.