In love again
By briyana
@briyana (15)
Philippines
October 18, 2009 8:53am CST
How will you tell your parents that you and your ex are back together.. They witnessed you crying these past few months. they don't want to see him anymore and they don't trust him anymore..
5 responses
@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jan 10
that is really a tough situation to handle.First,tell me what caused the separation earlier and how the reunion happened?Apart from that,parents will not readily accept some one who made their daughter cry and they will suspect that it would happen again.if you have valid reasons to join again,then wait for some more time to reveal it to your parents.Let him prove himself to you first.
@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
I don't really know the whole story, but I think it's you who knows if your boyfriend can still be trusted or not. Have the guts to tell your parents and defend him if you still believe and trust him, but if you have doubts about him, then just listen to your parents. Parents know what's good or bad for you because they love you unconditionally.
@kezabelle (2974)
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18 Oct 09
I would just tell them of course they will be concerned thats what parents are for im 25 and even now if me and my partner fight my mum and dad are upset by it its what they are there for and ive not lived at home for 7.5 years and been with my partner 8 years!
Id say you need to show them you are willing to work things out with him but also make sure he knows he has to prove to your parents he can be trusted again it just takes time really but if he wants to make things work in time your parents will come to respect your choice I think.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Oct 09
It's a tough one. My parents once saw me breaking up with a boyfriend after a lot of cheating and lying. When we got back together I couldn't tell them. I didn't want them to worry about me. I made a deal with myself - if it would last for more than 2 months, I'd tell them. By then I'd be sure he changed and I could explain it to them without them panicking. We broke up again after 3 weeks and I never had to tell tehm. He hadn't changed after all.