Are you simple minded? Does it take you long to trust someone u don't know ?

Hi ami Yes you are right, sometimes i become so sensitive towards small things, i don't like that... that is why i don't open upto strangers, i mean i don't like to share information coz i know i should not, i guess i should be more careful with people, well even i don't open up to people soon, i am a little shy but yeah with time i get close and that is the time when i get to realize the truth, anyways lately i have been careful and i would rather share information only when the other person is willing to start and so i won't be the first one to say about me, i would know more about the person and then i would say things about me... though some people might be uncomfortable being the first one to say just like me but later on things become understandable and then things go well... thank you for sharing ami, have a nice day!

Hi Kitty! Nice to see you again how are you doing? wow what a wonderful response my friend, thank you so much for your kind words, yeah i am young and i really need to learn a lot here, it is true we can't keep trusting everyone, i am sorry you had to learn things the hard way, but i guess you must be doing good now, i wish you the best my friend, i will always see you here:) . . . feelings, emotions and trust are not something to play with and some people don't care enough i guess, i will take care and keep my head alert at all times . . . like some say open up your head before opening up your heart, it seems true, this is how the world is, in fact there is one you can always always trust, it is Him . . . don't worry my friend i will always take care and better analyze things before execution hehe... but the good thing is that people who know us and who care find it easy to trust us and that is how i guess i have a nice image at the place i live in, okay i might be a little shy but well i should not be saying anymore coz i am feeling like i am boasting already lol, anyways we both seem to be so similar, thank you kitty for your kind words, have a nice day!:)

[b]Hello my wonderful friend You are such a great caring individual, your family and friends are lucky to have you keep up the good work my friend, brag all you like you are entitled I love to read what you say, I know you are going to be a remarkable husband someday, just take your time my friend and do what you have to do, never doubt yourself life has many lessons, also watch others you can learn a thing or two from them as well, I avoided so much in my life by learning from other peoples mistakes. Smoochessss my friend. I will be on and off, but never gone for too long.[/b]

hi kitty and voldrox^^;; how have been the two of you doing? hhmmm...i find myself the same with you voldrox. but kitty, is having a trusting nature different from being gullible? I also easily trust people whom i don't know even if we talk about money so i think the latter one in a way suits my description which disturbs me and i feel stupid

Hi raphael keep it up friend, i am sure there are many people out there who would adore you for the person you are, well i can't make friends easily, i look mean and all, ok yeah i am little more serious and it takes me time to open up to people i haven't met before but yeah i believe i am a good person as well, they get to know only after having lots and lots of conversations with me, the only thing is that when i start getting closer to them.. i begin to trust them, i trust people i am open with, sometimes it is these people who kick the sand in my eyes, and so i am more careful and thoughtful these days, it is the way we have to be living in this world, trust should not come easy and probably not trust everybody we know well... all the best my friend. thank you for sharing your views here Raphael, have a nice day!

Hi Andrew I am sorry for being a little late here, it's nice to meet someone like me here, i was more shy kind earlier but lately i have also become a 'hard hearted' person, i understand how it feels, but sometimes it just gets a wrong impression on people who don't know us, i guess they don't know we are like this only from the outside and not inside, it is our nature to become like that especially when we meet someone we haven't met before earlier, some people think i am mean just because i look serious most of the time but i guess frequent conversations will let them realize they have had a wrong impression, we are after nice people, just need time to get friendly with people, we are not as hard as we look... thank you so much for responding to my discussion Andrew, it is such a joy to know there are people who understand, have a nice day!

Hi sonuherenz! Well i am definitely a good listener, i know it , i can't ignore absolutely anyone, i care enough to listen to everything close ones hav to say but you are right, only listener and not speaker, i fear i say a lot of things when i do that, though i don't get close to people soon but you know, it might take some time for me to open up to people but when i do, i guess i do too much coz i think i already begin to trust them already, i should be careful, very careful. Thanks you so much for responding sonuherenz, have a nice day!

Hi sonuherenz Yes i know it is hard at times, but i guess we need to be hard with people whom we can't trust... thank you again you too take care

Hi Voldrox.. Yes, I have face the same problem...It takes time to over come this problems...and i know, you will surely come up with... Take Care

Hi Koalapenguin! Hey i am seeing you after so many days, where were you ? Anyways i am glad to see you, hope you keep coming here when ever you get free time, i always try to come here when i am free, lol i say that like that i like i am busy person but somehow stay here longer than i should be coz i have to concentrate on others things as well hehe... anyways drop in like this at times thanks for sharing and have a nice day koalapenguin!

Well i was busy with some short trainings that i wished to be my work. But unfortunately, i failed it. So here i am again. No problem. Take care,

Oh i am sorry koalapenguin... i wish you best for your future and i am sure you will do great i know!... do come here though when you have free time, i would suggest you concentrate more for your future... all the best dear!

Hi zhangfzoe Well i don't get along with strangers well, i don't talk much with them either, i just like to keep things to myself coz i can't ignore people easily and so i too like to know the person well enough. thanks for you letting us know your point of view zhangfzoe, have a nice day!

Hi scarletwitch Nicely said... yeah sometimes it is hard but i know i need to take more precautions, chance should be given to each but we should also take care to realize any signs of flaw or faking, there are some people real selfish people out there and we can't let them take advantage of our goodness, keeping that in mind we should be careful enough Thank you Scarletwitch for your nice response, have a nice day!

Hi starluna I am sorry for being a little late for replying to you, thank you so much , yes i have to be careful with people i don't know well, when it comes to trusting someone, it isn't a small thing, if the other person is selfish kind then it could pose a lot of problem to me and people like me, but you know i do take some time to open up to strangers, i take time to make good friends, i guess it is just because i trust someone easily and so i take some time to get to know the person, i have some really good close friends who understand me well and i know i can trust them when i need some help, i have some other people as well i know, they are mostly around only when they need some work done, and when they know i could do it for them, they wander close and act more friendly, this isn't good i know but at least i have come to know something like this happens as well, there are a lot more things i guess i need to learn out of life, and hopefully i will be same... thank you so much for your appreciation staluna, i hope you have a great time here at mylot! have a nice day!

Hi lindiebiz Yes you are absolutely right, i am sorry you had to learn it the hard way i guess, i need to be careful, i should not trust someone just like, after all not each and everyone is like me, i mean always speaking what you really think, there are many backstabbers out there and they are always looking to take advantage out of people like us, and we should identify such people, eh this is what the world has always been like... anyways thank you for responding lindiebiz, have a nice day!

Hi irene I understand it is hard to trust strangers, i tend to be that way too... i can't share any personal details with people i don't know well, especially in a train even if someone tries to be nice i don't want to share personal information and all... thanks for sharing irene, have a nice day!

Hi shadow I am sorry to hear that my friend, learning things the hard way isn't good, i hope this doesn't happen with anyone... thank you for sharing shadow, have a nice day!

Hi sakuraR well small lessons i have also learned but i don't want to take a bigger hit! well, but my friend you won't have to take the big hit, we just need to be a little careful that's all, care not much and also think not much after realizing the person isn't worth our trust. thank you for joining in my discussion sakuraR, have a nice day!

Hi rheine yes i guess that is true, i trust people easily and i guess some people also find it easier for them to trust me... thanks for your response rheine, have a nice day!

Hi syankee well that is nice to know you are good at reading people, hmm i guess i am getting better at it, i mean i am not good at talking to strangers, and i don't talk much to people i don't know well giving no space for me to trust them easily... thanks for your response syankee, have a nice day!

Hi neelianoscet Well i guess it is easy for me to trust anyone and so i am not at all good with strangers and people i don't know well, it takes me time to actually talk open with people coz i feel the need to be like that, i guess i test them if they are worth having my trust coz later i can't ignore them easily, it is so weird the way i am sometimes.... i know i have to be stronger, don't have to care for people who don't care for me! thanks for putting you viewpoint here neelianoscet, have a nice day!

Hi joygracia well we can't think ill about anyone we meet for the first time, but sometimes it is necessary for us to see how the person is, especially because it is not easy for us to ignore people... thanks for your views joygracia, have a nice day!

Hi EnglishTeaDuck yes we need to be more careful when it comes to trusting people especially people trying to make out some sort of deal, or even some salesperson, they get to get a hint of you when they have a little talk with you and they start to bug you a lot, when they cross limits i get frustrated and simply tell them i m not interested... i guess i am changing, i becoming more 'hard hearted' i guess we need to be that way at times... not much speaking to strangers and all.... glad to have your response EnglishTeaDuck, have a nice day!

Hi prakrithi I understand, i trust others very easily so i am not good with people i don't know well, i don't talk to strangers much especially when i am traveling in the train, i am never the one to start the conversation, it is best to keep it to yourself and have a good time enjoying listening to music and all and not bother others much... thanks for sharing prakrithi, have a nice day!

Hi Solared, i understand ... yeah if you see that way then you are right but yeah i guess sometimes getting conned really makes a discussion interesting all the more ... thanks for being honest solared, have a nice day!