Where oh where did Yaya go?

@dawnald (85146)
Shingle Springs, California
October 21, 2009 12:58pm CST
Little girl With blond curls And chubby cheeks. Everyone listens When she speaks. Tall young woman So mature, Self assured yet insecure. Funny, smart, Won't let me sing. Thinks she knows most everything. Where is the child I used to know? Where oh where did Yaya go? I was looking at Dearra in the car today, almost 13, looks so grown up and remembering the toddler. They grow up too fast...
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Oct 09
For sure.....just wait until one of your's has their 40th birthday coming up! I can't believe how fast my little granddaughter has grown up either.....I remember the first time I held her in the hospital....now she is in preschool and hockey....way too fast!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Oct 09
bite your tongue at them turning 40 - I'll be in my late 70's when the first one turns 40... Then again, I plan to live to at least 94!
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Oct 09
So you are a member of the Blue Zone!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Oct 09
blue zone?
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
21 Oct 09
I know exactly what u mean. I CAN'T BELIEVE MY CHILDREN ARE THE AGE THEY ARE. T hey grow up way too quick. Enjoy every minute w/them.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Oct 09
I tell her "stop growing" and she just laughs at me. :-)
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@GardenGerty (160909)
• United States
25 Oct 09
Putting a brick on her head will not help either. I tried, he still grew up to about 6 ft. 7
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
28 Oct 09
doesn't work with Dearra either
• United States
21 Oct 09
Yes...way...way...way...too fast My Maribel will be...gulp...17...in 3 months. I miss her as a toddler too...she was soooo much fun then.....
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Oct 09
Yikes, 17, almost grown!
@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
21 Oct 09
Mine is almost 12 and I know just what you mean! We are riding the emotional puberty rollercoaster at the minute. One second she wants to be a little girl with her mom and the next she wants to push me away. Time is flying by!!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Oct 09
Yeah and SENSITIVE.....
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
21 Oct 09
Amen to that! Sometimes I'm not really sure what will be the right or wrong thing to say or do.......
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@jellymonty (2352)
21 Oct 09
Now why would you make me cry like that writing such a lovely poem? No Brownies for you.. I haven't cried my eyes out in years My little nieces are only 7 but it was just yesterday that they were newborns.. next thing you know they'll be bringing some tattooed body, tall freak who smokes like a chimney and claiming they are "in love"... really dreading the teenage years for them...
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Oct 09
Yeah I'm dreading the teenage years too! And they are almost upon me!
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@Zenstrive (237)
• Indonesia
21 Oct 09
Feels like there is a warning and reminder for me somewhere here....a warning that kids are gifts that are fragile and a reminder that time does fly. This is a poem that also reminds us that although we are not metamorphic creature, we do have radical changes going on after graduating from elementary school.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Oct 09
This is probably where your mama butts in and asks you when you are going to find yourself a nice girl! :-)
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Oct 09
Yes they do Dawn mine are now 25 and 22 and I still wonder where the time has gone I still remember them toddling about climbing on my lap or kissing their bumps and grazes better oh it was so much easier then, now it does not work anymore kissing their hurt away but the Hug still works even though it will not take away but it will ease it
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
Yes it many ways it was so much easier!
@GardenGerty (160909)
• United States
25 Oct 09
I love this post, but how does Dearra feel about it? Is she shy about the times that you talk about her online. I think you have real talent, Dawn.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
25 Oct 09
She often asks, after something funny happens, if I am going to (or did) blog about it. I asked her once if she minded and she said no...
• Australia
21 Oct 09
I have just spent a few days with two of our granddaughters. The younger one is 5 and sooooooooooo delightful. The 9 year old is too, but I can't believe how "old" she is. She is more like a 12-13 year old in so many ways, but not (thankfully) in others. Dawn I know you thoroughly enjoy your children so you are going to have great memories - and more importantly, so will they. When your children range from 33 - 48 as mine do, the memories are still there and are precious. They grow quickly, but we would complain if they didn't.
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• Australia
22 Oct 09
Dawn, did you have to remind me that I'll be 80 in just 7 years???!!!!! I've had trouble approaching every new decade but loved it when I reached it - but EIGHTY? - NO WAY!!! I never want to be eighty! That is old! I have just decided I am not having any more birthdays.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Oct 09
Yikes when my children get to be 48, I'll be pushing 80 (with Dearra)...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Oct 09
Whoops, Dawn doesn't do math. 76 with Dearra, 80 with the twins...
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
22 Oct 09
I'm addicted to your discussions....lol. So it's Yaya this time. Actually, when I watch my nieces and nephews, month after month and year after year, I see changes too. Progressive ones..suddenly, they have grown an inch here, an inch there. Oh babies, don't grow up so fast. Nice poem you've got there..
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
27 Oct 09
LoL.. and they say that Math can help one to solve life's problems......not!!! to me, that's not entirely true..
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
Yaya was doing her homework the other day and there's stuff I actually can't help her with, ie algebra and Spanish. Heck I'm having trouble with the word problems in the 3rd and 4th grade math. Soon the kids will be teaching ME!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Oct 09
I even have trouble with elementary school math the way they do it now.
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
22 Oct 09
My sister used to call me Yaya when she was a toddler... They do grow up fast, I know, I can’t believe my daughter was once a little tiny baby who used to lie on my lower arm and puke down my back when I burped her! My girl does ballroom dancing and I watching her waltz the other with her high heeled ballroom shoes, she looked so grown up, I could not believe it! I have told to stop growing and threatened not to feed her anymore! By the way mine won’t let me sing either!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Oct 09
no and they laugh too!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
They never listen when you tell them to stop growing!
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
23 Oct 09
No, they don't do they?
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@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 09
Have you considered changing your career to be a poet? Children grow too fast that it seems only yesterday and all of a sudden they are adults. Well this is life. Others see us grow up. Now we see others grow up.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
A poet, no. A write, maybe. :-)
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
oops "writer" lol
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• Malaysia
24 Oct 09
You discuss by putting into words so well. You can sharpen your skills by enrolling into a story and poems writing course. May you have a gift in writing. Cheers.
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• United States
22 Oct 09
In a blink, in the twinkling of an eye, the time passes us and we are left with the memories of them being babies, which they shall always be to us. Thanks for this little poem!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
:-) Ah well they like to hear the stories, anyway. And I have pictures...
• Boston, Massachusetts
22 Oct 09
Me and my husband are really amazed about how our kids are growing up that fast and this also means that we're not getting any younger. Since we are both working we hired a caregiver to look after our kids, take them to school and picked them up. We are so lucky to have a trustworthy caregiver. She is so responsible and caring. She also helps me with household chores. In a span of one year, our yaya witnessed how fast our kids grow...physically plus how they are responding to the school's intervention program. Thanks to our yaya... she's simply the best!
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
Good that you've found somebody like that!
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
Yikes, I'd rather deal with the female teenage stuff!
• Boston, Massachusetts
22 Oct 09
Yes, she's a blessing to us and she's so dependable!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Oct 09
wow dawnald thats a great poem. they do grow up so quick. My son is coming to see me this afternoon and I still remember him at age one when he was running after a leaf, and picked it up and looked it over so intently. now he is fifty and still looks over everything intently. a computer programmer but alas he is out of work. so sad. but one day soon perhaps.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Oct 09
Maybe he should pretend he's from India, everything IT seems to be outsourced there. But seriously, I hope he finds something soon. I hate this rotten economy!
22 Oct 09
Hi dawnald, Yes children grow up so fast and I always refer to my niece and nephew as my babies, they are both in their thirties, they are twins, sometime they make me feel so old. Tamara
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
Babies in their 30's, yikes. My oldest niece is 21 and just had a baby this year, so I know how you feel...
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
22 Oct 09
Oh yes how right you are. I have 2 kids, both boys, 10 an 6. The older one only needs a few inches to be as tall as myself. My younger son used to stand under the dining table and he can stand straight under it just right, now at 6 the table is up to his waist already. My husband jokes sometimes that in a few years time they will both be bringing their girlfriends at home to introduce to me. Oh no, please, I'm not ready yet.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
I'm not ready either!
@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
22 Oct 09
My eldest grandchild will be 17 in March. I am at a loss for words. Enjoy them while you can.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
Well that's your fault for starting to have kids when you were 3 years old.
• China
22 Oct 09
When I was little, I thought time went by so slowly. Now I found that time flies soquickly. Especially when I look at my girl. She seemed to be a baby yesterday,
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
Yes and it goes faster the older you get. Although when it's Monday, Saturday sure does look far off!
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
How i wish my kids will be forever kids. ;p
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Oct 09
My kids are allowed to grow up as long as I don't grow old.