Hard Times

I've had to move back in with my parents a number of times till I finally got my feet planted good on solid ground. It's hard out there especially when alone to do it all. I applaud you for helping him out instead of leaving him out there to fend for himself. Some parents would do just that and it's not right. We need each other to count on to help each other when we fall. I'm glad you didn't!

My son moved in with us last December, and I've loved having him here. For a number of years he was in school in PA for collision repair, then worked in Baltimore, which was good for him because it was easy to see his friends in MA. With the bad economy, he lost his Baltimore job last October, and spent some time in MA looking, but there wasn't anything that paid very well. He decided to try his luck here in Oklahoma. After he had settled in, he was offered an excellent job within a week. He loves his job now, has made a new circle of friends and it's worked out well for everybody. I'm not sure what your son does, but while he's there it would be a great time to think about what he wants to do with the rest of his life, and maybe make some changes...especially if he's in a low-paying job. My son makes more in collision repair than most college graduates and it's only a 1 year tech school course.

so sorry to hear about what is happening to your son... hopefully he will be able to get up on his feet again soon... the picture is so cute... love the kitty... just tell him to hang on there and be strong... good luck... take care and have a nice day...

Not for a few years.....but they all moved back at least once....to either catch up on bills....my one daughter moved back to wait to be transferred with her husband to Hawaii....and my son after he broke up with a girlfriend.....

That must be very hard for him to do after being independent all these years. But he has a LOT of company! Actually, this could be good for all of you. You and the wife could get away by yourselves more as your son looks after Grandpa for a couple hours. You'll all save on bills if your son can contribute something. Your dad will have someone else to interact with--he might be tired of you! He's not setting up in the basement, is he? I'd hate for your wife to lose her workout space. I may be seeing my nephew and his wife and child soon if he can't get a job. He's been out of work for almost a year and there's nothing in sight. It would be a joy to have them here but his pride would really take a beating.

No, but give it 10 years! :-)

I am in my 20's, and I live with my mother because I cannot afford to live on my own. Many people in my generation cannot afford homes because they are too expensive and they just don't have the money to pay for it. The same goes with apartments. California is so expensive when it comes to homes and apartments.

I just wish mine were old enough to kick out lol.

Are you ready for him? : )

no kids, so no moving back, but my brother did it to my folks a few times, don't feel bad, my brother moved back in with my mom in his 50's - but he did have a place in Colorado, he was just starting over in Austin that's all.

Well, my are not old enough to move out yet. I know your son is grateful to have parents like you who would welcome him back into your home. I know my parents would gladly welcome me and my children into their home if I needed them to. I'm happy I have such caring and loving parents just like you! I hope things go well and your son gets back on his feet quickly!

At least he has some where to move back to. No, my son has not had to move back in with us since he has left home.

It is very hard for him.

I am and adult children, and Thanks God I can afford to buy (through credit) my own home. Small, but it is mine. Wish all the best for your child. Tell him to get a good girl, that will motivate him more like mine does :)

Yes, my son is with us now. It is sad the reasons why, but it is satisfying that I can give him a place to come. I hope things turn around for your son.

Well, your sons cat is a cutie! Good that your son has a family to go to when he is in need. It is financially unafordable for young people to live away from their parents nowadays, unless they are in a good sharing arrangement. My daughter is 16 and still lives at home. She will be at home for many years I guess, as after she finishes year 12, she will do 4 years of university.

That's rough. Try to enjoy your three generations household. Hope this doesn't mean your wife will have to give up her exercise room, even before it's built.

Hello my friend Grandpa Bob. I bought my own house when I was nineteen years old because properties were cheap then. I let it out a couple of times whilst I traveled. I went around the world at age 20 and to New Zealand at age 29 years old. I am sorry to hear that your son is having a hard time so he has had to move back home. His cat looks adorable. Good luck to your son and maybe he and his friends will have house share again in the future. I have a disabled son and so I wonder how independent he will be when he is grown up. I hope to be there to support him.

I sure hope they didn't just up and leave him with no notice, that would be horrible. Glad though that he has you and your wife who will help him out for now.

HI GrandpaBob: Sorry to hear that about your son, but its nice that you and your wife are willing to take him in again for awhile and his pretty cat.. Seems like so many people are struggling out there these days; I hope things work out for him soon; take care now!! And if you get any of that nasty white stuff again soon, keep it up there ok? LOL! Don't send it down to us here in Missouri, I'm not ready for any of it!