are you a trusworthy person? i think, i am.

That question is best answered by the people around us, we may claim that we are the most trustworthy person in the world but other people will say otherwise based on their perception. Cheers!

Being trustworthy is something earned but a few could have. Some were said to be trustworthy but eventually showed their real colors. I am a trustworthy person but I am cautious as well. I always avoid money matters, most especially if the money isn't mine, because there are too many people who's credibility were destroyed due to some issue or temptations with money. There was once incident in our company when we all trusted a particular secretary to do the depositing of funds since we operated in a centralized type of system where the money should be coursed through in the bank for our main office to collect it. We trusted her with more than hundred thousand pesos per transaction thinking that it was safe because she need to present the deposit slip anyhow. Temptation is truly close with money, and eventually the firm's audit caught her tampering with the deposit slips by padding (where you put multiple copies of the slip and present them many times). She immediately was kicked out and was filed charges with. I truly caution you, dear friend, it may feel good that people trust you now, but being selfish and envious humans we are, there will come a point when they'd question your trustworthiness. So take heed then by being transparent in any way in your transactions and make sure the people (most of your heads) should sign and double sign each transaction for your safety. I did handle such a type of position, however, I really didn't like the feeling of it, most especially when you're chosen to do so for free. It's a whole lot of responsibility and I'd rather not pressure myself for such.

This is a good discussion and I am sure that different people have different opinions when it comes to trust,and whether they think themselves or someone else is trustworthy or not,and when it comes to me I think I am a very trustworthy person because I will be honest and upfront,and I will not beat around the bush,and I will not keep things from my friends or my wife,and I know my wife trusts me,and I think our friends trust me,and I trust my wife,and our friends,because they have never given me any reason not to trust them,have a great day,good luck with your life,and all of your mylotting goals,and Happy Posting.

To be trustworhty is a value in you a person. It does not come only in your professional life, but it should be in the total you, and reflects in all areas of your life: financial, personal, working relationships, personal relationships. Trust is not given, it is earned. You earn it by being transparent, being honest, not hiding things, not keeping a secret, [/i][i] One cannot force the other person (or an organization) to trust you. You have to show that you can be trusted, by being true and open and again, transparent. You are very lucky person to be trusted in that area and be given that position, among the many members. Money is just a critical issue especially at this time where crisis is felt everywhere, and so you are honored to be chosen! You must be a great person. =0 Keep it up, Ethan!! You are doing a great job! =)

well truly speaking i dont know .. i am partly YES nd partly no ... its upto others to judge me whether which side of the boundary do i belong ...

Hi ethan, Once I had to be "President" of the entire block of Flats that I then lived in and I had to be in charge of all the money for paying the Bank, the Electric Bill and for the Elevator. I also had to go and try and collect money from debtors which I detested doing as they did not pay you anyway. But yes I did handle a lot of money and at the end of the year I had to do a Balance of all the money which was a real pain. I consider myself much more honest than some of them but that´s beside the point. More than one time there was not enough money to pay for the Electricity of the Main Doorway and without electricity there was no Lift so I knew what that would mean so I went and paid it out of my own money as I was heavily pregnant and the stress would have been too much. When there was no lift and lights working they would ring on your doorbell at three o ´clock in the morning and ask you what had you done about the lift in question. I think I was honest and had too much patience also.

i think i am as well... my friends can trust me with their secrets and money as well... i had been appointed to be a treasurer in my church for the sunday school ministry many times... and i do it whole-heartedly and truthfully as i do it for the glory of God... so i think yes... i am a trustworthy person... take care and have a nice day...

Congratulations, very good start that you are trusted by your cooperative chairman, now I believe you will have a very good future to grow up in your working position, so please go go go... Actually I also believe I am the guy that you are worth to trust, because of that I have many good friends and also I can get some important projects from my boss. maybe they trust me and think I can finish the projects according to the requirment from our customer...it is a very happy things for me....so thanks for your posting...

You just make up your mind never to steal. Once people know that you don't do that then you automatically become trustworthy. Its nice and people do trust you. If ever you do steal, though, and people get to find out, that reputation is gone forever.

I am trustworthy, without a doubt. I love to think that people can rely on you if they ever want anything, without thinking that you might do something wrong. I always keep promises and secrets, and would never gossip or spread gossip about anything that wasn't my business. I like to think that my friends and family know that, and trust me with their secrets because of that. I have a lot of friends, and I think it might be because I am like that. And they know that they can rely on me, whenever. It's nice to be like that though :) Who would want to be a person who nobody liked?

hello ethanonthemoon! what a privilege! =) to be given such a responsibility, and chosen among the many members, you must have those qualities mentioned by Ysabel! But, aren't you scared? I mean, not of the responsibility, but of course, money is such a very sensitive issue... you know, people could just really be doubtful and distrusting when it comes to money. you will never know what every member thinks, right? i think i am trustworthy too. but not that i have been given a position like yours, but i just know i can handle responsibilites, and i give my best to everything that i do. good luck and more power!

Yes. I think I am a trustworthy person too. I hate to get into the bad books of somebody, especially my close ones and associates. I dont normally hurt or allow others to develop ill feelings about me. Above all, I feel that truth prevails and emerge victorious and hence would not do anything that would make me untrustworthy.

Yes I think I am. I can be trusted of a secret, money, or anything. My friends are lucky to have me as their friend cause they know I can be trusted. It's good to be trustworthy right? Have a nice Thursday and happy myLotting to you. :) shadow41

Congratulations! Trustworthiness is wealth, isn't it? since it's a great virtue. So glad you are fully trusted by your cooperative. I always do my utmost to finish everything, for my friend, they will always have my word. I think credibility is important to interpersonal activity. I am proud that if some guy say I am believable^-^

For that reason trustworthy person is good the one is happy of what your doing is GOD. And when the time will come you continue doing that you inherit paradise. I have experience before I'm the one who deposit the money in the bank I used it for almost three years and my boss feel secure in me when I'm doing my job.

Yeah I think am. I know how to keep secrets especially personal ones. I really don't like gossiping about other people's life since I don't like being talked about too.